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Question - 9/15/2014 11:25:13 PM   
Silviu123


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Status: offline 		Is there any posible way to have a live-in house slave ? i mean with no outside contact? just like in the films, his/her only job is to take care of the house and take care of his/her Master/Mistress needs.

i know is a huge responsibility and it's very hard to have a live-in slave but You know any relationship based on this lifestyle ?



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RE: Question - 9/15/2014 11:52:37 PM   
Gauge


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ORIGINAL: Silviu123

Is there any posible way to have a live-in house slave ?


Of course it is possible.

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i mean with no outside contact?


You mean, like they come live at your home, and never contact their family or anyone else they might know? Sure, you could, but would they want to do that?

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just like in the films, his/her only job is to take care of the house and take care of his/her Master/Mistress needs.


Just like in which films? Porn? Every other film out there, most live in servants have families.

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i know is a huge responsibility and it's very hard to have a live-in slave but You know any relationship based on this lifestyle ?


It takes money to have someone at home, live with you, support them, take care of their health care needs, and have them be happy and healthy. It is not practical to do what it is you are looking for unless you have the resources and the right person to pull it off.

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RE: Question - 9/16/2014 3:29:20 AM   
DerangedUnit


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Status: offline 		yep it's possible. my daddy keeps me in a motel room across from his work and ive left twice, once to grab conditioner and the second to spend the day with my sister. other than that i only go out with him and he comes by to feed me or do naughty stuff... and i cost per month about what a day with an escort costs... if you only look on the optimistic side there you go ;)

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RE: Question - 9/16/2014 4:32:28 AM   
InHisHeart


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Status: offline 		I agree with what Gauge said and I'll ask what backup plan would you have for yourself?

Say you're living this life for years, you had no contact with the outside world, no means of taking care of yourself and your Mistress/Master/whoever drops dead, becomes terminally ill, ends up in a nursing home or just decides you're no longer wanted, where does that leave you?

Unless you're married or she/he is wealthy and legally leaves all assets to you that will sustain you at least until you can take care of yourself, you'll find yourself out in the cold on the street. Where will you go, where will you live, how will you support yourself and how will you survive?

I also have to ask, what films are you talking about?

Since DerangedUnit is living in this type environment, maybe she can answer the above questions.

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RE: Question - 9/16/2014 8:18:25 AM   
DerangedUnit


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Status: offline 		nah, the point was it's possible. the nitty gritty details are best saved for when it matters.

answers are never cut and dry, you can give a million excuses why not to, in the end what matters is 'do you want to'. if you are willing to put in the work to get what you want than you are willing to put in the work to figure it out along the way.

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RE: Question - 9/16/2014 9:35:27 AM   
aphrodite5


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Status: offline 		NO outside contact at all would mean that servant is not taking care of my needs, personally. I want my property to have healthcare, sure, but on a more selfish level, I want someone who can attend to me in public. Drive me out, fetch my drink, take in my dry cleaning, and dozens of other things that require contact with the outside world.

I think you're not going to find many people who want a live-in slave who does not leave the house. That said, if you do, I second the suggestion that you have a backup plan. A savings account in only your name, an up-to-date resume -- maybe with volunteer work for your non-employed time, or your Master/Mistress as an employer (room and board is a form of payment for your services).

Some people would be perfectly happy to live this way. I can't knock it. But most of the time, the reality is far less appealing than the fantasy.

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RE: Question - 9/16/2014 11:34:35 AM   
SeekingTrinity


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No outside contact seems damned near impossible to pull off in all honesty. UPS/FedEx/USPS, the repairman, the landlord, the dominant's family/friends stopping by, taking the dominant's pet for a walk, the chatty neighbor yakking you up over the fence as you weed the front yard flower beds, motel housekeeping, etc. I don't know about anyone else, but I want my UPS packages signed for and brought in...rather than having to play meet up with them or leaving my crap on the porch for the friendly neighborhood tweaker to 'borrow permanently without permission.'t. What happens if I don't feel like driving myself around that day? Or I have some medical procedure that requires me to have a driver to take me home? Or I flat out cannot stand the thought of doing the grocery shopping that day because inconsiderate people there annoy me to the point of wanting to rip their heart out of their chest?

It's great for fantasy, but not many can pull it off in reality. Just my $0.02

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RE: Question - 9/16/2014 1:56:07 PM   
CountDrackula


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Status: offline 		your profile is gone your partner must have come home

there is no way, but you may get some guy...i require i hoard of rampaging nymphomaniacs too clean my hovel of the real variety

i am handsome you are not I would drown almost all with my very being and soul....or certainly down the loo pan, head first....
but none rap at my chamber door

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RE: Question - 9/16/2014 5:24:40 PM   
Gauge


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ORIGINAL: DerangedUnit

yep it's possible. my daddy keeps me in a motel room across from his work and ive left twice, once to grab conditioner and the second to spend the day with my sister. other than that i only go out with him and he comes by to feed me or do naughty stuff... and i cost per month about what a day with an escort costs... if you only look on the optimistic side there you go ;)


I said it is possible. It is likely impractical for the overwhelming majority of people interested in doing such a thing.

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RE: Question - 9/17/2014 6:47:55 AM   
thishereboi


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ORIGINAL: DerangedUnit

yep it's possible. my daddy keeps me in a motel room across from his work and ive left twice, once to grab conditioner and the second to spend the day with my sister. other than that i only go out with him and he comes by to feed me or do naughty stuff... and i cost per month about what a day with an escort costs... if you only look on the optimistic side there you go ;)



Wow, how much do escorts cost these days? Just the room for a month would cost a bit, then there is food for a month and any personal hygiene items you would need. And if you factor in the time spent fixing food and bringing it to you, I would say it is much more costly than a day with an escort and way to much work to be worth it. But it you embellish it a bit, it might make for some really good fantasy porn.

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RE: Question - 9/17/2014 8:09:17 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		In addition to the dominant having to run all the errands, this also means the sub isn't available to serve as a companion to the dominant. Let's say he has some boring thing to do and wants company. Nope, you get to stay home and eat bon bons while he does it. He has to go to the movies alone because you don't do that.

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RE: Question - 9/17/2014 8:21:29 PM   
Delilya


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ORIGINAL: DerangedUnit

yep it's possible. my daddy keeps me in a motel room across from his work and ive left twice, once to grab conditioner and the second to spend the day with my sister. other than that i only go out with him and he comes by to feed me or do naughty stuff... and i cost per month about what a day with an escort costs... if you only look on the optimistic side there you go ;)


And yet your journal is full of outings.


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RE: Question - 9/18/2014 9:23:38 PM   
DerangedUnit


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ORIGINAL: Delilya


quote:

ORIGINAL: DerangedUnit

yep it's possible. my daddy keeps me in a motel room across from his work and ive left twice, once to grab conditioner and the second to spend the day with my sister. other than that i only go out with him and he comes by to feed me or do naughty stuff... and i cost per month about what a day with an escort costs... if you only look on the optimistic side there you go ;)


And yet your journal is full of outings.



i figured the op did not mean outings with your owner as that would fall into "meeting the needs of her master" i have left 2 times on my own.... multiple times to go out with him. but of course you probably knew that since you took the time to read enough of my journal to get to my accounts of excitedly detailing what i plan on wearing for date night lol

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RE: Question - 9/18/2014 9:35:01 PM   
DerangedUnit


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ORIGINAL: thishereboi


quote:

ORIGINAL: DerangedUnit

yep it's possible. my daddy keeps me in a motel room across from his work and ive left twice, once to grab conditioner and the second to spend the day with my sister. other than that i only go out with him and he comes by to feed me or do naughty stuff... and i cost per month about what a day with an escort costs... if you only look on the optimistic side there you go ;)



Wow, how much do escorts cost these days? Just the room for a month would cost a bit, then there is food for a month and any personal hygiene items you would need. And if you factor in the time spent fixing food and bringing it to you, I would say it is much more costly than a day with an escort and way to much work to be worth it. But it you embellish it a bit, it might make for some really good fantasy porn.


the motel is a bit of an expense, and temporary. when living with people in there house it costs next to nothing. if you just want them to eat scraps off your plate. i find it strange that people who think cost is the most important factor in a relationship wouldnt know how to scrounge off the top. personally caring about each other and meeting one anothers needs is more important than money. id live out of his car with him happily and wouldnt consider it any loss. but to each their own. what you find important is up to you. this wasnt supposed to be about me, it was about the op's question

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RE: Question - 9/19/2014 5:07:02 AM   
MzArianaPA


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Status: offline 		Of course the cost of a relationship is a factor....it's a very short term and immature perception of life to say that. And really? You would accept homelessness to be with him, instead of getting your butt out there and getting a job? Easy to say in your 20's. Far less attractive when you're in your 50's and 60's. As far as it not "costing much" to keep an extra person in the house - wrong again. Ask any parent with kids to clothe, feed, house.

We live in a world where for the vast majority of households, it takes two incomes to keep a roof over your head, food on the table, and the lights turned on. And we all know what job security is like these days....well, those of us living in the real world, anyway.

As a dominant, it's my duty to look out for my sub/slave and that includes making sure we're financially responsibly and living in a happy and healthy manner. That includes having a decent job and making a living wage, health insurance, money in the bank and in retirement funds, and getting our emotional and mental needs met (which also requires interacting with other people like family and friends) so we're generally happy.

I would not be fulfilling my role as head of the household if I expected my sub to live in a cheap motel or to sit around at home all day, where there is certainly not enough work to do to keep a person occupied and industrious 24/7.

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RE: Question - 9/19/2014 4:40:33 PM   
DerangedUnit


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Status: offline 		dear without knowing my whole life story you have no background on which to judge, i posted an example of what works for me. i have been homeless since i was 12 and commonly while working 3 jobs at a time and sleeping between shifts... so no being homeless with someone who cares about me and i about h isnt something that woyld bother me. what you care about in a relationship reflects your experience, obviously what makes other people happy doesnt affect you. we have nothing in common and would never relate so im not interested in what you think is wrong with my life, you live yours what you are looking for is not what is going to work for people from different backgrounds. you had parents to support you and you would clothe, and make someone industrious.... good for you. ive done that to, but now i'm happy not knowing for a bit, not fighting every second with one person. you are free to be happy too my life doesnt affect that.

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RE: Question - 9/19/2014 5:23:22 PM   
DrkJourney


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Status: offline 		To the OP:

I suppose anything is possible as long as both parties agree. With that being said I'm with some of the other posts, (btw haven't read them all yet so forgive me if I'm repeating) I'm not quite seeing how this can possibly be done. Is this a poly household? Will there be the one slave that never leaves the house, but another that can run errands, deal with people that come to the door, outside yard work, etc?

Will the master/mistress have a companion for outside vanilla type interests? Might not be a problem for some but I would want to have someone that I can communicate with about, well... life.

So this slave can only stay inside, no contact what so ever...what about when they get sick? Can they go out to the doctor? Does no outside contact include no tv, radio, or internet?

If someone is going to do this, I just pray that the "live in" slave dies first, otherwise they will be totally screwed. If they have no friends and family and they no nothing of the outside world, I just don't see how they will be able to function. Can you imagine someone going into this kind of slavery in say the late 70's and coming out in the 2000's or even the 90's? With no job, money, friends, etc., how are you gonna learn all of this technology? You won't even be able to get a job in a fast food place. The only way I can see this being resolved is if, in their will, they left you everything, including the house you were locked in and they were vastly wealthy so you can still pay the bills.

Unfortunately I get request for this at least once a month....some man or woman wants to come and live with me and be locked in a cage until I want to "play" with them. To me, all I can think of is that this is a lazy person that doesn't want to work and wants to be taken care of and have no responsibilities. Now don't jump on me, but this is just how they seem to me. I mean they are not really bringing anything to the relationship except a mouth to feed. Cause when you look at it, there are not that many "inside" chores to be done...not in my house any way....lol

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RE: Question - 9/22/2014 4:00:23 PM   
MistressRage


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Status: offline 		I have a live-in slave.

Keeping them from any outside contact, for example with long-time friends and family, is unhealthy.

It is a lot of work at first, but once the slave is trained and a system is in place, it is very nice. I haven't cleaned or done laundry in 7 years and I love it.

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