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kinksterparty -> Late lunch and evening of play, or "A Sunday Well-Spent" (7/28/2014 6:19:48 PM)
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Not the first meeting I've had off this site, but one definitely worth writing about... and I actually have a few minutes this time.
Without getting into too many details... One of the ladies I've been talking to, finally got an evening free from her hectic vanilla schedule, and we decided to meet for a late lunch. The conversation meandered through several subjects, but kept coming back to our immediate needs. Both of us being busy professionals, we were completely in sync with the concept of getting things done in a limited timeframe, and both of us being communicative and honest, details of play were introduced, discussed, and agreed upon.
It was also agreed that there would be no sex, since it would take the encounter from the territory of "2 kinksters helping each other out" right into the "casual fuck on the 1st date", which is a different story altogether. (Just putting this right out here, since I'm writing this as an encouragement / note-of-thanks, rather than providing OC spank-bank material.)
After lunch, we went to her place, since she had some equipment, as well as for the "home court" comfort factor. Got comfortable, talked a little more, then got down to business. Again, no details, but it was fun, safe, consensual, and resulted in both of us being more satisfied than expected, and needing a break after a few hours. We agreed to meet again "sometime soon", and I departed, in a happy fog... and having learned a few new tricks ;)
Communication + honesty + being completely adult about what you want / what you will do / what you will not do + a little decisiveness = an excellent night of safe fun and new experiences/skills, without any drama, regrets, or unnecessary risks.
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