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mastergeronimo -> finding slaves (9/20/2014 1:25:36 PM)
I am just starting as a master. So how do I get slaves? Cause most sub/ slaves want someone with lots of experience. I am more looking for online slaves.

IrishMist -> RE: finding slaves (9/20/2014 1:55:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mastergeronimo I am just starting as a master. So how do I get slaves? Cause most sub/ slaves want someone with lots of experience. I am more looking for online slaves. Since you are looking for online, I would suggest looking Online [8\|]

Gauge -> RE: finding slaves (9/20/2014 2:20:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mastergeronimo I am just starting as a master. So how do I get slaves? Cause most sub/ slaves want someone with lots of experience. I am more looking for online slaves. You look for them... just like you have to look for the frosting in the grocery store, it might take a little bit, but you will find them. Get yourself involved in your local scene and get some experience by learning from others. Also, you might find someone to mentor you. Be patient, slaves do not grow on trees, although they are partial to being tied to them.

DarkSteven -> RE: finding slaves (9/20/2014 8:18:41 PM)
With all due respect, I'm going to assume that you meant that you are an online Dom looking for an online sub. Masters and slaves are much rarer. Comport yourself properly. Never lie or misrepresent. Show a genuine caring for your sub and helping her explore and discover. Basically, act like you know what you're doing. With the caliber of most online Doms, you'll shine.

thishereboi -> RE: finding slaves (9/21/2014 6:08:55 AM)
My first thought is always look in your local community but you say you only want online so that's not going to work. So perhaps you could start with a profile that describes what you are looking for in a sub. What kind of play you like and what kind of service you expect. I would give you some suggestions but honestly I can't think of anything an online dom could do for me, nor can I think of anything I could do for them with the possible exception of proof reading any thing they might need double checked. On the bright side, if you are only playing online, you don't have to worry about finding someone local and technically it wouldn't even matter which sex there were since you won't be seeing them in person anyway. That should make the odds a little better for you.

FieryOpal -> RE: finding slaves (9/21/2014 6:59:26 AM)
You could start by unhiding your profile. Perhaps some of us here could give you a few helpful hints in this regard. Just a heads up. If you're married and trying to keep this on the down low, it's always better to be totally upfront. Fully informed consent means full disclosure. You may think that by being an on-line Dom you are exempted from this ethical standard of engaging in BDSM, but it still applies to cyber BDSM.

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