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Smoking - 8/24/2014 8:06:57 AM

shouldiQmark

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I have a sudden urge to kiss a woman whilst she smokes.

I 'packed in the fags' in 2003 after polishing off my last packet of duty-frees bought on a business trip.
The best thing that happened was the day we go the UK banned smoking in pubs, I was most vulnerable to caving in when out drinking especially if others were smoking. So July 2007 was a good day as far as my willpower was concerned.

Recently I've had a couple of personal care assistants who are smokers and I often get (lovely) waft of cigarette smoke.

I'm now thinking back to when I did smoke, as did most of my friends, and the taste of someone's mouth when you kissed them.

Wondering now if it would cross a professional line if I asked my (female) PA to kiss me.

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RE: Smoking - 8/24/2014 8:45:53 AM

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No insight re the smoking fetish, but hell yes it would cross a line to ask her to kiss you. Way to make her working environment horribly uncomfortable.

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RE: Smoking - 8/24/2014 9:03:18 AM

shouldiQmark

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Yeah, I realised that about 10 seconds after re-reading it!
I'd be a PA down as quick as I could say 'will you kiss me'.

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RE: Smoking - 8/24/2014 9:08:51 AM

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It would definitely cross the line asking a PA to kiss you. If you get the PAs through an agency, you could lose that agency service. Even if you hire them privately, word travels fast and you might find yourself SOL in finding attendant care.

As for the smoking, let them smoke when they're with you and breathe in the smoke.

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RE: Smoking - 8/24/2014 4:19:43 PM

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Not only is it across the line, but it's likely to cause you to start smoking again.
I haven't smoked in over 30 years but there are still times I miss it. It's an incredibly addictive substance. Don't do it.

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RE: Smoking - 8/24/2014 7:36:59 PM

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I honestly started smoking cigarettes when I was 11 years old. Except for the 4 years I spent in the military. I smoked every day 1 to 3 packs a day for 40 years. I stopped smoking (I say stopped because quitting is a by product of stopping) on January 4th of this year. That was the day I was hospitalized for congestive heart failure. CHF isn't as bad as it sounds but it certainly ain't good and I've really recovered quite well. However, I can't stand to be even near someone smoking now. Even the idea of kissing someone who smokes repulses me. I haven't craved a smoke in the slightest since the day I stopped. Little twinges every once in awhile but they pass quickly. Beware the reformed and all that. So don't do it. It may well, as DesFIP says, cause you to start again and that would truly be a shame.

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