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Loosening up? - 11/23/2004 4:49:54 PM

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I love ass play, probably more than anything else. A Mistress that I've been seeing loves to use a strap on on me, and expressed interest in eventually being able to fist me. I'm looking for suggestions on what would be a good, and safe way to loosen myself up.

Thank you in advance.

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RE: Loosening up? - 11/23/2004 4:52:42 PM

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Using a series of insertables with gradually increasing diameter would probably be the easiest way.

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RE: Loosening up? - 11/23/2004 5:27:22 PM

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im in agreeance with sfgrrl.
There are also inflatable butt plugs that are available, they have the pump thingy (like when you get your blood pressure taken) that gradually inflates the plug. They are usually available at the *naughty shops*

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RE: Loosening up? - 11/23/2004 6:55:07 PM

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Butt plugs are the way to go.

Or you could try sitting on an orange traffic cone.

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RE: Loosening up? - 11/23/2004 7:16:36 PM

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Now their is an idea! =-p

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RE: Loosening up? - 11/23/2004 10:10:28 PM

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Here's a thread on butt plugs:

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RE: Loosening up? - 11/24/2004 11:30:39 AM

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Just a quick note:

Most people think that anal play and/or sex will make your rectum "looser". By this, they are referring to being able to defecate easier, accept anal entry easier, cannot hold in gas as easy, etc. etc. In other word, they are implying that anal training makes the rectum weaker in some sense. This is not what anal training does.

What it does is this: make the muscles of the rectum more limber. Compare it to any other muscle in the body. If you do yoga on a regular basis, you are learning to stretch all the various muscles in your body. You are not making these muscles weaker by doing this; you are making them more limber and, in a lot of cases, stronger.

I just thought I’d point that out…probably been said already, but it bears repeating.

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RE: Loosening up? - 11/24/2004 1:29:33 PM

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quote:

cannot hold in gas as easy, etc. etc. In other word, they are implying that anal training makes the rectum weaker in some sense. This is not what anal training does.

Thank Goodness, don't want to have that gas problem.

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RE: Loosening up? - 11/24/2004 9:04:01 PM

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There is a wonderful book on the subject. "Trust: the hand book" by Bert Herman This book is specific to Fisting...

Another good book is "Anal pleasure and health" by Jack Morin Ph.d

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