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To Do Again Or To Not Do Again. That Is The Question &l... - 7/11/2006 8:24:11 PM

MistressOfGa

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What is the ONE thing that you have done as a Domina, that you would do all over again, given the chance?

What is the ONE thing you have done as a Domina, that you would NOT do again, if given the chance?

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RE: To Do Again Or To Not Do Again. That Is The Questio... - 7/11/2006 9:10:17 PM

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Dear MistressOfGa, Ladies and Gentlemen;

You wrote;

Hard to stay to the limit of one...but;

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

What is the ONE thing that you have done as a Domina, that you would do all over again, given the chance?

Have my first slave, a Gay male and joined by other Gay slave males into my poly family, at home, well fitted dungeon and have the beautiful loving Master-slave relationship that was so special. I am still moved to tears in missing them so deeply.

What is the ONE thing you have done as a Domina, that you would NOT do again, if given the chance?

Being taken and ripped off by untruthful sorts. My compassion at times gets me into trouble and I'm prone to bankrupt my funds and my health to help others. I don't mind helping others but, when people lie about their circumstances and I refit entire toy bags that were claimed to be stolen, lost to damage to the tune of $5,000.00 plus only to find out that not one toy was lost, stolen or damaged--I feel raped and disrespected. The same goes for claiming no funds for car insurance, food, medicines, etc., only to find out that they indeed have funds.

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RE: To Do Again Or To Not Do Again. That Is The Questio... - 7/11/2006 10:02:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

What is the ONE thing that you have done as a Domina, that you would do all over again, given the chance?

What is the ONE thing you have done as a Domina, that you would NOT do again, if given the chance?

Switches/Submissives you may also answer these questions if you would like to.
greetings,dear godds. misstress ga,
to ans. your important questions
,AS A SUB,and slave;I'D STARVE ,AGAIN ;BUT ; I'D NEVER SING.

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RE: To Do Again Or To Not Do Again. That Is The Questio... - 7/12/2006 12:10:55 AM

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Guess i will be the 1st to say, i am scratching my head at the rug's response?

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RE: To Do Again Or To Not Do Again. That Is The Questio... - 7/12/2006 12:38:07 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

What is the ONE thing that you have done as a Domina, that you would do all over again, given the chance?

What is the ONE thing you have done as a Domina, that you would NOT do again, if given the chance?

What I would do again: It's hard to pick only one thing, but I it would be great to be in another long-term, loving relationship with a male submissive.

What I would NOT do again: Get in involved with a SAM (smart-assed masochist). A lot of time wasted with sassiness, brattiness, and defiance that I could have lived without. Yes, he turned out to be a decent submissive after a lot of work, but I wouldn't go through that again. He was lucky he came into My life when I was relatively new to the lifestyle, because today I would not put up with it. I realize there are Dommes who like SAM's, but I'm not one of them.

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RE: To Do Again Or To Not Do Again. That Is The Questio... - 7/12/2006 8:27:03 AM

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quote:

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What is the ONE thing that you have done as a Domina, that you would do all over again, given the chance?

Have multiple slaves in my household, in fact it would be ideal for me to have at least one female slave.

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What is the ONE thing you have done as a Domina, that you would NOT do again, if given the chance?

Own someone who is married or otherwise coupled all ready. That's adding in two people at once and that doesn't allow for the adjustments that are necessary for a healthy family.

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RE: To Do Again Or To Not Do Again. That Is The Questio... - 7/12/2006 9:23:33 AM

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The thing I would not do again is try to Mentor a bisexual sub who has mental issues that I am not qualified to handle. I finally told her to wait a while before she considered training. She was grieving over a family member, and I should have let that one go. I did get a letter of apology from her today. Part of it was my fault because I was not qualified enough to handle that situation.

The thing I have found I am good at is training Male Doms to find their sub side. I enjoy that, and they appreciate knowing what it feels like to be a sub.

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RE: To Do Again Or To Not Do Again. That Is The Questio... - 7/12/2006 10:11:12 AM

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One thing I would do again: Take a chance on someone I felt had potential but lacked the proper motivation and/or discipline.

One thing I would never do again: Stay in an established relationship where I was aware that I was not getting what I wanted or needed from it. Loyalty often leads to rationalizations that defy logic.

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RE: To Do Again Or To Not Do Again. That Is The Questio... - 7/12/2006 3:03:34 PM

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What would I do again?

I will always take risks, go to events of all types and sizes, meet new people,
discuss new ideas, observe, listen, ask questions and learn.

What I never do again?

I will never again have sessions on a regular basis with a sub who
is married or otherwise involved. There was way too much drama
in the form of insecurities and jealousy, even though sex was never part of the equation.

Vendaval

< Message edited by Vendaval -- 7/12/2006 3:04:41 PM >

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RE: To Do Again Or To Not Do Again. That Is The Questio... - 7/12/2006 3:09:44 PM

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quote:

What is the ONE thing that you have done as a Domina, that you would do all over again, given the chance?

Take on someone (amazing) who was fresh out of the wrapper.

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What is the ONE thing you have done as a Domina, that you would NOT do again, if given the chance?

Take on a vampire sub (as in energy sucker who gives nothing back).

Celeste

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RE: To Do Again Or To Not Do Again. That Is The Questio... - 7/12/2006 3:17:07 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

What is the ONE thing that you have done as a Domina, that you would do all over again, given the chance?

I would always take a chance on love, as I have with My apb.

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What is the ONE thing you have done as a Domina, that you would NOT do again, if given the chance?

I would not have tried to live as vanilla, for any reason.

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RE: To Do Again Or To Not Do Again. That Is The Questio... - 7/13/2006 5:48:55 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

What is the ONE thing that you have done as a Domina, that you would do all over again, given the chance?

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa
What is the ONE thing you have done as a Domina, that you would NOT do again, if given the chance?

Switches/Submissives you may also answer these questions if you would like to.

Well the first one is hard, because I am finding myself still doing the 'one' things over again

, so as I try to think back, I guess having had only once fisted a woman and brought her to multiple orgasms, would be the one thing I would do again if I could.

The one thing I would never do again is easy, I would never go back to prodoming.

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RE: To Do Again Or To Not Do Again. That Is The Questio... - 7/13/2006 9:57:23 PM

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What is the ONE thing that you have done as a Domina, that you would do all over again, given the chance?

Own a fully collared slave... one who is a blend of kink and vanilla.... romance and edge....

What is the ONE thing you have done as a Domina, that you would NOT do again, if given the chance?

Spend years with a slave who I knew I had no future with long term....romantically....

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