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ArtistSadira -> New Kinkster (9/20/2014 5:37:06 PM)

Just stopping in to say hello.




DarkSteven -> RE: New Kinkster (9/20/2014 8:12:20 PM)

Hello, Sadira! Welcome to the forums!

Question - you say you want 1950s Household but you don;t want one partner in charge of the other. My understanding of 1950s Household was that it was nothing but one partner being in control of the other.




ArtistSadira -> RE: New Kinkster (9/21/2014 11:42:41 AM)

Yes and no. There was the thing about the wife having an idea and wanting to be listened to. If you didn't? Think of where the frying pan across the head came from. I would not go so far, but a woman can be a homemaker without having someone in charge of her.




DaddySatyr -> RE: New Kinkster (9/21/2014 12:36:50 PM)


Welcome, Sadira. You're a lovely lady and you should find some entertainment here.

I would like to build on what you said;

I was raised in three European-American households (German, Italian, and Irish. I'm a child of divorce and re-marriage). My grandparents "dynamics" (whether they recognized them as such or not) was that Grandpa worked his ass off, double shifts, whatever and didn't have time for the day-to-day minutia. However, he had a general plan and some "rules" (One grandmother spent years moaning about wanting a Cadillac while grandpa insisted that Chevy Impalas and Caprices were just as good).

Grandma handled the details of how to bring that general plan to fruition. To a lot of people on the outside, it looked as though all of my grandmothers ran their households (and to an extent, they did) but, Grandpa(s) was (/were) definitely "the boss".

Good luck and have fun, here.



Peace,


Michael







Screen captures still RULE! Ya feel me?




ArtistSadira -> RE: New Kinkster (9/21/2014 1:37:19 PM)

Thank you. I have no problem with compromise and the like. I do have a problem with being ordered around. I am hoping more for the family farm type of household though (and everyone worked their butts off). I don't complain lol, I discuss. We'll see though. So far this seems to be an interesting enough site. I'm sure too, that everything will work out as it should.




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