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RE: How to get rid of a slave that really has nothing - 9/23/2014 7:26:06 PM

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So here is a hypothetical situation. Let's say you have a slave that said they wanted to be a house slave 24/7. When people say that they dont seem to grasp the fact that employers look at work history before they even interview you. If you have a big gap in employment history it looks terrible and you probably won't get the interview. So this slave doesnt have a job and is totally dependant on you for the basic things they need to survive in life. If you got rid of them they don't have a job and really have zero chance of finding one that they could support themselves on. That slave has basically become as close to a real slave to you as one can get in real life. If you ask them to leave they are in deep shit. So how does a relationship like that end?

I'm not even remotely certain what you're asking.

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RE: How to get rid of a slave that really has nothing - 9/24/2014 5:43:01 PM

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I've had a few Dominants tell me that they are looking for a slave to stay home and I have told them that is the STRONGEST hard limit I have that I will never change.

I will always insist on being able to have a job outside of the home and being able to keep my own money. I may contribute to the household expenses, and my Master may have some control over how much I spend in "pocket money", but other than that.....it's my money to keep for myself, especially in case the relationship ever ends.

My thoughts exactly. I may love you, I may serve you, but you will never take my ability to take care of myself should the worst case scenario happen.

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RE: How to get rid of a slave that really has nothing - 10/5/2014 3:44:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: thezigg

So here is a hypothetical situation. Let's say you have a slave that said they wanted to be a house slave 24/7.
If you have a big gap in employment history it looks terrible and you probably won't get the interview.
So this slave doesnt have a job and is totally dependant on you for the basic things they need to survive in life.
If you got rid of them they don't have a job and really have zero chance of finding one that they could support themselves on.
That slave has basically become as close to a real slave to you as one can get in real life. If you ask them to leave they are in deep shit.
So how does a relationship like that end?

Dunno ... never been in this type of relationship. But I imagine, if I was a slave, the owner would prefer me working full-time. The extra income would be nice.

About your scenario, what I can say is what others have said .... there are ways to fill an employment gap in your work history.

I have had to do that, and have done so successfully, in the past.

ROFL ... heck, the CFO with the last company I interviewed with said, " Your work history reminds me of Paladin, from the old TV show, "Have Gun will Travel".

Got an offer too! So it can be done.

And btw, didn't realize this thread was so old ... it was up near the top! LOL

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RE: How to get rid of a slave that really has nothing - 10/20/2014 4:00:53 PM

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It seems to me he does have an employment history. He can't very well list slave on his resume, but he can certainly put "butler" "personal assistant" "landscaper"...etc. These are all transferable skills, and since he hasn't really been motivated to work up until now anyway, starting out doing housekeeping at a hotel or hospital should be a place that he would be greatly valued. I desire to be a full time slave, but I also recognize the need to have sources of income, investments, and something for my retirement. I'm not sure why this was not discussed during the hammering out of the contract, but it seems like that horse has already left the barn. And here is the catch-22 of TPE: what you own, you become responsible for. Forgive my forwardness, but the truth is the truth. If you no longer require his service, then the decent thing to do would be to give him a cut off date, assist him with composing a stellar (yet honest) resume, and get to pushing him to those job interviews so he can be gone.The less humane thing to do would be to pack him up and drop him off at the local homeless shelter.

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RE: How to get rid of a slave that really has nothing - 10/20/2014 4:12:44 PM

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I'm not sure why this was not discussed during the hammering out of the contract

Because many put the sexy fetishy things above all when negotiating something like this and the day to day responsibility doesn't occur to them?

Ideally a situation like this would have been weeded out in the "dating" or consideration phase of forming this kind of relationship, where either the s-type realizes the D-type doesn't have his interests in mind or the D-type realizes all the s-type wants is a long term fantasy. But shit happens and people rush into relationships that sound exciting all the time, vanilla or kink.

Thankfully this is a hypothetical scenario.

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RE: How to get rid of a slave that really has nothing - 10/21/2014 3:45:13 PM

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So here is a hypothetical situation. Let's say you have a slave that said they wanted to be a house slave 24/7. When people say that they dont seem to grasp the fact that employers look at work history before they even interview you. If you have a big gap in employment history it looks terrible and you probably won't get the interview. So this slave doesnt have a job and is totally dependant on you for the basic things they need to survive in life. If you got rid of them they don't have a job and really have zero chance of finding one that they could support themselves on. That slave has basically become as close to a real slave to you as one can get in real life. If you ask them to leave they are in deep shit. So how does a relationship like that end?

Can you re-do that whole post in English?

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RE: How to get rid of a slave that really has nothing - 10/21/2014 5:04:45 PM

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Shoot em in the head and feed em to the hawgs.

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RE: How to get rid of a slave that really has nothing - 10/21/2014 5:59:32 PM

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There are at least 50 ways to leave your lover.

Paul Simon 50 ways to leave your lover

Humming.....
Slip out the back jack.
Make a new plan stan.

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RE: How to get rid of a slave that really has nothing - 10/25/2014 12:01:07 PM

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Seriously, housewifes anyone? And mostly, today a housewife (or even in rare cases a husband) does some type of work from home, has their clubs or charities or what ever it may be.
I can't see how this would be a problem. Obviously the person is at a certain disadvantage but that's why you have marriage contracts and your other half gets half. ;-)

Otherwise I guess it should be an official employment of some sort. The most obvious would be janitor/handyman/butler...if that's "all" he does.

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