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ErisEnchanted -> I know this shouldn't bother me (7/21/2014 8:00:14 AM)
But what more could I possibly do to stop getting messages saying I'm a fake. I already posted proof on my profile, and honestly, if it's a random person I've never spoken to previously messaging me, I don't owe them shit. I think it might be an attempt to destroy my role as a domme and/or (and more likely) get me on cam free and easy. What's a domme to do?

DesFIP -> RE: I know this shouldn't bother me (7/21/2014 8:02:58 AM)
Ignore them. Block and ignore. It's an attempt to get you to send naked pics or do a free cam show.

stef -> RE: I know this shouldn't bother me (7/21/2014 11:09:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ErisEnchanted I think it might be an attempt to... get me on cam free and easy. Ya think? quote: What's a domme to do? Act like one? Honestly, why do you care what complete strangers think? Charming journal entries, by the way.

Ladytisha -> RE: I know this shouldn't bother me (7/21/2014 11:42:06 AM)
Just like you said you don't owe them shit... keep it moving. No need to validate anything to anyone.

Gauge -> RE: I know this shouldn't bother me (7/21/2014 11:53:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ErisEnchanted But what more could I possibly do to stop getting messages saying I'm a fake. I already posted proof on my profile, and honestly, if it's a random person I've never spoken to previously messaging me, I don't owe them shit. I think it might be an attempt to destroy my role as a domme and/or (and more likely) get me on cam free and easy. What's a domme to do? You're right, it shouldn't bother you. In your profile you state that you are basically perfect... if this is true, why the fuck would you be concerned about some random jackass on the Internet that doesn't believe you are real? Edited to add: How the hell can someone destroy your role as a dominant? This baffles me.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: I know this shouldn't bother me (7/21/2014 4:06:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ErisEnchanted But what more could I possibly do to stop getting messages saying I'm a fake. I already posted proof on my profile, and honestly, if it's a random person I've never spoken to previously messaging me, I don't owe them shit. I think it might be an attempt to destroy my role as a domme and/or (and more likely) get me on cam free and easy. What's a domme to do? I have the same problem as a male sub. I totally understand.

Musicmystery -> RE: I know this shouldn't bother me (7/21/2014 4:09:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ErisEnchanted But what more could I possibly do to stop getting messages saying I'm a fake. I already posted proof on my profile, and honestly, if it's a random person I've never spoken to previously messaging me, I don't owe them shit. I think it might be an attempt to destroy my role as a domme and/or (and more likely) get me on cam free and easy. What's a domme to do? You'd think someone dominant would know.

MrRodgers -> RE: I know this shouldn't bother me (7/21/2014 4:37:40 PM)
I am having rather lurid yet very exciting and arousing, kinky, sexual fantasies about you right now ErinEnchanted and I am sure you would agree that we would both be much more pleased to turn them into reality...face to face...skin to skin. I would then offer you some really great advice on how to handle the Internet miscreant and being THE Internationally recognized and certified kinky, sexual instructor you'd get my...first lesson free.

JstAnotherSub -> RE: I know this shouldn't bother me (7/21/2014 5:27:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ErisEnchanted What's a domme to do? There are quite a few great ones on here. Why don't you ask one of them? The always helpful one, Jst

SeekingTrinity -> RE: I know this shouldn't bother me (7/21/2014 6:04:25 PM)
~FRing it~ Hate to say it, OP...but I think your profile makes you a magnet for exactly what is going on. As to your question...some random internet jackass can't "destroy your role as a domme." That's all on you

DaddySatyr -> RE: I know this shouldn't bother me (7/22/2014 1:13:10 AM)
I don't know why anyone would doubt your sincerity; nor why the term "pay pigs" doesn't have the entire world beating a path to your door. Some peoples' children, I tell ya! Screen captures *still* RULE! Ya feel me?

Gauge -> RE: I know this shouldn't bother me (7/22/2014 2:21:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stef Charming journal entries, by the way. Then you will love the latest one. quote: Gosh darn I forgot all bdsm websites are full of "one twue way" junkies Because, you know, telling a dominant to not sweat the small stuff means we are "one twue way junkies".

thishereboi -> RE: I know this shouldn't bother me (7/22/2014 3:58:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Gauge You're right, it shouldn't bother you. In your profile you state that you are basically perfect... if this is true, why the fuck would you be concerned about some random jackass on the Internet that doesn't believe you are real? Edited to add: How the hell can someone destroy your role as a dominant? This baffles me. I thought the same thing when I first read that but after mulling it over, she may have a point. Just imagine for a minute that you are a male sub looking for the perfect domme. You see a cute pic and go to perv the profile. You notice the journal entries contain nothing but complaints about the pigs on the site. You look up at the profile text and see that she is looking for pigs and you wonder at the inconsistency there. Then you click on the forum posts and find this thread complaining again about the pigs on here. You go back to the profile text and see that she is looking for pigs and you wonder at the inconsistency there. At this point you move on to the next profile and hope to find someone who has at least learned to control herself and actually knows what she is looking for.

MissKittyDeVine -> RE: I know this shouldn't bother me (7/22/2014 9:21:03 AM)
OP, if someone wants you to prove you are female by sending naked pics, then I think you should oblige. Send them the ugliest, most repulsive naked pics you can find on the internet ...

Marioneta -> RE: I know this shouldn't bother me (7/22/2014 9:27:18 AM)
FR Well, OP, what you could do is become a little more graceful about receiving feedback. That can be a challenge when you are so young and defensive and the feedback is blunt. But I recommend you work to improve in this area. You'll be better for it. I know what it is to be called a fake. I've had Dom's freak out and call me a fake for not responding to their most assuredly striking photos that I wasn't interested in thereby proving what a total phoney I must be. It's a bad feeling being called fake. But often I'll find that when an insult really stings it's because I find some truth in it that I don't want to look at.

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