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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/12/2006 11:12:05 AM   
slo18


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Status: offline 		yes she probibly isnt as in experinced with anal insertions as she lead u to believe  but  I would say she is inexperinced in the life style.    as for this being  punishment. shrugs  does it matter,  my ex feance used to punish me with plugs and I both hated and loved it.  do try haveing her wear one for progressivly longer periods  of time. but  lets not forget the possability of dammage when u use progressivly large items over a long period of time, there is nothing sexy about a prolapsed anus.

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/12/2006 1:32:01 PM   
waverider66


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Status: offline 		I do appreciate all the advice. To answer a few of you.....

Yes, she is very inexperienced but not inexperienced in anal, she just gets off on it, would rather have something in her ass than her pussy. I dont know how or why she considers this punishment except that this is her fantasy. Whether or not it is punishment, in her mind she is at least role-playing that it is punishment. She is not pulling my chain, she is setting boundaries untill she feels safe.

I really thank you all for your replies, I had no idea how great everyone is here.For the record, I'm off to the Oriental Market for some Ginger root.

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/12/2006 1:36:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		Just a thought, some people, especially people who are new to the lifestyle, have read a bunch of BDSM fiction which uses the term punishment interchangably with the word play. So punishment in the fiction is always fun and not really punishment.

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/12/2006 2:28:51 PM   
SexyRed


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Status: offline 		Aside from all the great ideas offered already, dripping wax is also very good as punishment/fun.

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/12/2006 2:34:25 PM   
Noah


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That is a good idea, a but plug that is no problem at first can be quite anoying after a few houers of walking around.


... at which point it becomes a better idea.

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/14/2006 6:43:58 AM   
justheather


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ORIGINAL: Kinkypupper

Habanero pepper sauce.
Nuff said.


NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Not a safe thing.
It is damaging to the tissues


It will damage tissues.
As opposed to spanking, flogging, pinching, tweaking, beating, cutting, pulling etc etc etc and anything else you can think of that leaves a mark indicating tissue damage. (What do you think a welt, bruise or laceration is?)
Unless your kink is being hermetically sealed, lying motionless on the living room floor with proper pillow support and intermittent passive range of motion being applied by licensed physical therapists, there are going to be risks involved.

What is important is that you are risk-aware.



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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/14/2006 3:49:31 PM   
tpas69


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Status: offline 		Punishment this sounds more like a treat for her maybe a different approach is needed ...if she really needs punishment and all these items aren't doing the trick maybe an orgy might be an idea.

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/14/2006 3:54:10 PM   
serenebeauty


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Status: offline 		You're the second person to suggest no lube--guys, that is flat out dangerous to the girl. Perhaps her limits could be pushed without risking permanent harm. 

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/14/2006 5:12:38 PM   
CrappyDom


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Status: offline 		serene,

Lube is not always required and I say that as someone who for a large reason rarely gets to enjoy anal sex.  For some women it might always be required but that is not the same as saying it is always required for all women.

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/14/2006 6:31:13 PM   
wild1cfl


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serene,

Lube is not always required and I say that as someone who for a large reason rarely gets to enjoy anal sex.  For some women it might always be required but that is not the same as saying it is always required for all women.


I have to agree with you CrappyDom, my slave loves anal. I can put almost anything up her ass without lube and she will enjoy it. While I will use lube on her when I am fistng her anally, I do not have to use it everytime I put something in her ass, she seems to have a natural lubrication there.

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/14/2006 8:03:11 PM   
Sinergy


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I had a submissive once who enjoyed the fact that I would order what food she was going to eat that night.

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ORIGINAL: slave4mzpatti

Take her out for that coffee with a butt plug in place.


So one night we are out at dinner at a nice restaurant, she was sitting next to me with a very quiet vibrating butt plug inserted.

I ask her to order for both of us.

As she is attempting to give our food order to the waiter, I have my hand in the pocket playing with the vibrator control.  It was amusing to watch her attempt to order pasta e fagioli followed by scampi al diavolo with a nice chianti rustico.

Priceless.  She thought so too.

Sinergy

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/24/2006 9:35:04 PM   
perfectlyflawed


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Status: offline 		To diffuse anything with an oil, and it is the ginger oil that makes ginger root so uhmmm HOT, use mayonnaise. Yes, I know, hard to believe but true.

Another good trick that is rarely known and totally unrelated to this subject is "How the hell do I get the word "slut" off my ass when it's written in permanent Sharpie?" Answer: Salt Water.

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/25/2006 3:41:06 AM   
nephandi


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Status: offline 		What aboute using the anal play as a reward and denying her the plessure of it as punishment?

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/25/2006 9:36:22 AM   
afeathr


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ORIGINAL: slave4mzpatti

Take her out for that coffee with a butt plug in place.


Maybe include a very tight rope g-string as well... see how she responds to that!  (I've done that, it's rather torturous after a while)

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/25/2006 5:22:12 PM   
ShibariJon


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Status: offline 		What about using a butt plug made from ice ?  is this to perhaps dangerous or unusually  cruel for the intended recipient

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/25/2006 6:01:29 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Well if it were me I'd take her to an Adult Toy Store and have her pick out her own buttplug(s)
Why not mix a little embarrassment in with it for fun?

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/26/2006 11:27:22 AM   
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As a general safety rule people should always use a lubricant when engaging in any sort of anal play, if you choose to disregard basic safety advice that’s fine though I still think everyone should be aware of it. Using a lube drastically reduces the chance that a toy or whatever will do any internal damage though having said that I am not trying to suggest that you are automatically going to cause internal damage if you do not use lube though the risk of doing so is increased.

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/27/2006 7:23:57 PM   
ThatLilBrat


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ORIGINAL: nephandi

What aboute using the anal play as a reward and denying her the plessure of it as punishment?


That's just plain sadistic <cracks up>

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/27/2006 7:27:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Well if it were me I'd take her to an Adult Toy Store and have her pick out her own buttplug(s)
Why not mix a little embarrassment in with it for fun?


embarrassment???   ... you've never  been shopping with me. I'm like a kid at Christmas ... I ask everyone's opinion. Ask for fresh batteries to test the buzzie toys. And of course, ask "Got it in purple?"

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/27/2006 10:01:13 PM   
Evanesce


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quote:

As a general safety rule people should always use a lubricant when engaging in any sort of anal play, if you choose to disregard basic safety advice that’s fine though I still think everyone should be aware of it. Using a lube drastically reduces the chance that a toy or whatever will do any internal damage though having said that I am not trying to suggest that you are automatically going to cause internal damage if you do not use lube though the risk of doing so is increased.


I have to agree with Tiger here.  Once beyond the anal sphincter, the internal tissues are extremely delicate and can easily tear.  If this tissue is torn and fecal matter spills into the abdominal cavity, peritonitis and/or sepsis can set in, and these can be fatal.  Precautions should definitely be taken, and lube is a simple precaution.

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