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RE: Best & worst things to see in a sub/slave's profile? - 9/25/2014 9:18:37 AM

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I guess my issue is that I almost never see a yahoo on a well developed profile. It always seems to be "horny slave needs a master to use her no limits <yahoo>".

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RE: Best & worst things to see in a sub/slave's profile? - 9/25/2014 9:22:24 AM

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Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects, you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile... etc.

^ seeing that in a profile always sends up a flag. Makes me chuckle like when I see a Chinese knockoff copy the copyright notice they are violating.

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RE: Best & worst things to see in a sub/slave's profile? - 9/25/2014 9:25:54 AM

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Yeah, that one really is so damn annoying.

NO MEN. NO MEN. NO MEN.

SET YOUR MAIL CONTROLS. SET YOUR MAIL CONTROLS. SET YOUR MAIL CONTROLS.

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RE: Best & worst things to see in a sub/slave's profile? - 9/25/2014 9:31:57 AM

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I want to comment on what someone said about how not listing specific BDSM interests are a red flag.

I am very experienced and I do not list any of my sexual interests in my profile. Why?

Because when I used to list them, I got far more fetishists, horny guys and uninteresting replies because they would focus on acts vs.getting to know me.

Since I am seeking someone to be compatible with on all levels, this helps weed out those who can only focus on specific things, thinking, wow, if she lists spanking, we must be compatible.

Also, everything I have done in the past will always be new with a new person. I might love something or hate it, depending on the person.

So for me, the getting to know you process is better than a list of preferences.

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RE: Best & worst things to see in a sub/slave's profile? - 9/25/2014 9:47:05 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

I want to comment on what someone said about how not listing specific BDSM interests are a red flag.

I am very experienced and I do not list any of my sexual interests in my profile. Why?

Because when I used to list them, I got far more fetishists, horny guys and uninteresting replies because they would focus on acts vs.getting to know me.

Since I am seeking someone to be compatible with on all levels, this helps weed out those who can only focus on specific things, thinking, wow, if she lists spanking, we must be compatible.

Also, everything I have done in the past will always be new with a new person. I might love something or hate it, depending on the person.

So for me, the getting to know you process is better than a list of preferences.

That's reasonable. I would generally say that maybe including some overarching basics, but sure. I get that all the females have reason to weed thier inbox as much as possible.

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RE: Best & worst things to see in a sub/slave's profile? - 9/25/2014 9:58:39 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Yeah, that one really is so damn annoying.

NO MEN. NO MEN. NO MEN.

SET YOUR MAIL CONTROLS. SET YOUR MAIL CONTROLS. SET YOUR MAIL CONTROLS.

Exactly! Especially since the men who tend to email these profiles will not read a darn word of the text.

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RE: Best & worst things to see in a sub/slave's profile? - 9/25/2014 10:13:01 AM

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That no men thing in a girls profile (which is usually a man anyhow) is like advertising an all the pussy you want smorgasbord, and oh yeah, they read that stupid shit, and that is why they are inundating your mailbox.

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