FriendlyMuppet
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There are numerous submissives who are into it for the purpose of pleasing the dominant, but I have met very few of them who are into it just for the sake of doing work for someone else. As a known service submissive, I'm very much the sort of person who goes way out of his way to do anything I can to make my mistress happy, and will sacrifice large chunks of my personal time to do even the most mundane tasks she asks (or demands) of me, mainly because in the end I know that she'll be pleased with me and keep me a part of her inner circle, even if I'm at the very lowest point of the pecking order in that circle of hers. When these types of relationships have worked, there's usually a sense of desire on her part to interact with me in a D/s social construct, while that can range from meticulous scrutiny of my every behavior with little to no overt sexual reciprocation all the way to lifestyle sexual slavery; each relationship is a microcosm of activity that is a petri dish of all sorts of variation.
The absolutism of someone wanting a servant who has no interaction other than just doing stuff for another often feels to me to be a Cheshire cat in relationships as there's often little incentive for the submissive to be involved. I remember a female dominant who pursued me once because she knew I was a service submissive, and she wanted someone to come in and clean her home, do all sorts of tasks that needed to be done, and because she was so well known of a dominant, she figured that because she was too superior to anyone who would do such a thing, she would have one of her male submissives supervise me instead because she just didn't have the desire to waste her time on someone of that low a status. She couldn't figure out why this was extremely unattractive to me, and when I turned down her "offer" she got all upset and claimed I obviously wasn't a "true" submissive because a true one would have jumped at the chance. Her mindset wasn't that different from others I've come across who don't understand that with absolutely no interaction in the D/s relationship, I'd be just as well off cleaning my own house instead of hers. Actually, I'd be better off because then my house would actually be cleaned.
To this day, that woman is still seeking that Holy Grail of a submissive and keeps dumping new ones that claim they are exactly what she wanted me to be. It just takes her months to realize they're playing games with her and thought they'd use that proximity to her in hopes of making it into what they fantasize about instead of what she was actually offering. Because she always has a stable of willing applicants, she is convinced that she'll find that guy eventually.
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