gracefulgirl
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Being a Graceful Submissive
This girl’s awakening did not happen until she was 49 year old. Perhaps there is a reason for that but this girl does regret not realizing just how important her submission was so many years ago.
Meeting a Dominant online that was able to slip into this girl’s mind and heart brought out what she had been hiding from herself and it was a wondrous event in her life. This girl has been involved in one true D/s relationship, and it felt so very right she knew she would spend her life being ALL that He could ever want or need. The fulfillment this girl experienced during T/their time together taught her all I truly needed to know about who she is and what she was meant to be. Alas, that relationship was doomed by His inability to follow through on His commitment. Words can help fill one’s mind with visions but only actions can make them reality.
This girl truly envies the young women that acknowledge that side of themselves when they have their youth, beauty and time, oh precious time to find their One. This girl’s age is now 53 and she has not found her One but if He is out there, she hopes to cross His path so that T/they can embark on the journey of a lifetime.
To this girl being a submissive is more than just a ‘role’, it is a way of thinking, a way of life. This girl’s goal is to please, to bring beauty, joy, a sense of peace, to entice, and to arouse the Dominant in her life. This girl’s writing is not based around BDSM scenes between occasional playmates but on the deep connection between a bonded Dominant and submissive. This girl has experienced nothing more intense and fulfilling that submitting completely, heart, mind, body, and soul to One with her sole (and soul) objective being that she pleases Him.
When in the company of her Dominant a girl should always ensure she is ‘present’, meaning her focus should be on Him, nowhere else. If He is giving His girl the gift of His time, she should appreciate the gift and value it enough to ensure there is nothing distracting her. If she is online with Him, she should be only be conversing with Him, period. If there are distractors around her, she should eliminate them (as in turn off the TV or radio), if at all possible. If she is with Him in person, she should be attentive to His needs and watchful of any signals that He requires any action on her part.
Some scoff at protocols and rules, saying there is no need for them but they do serve a purpose, both for the Dominant and the submissive. Of course the protocols and rules are the decision of the Dominant, some may be easy to comply with, while others test the strength of the girl’s submission.
A greeting established by a Dominant can be a specific title (as in Sir or Master) but the reverent tone His girl uses when voicing that title is what truly pleases Him. For the submissive calling Him by His title gives her a sense of His importance to her, He is not just a lover or friend, He is her owner.
The way His girl holds her body in a graceful and pleasing way be it standing, kneeling, or presenting is what pleases Him. The girl’s attention to detail on her posture, her stance, her ability to hold that position, her eyes be they downcast or open and clear, all bring pleasure to Him. Her mannerisms and the movement of her body should be graceful and reflect her submissive nature. His girl benefits as she is not only following His directive but He can sense her submission in her manner and poise.
Dressing in a manner pleasing to her Dominant serves a variety of purposes to Him. she represents Him, she can bring Him honor or shame, her objective should be to ONLY bring Him honor. Dependent upon His mood He may want His girl to look poised and sophisticated for an event or outing. Perhaps He wants her looking innocent and pure or then again like a wanton slut, His preference is what she should seek to emulate. His girl enjoys dressing to please Him, she sees the admiration in His eyes as He looks upon His property, and she knows that she brings Him pleasure and pride.
His girl having a healthy mind and body is not only pleasing but necessary. He should be able to have discussions with His girl on a variety of topics and know that she is understands what He is conveying to her. If her Dominant has an interest in a variety of subjects, she should take the time to learn about them as intelligent conversation can be just as alluring to a Dominant as sexy lingerie. A healthy body is not just one that looks great in a bikini. Maintaining a healthy diet with regular exercise will ensure that His girl has the stamina to keep up with His physical needs. It also shows that she cares enough about herself to ensure she is healthy inside and out. Youth does not last forever so establishing good habits early on will lead to healthy lifestyle for life.
Just as important as appearance and demeanor is the willing and enthusiasm His girl has in understanding Him as a person. Learning to read Him so she can anticipate His needs without being too forward. How to ensure His needs in regard to comfort are met can vary from Dominant to Dominant. It is up to His girl to understand what He would perceive as helpful and pleasing, and not intrusive and annoying. It may be a fine line but His girl should always strive to be seen in a positive light, the rewards for positive behavior are priceless.
The activities enjoyed between Dominant and submissive also vary quite radically. Thorough discussions should be had between T/them to understand what each person’s needs are. Honesty, trust, open communication and consistency are necessary from both individuals. If T/their needs do not align then the relationship will not last. His girl should never hide anything from Him, she needs to share her every thought, fear, and joy with Him. She must be open to His needs, and honest about those she feels she cannot meet. He will know His submissive well enough to know when to push and when to back off. She should always convey her feelings in a respectful manner. Finding the right fit and then continually working on the relationship is what will keep it successful.
D/s – M/s is a very special relationship, to this girl it is assuredly an exchange of power. Trust and a strong bond is built between the two individuals one Dominant, the other submissive. They have both been forthright in expressing their needs and wants, they understand what it will take to keep the other happy and satisfied, they need the exchange of power for them both to feel complete in that relationship.
The gift of herself is earned, then given, and accepted with reverence, not arrogance and it is treasured. A person trusting another enough to place their well-being (physical, mental, and emotional) in their hands is a beautiful experience.
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