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hello from michigan - 8/31/2014 10:05:29 PM

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hello fellow kinksters! my name is eric, and i have been a slave/submissive in the BDSM lifestyle for over a year and a half now and have been wondering something: can i still be a slave/submissive if i don't have a Mistress? you see, i haven't been very successful in finding a new Mistress in the last year, and i have been doing some thinking and i have decided that i will let my future Mistress find me instead of looking for one; what are your thoughts on this? no rude or disrespectful comments please :)

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RE: hello from michigan - 9/1/2014 4:16:40 AM

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hello fellow kinksters! my name is eric, and i have been a slave/submissive in the BDSM lifestyle for over a year and a half now and have been wondering something: can i still be a slave/submissive if i don't have a Mistress? you see, i haven't been very successful in finding a new Mistress in the last year, and i have been doing some thinking and i have decided that i will let my future Mistress find me instead of looking for one; what are your thoughts on this? no rude or disrespectful comments please :)

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RE: hello from michigan - 9/1/2014 4:52:29 AM

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If you sit around waiting for a mistress to come to you, don't hold your breath waiting, you'll be waiting forever. Whatever you want in life, you have to be active in making it happen. Involve yourself in the bdsm community, go to munches, put yourself out there and meet others in the lifestyle.

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