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Driver1961 -> RE: Are Gay Men Stronger with Feelings then Straight Men? (7/11/2006 7:35:49 PM)
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He enters, dips His lid in classical stereotypical fashion.
Departs, oops a one liner!! Ha Ha.
Gay men are blessed. They can be femme queens or rough macho bears and people just say, they're QUEER or don't realize anything different about them.
Does this mean they are 'SENSITIVE' / 'are in touch with their feminine side'? One queen I know is definately 'in touch' but with all the negative bits, self obsessed with beauty products, always on full or extended credit limit and a complete bitch with what thoughts fly out of his mouth! Ah but he is lovable even though detestable.
I have been viewed by Macho and macho lovers as 'gay' yet have no problems 'picking a trench', 'stacking pallets', chainsawing a massive tree' and puffing my chest and talking about the 'sock' in my pants but I really can't be bothered changing to suit others. I do have my doubts of how others view me at times but hey.... I am me and I have travelled a long way picking up knowledge to be where I stand today... so accept the black leather coat, black hat, and white leather tennis shoed Dom before you.... If you don't accept me...it's your loss cos my friends return the fierce loyalty and strength that I give to them.- so obviously you don't possess these in the first instance- hence your loss.
I can sew, recover a lounge suite, cook, and natter on about the best of 'female business' with more knowledge than your average female. I am not gay (I'm a gay batchelor but those evil 'Bastards' hijacked that lovely GAY word for their own sense of identity!'
sexual orientation does not possess empathy and understanding. It is society's wish to categorise people into mutually acceptable groups reflecting all encompassing values. (stereotypes)
There was a metrosexual thread last week, now we might have a gay thread, and we have numerous threads on what is desirable in a Dom. I fit to all yet refute many of these 'elements' that slot one into these stereotypes.
I love and hate stereotypes, it is an unfortunate part of life that our psyche demands 'categories' for knowledge and learning but it is the less journeyed that fail to see this.
Warm regards to all, and please.... I am serious about the gay batchelor bit, and have said this amid much laughter in gay clubs.
Driver 1961. Sir to His loving WildChild.
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