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Dominating from Afar - 9/24/2014 6:18:48 PM

mistresschef

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I'm new to the lifestyle of being a mistress. While things are going great when my slave is home, he travels a lot for his job. I'm looking for some good ideas of ways to keep the dominance going when he's living in a hotel room. We're developing some basic rules (he has to be naked in the room, no touching self without permission), and I do tease him with pics. But I'd like to keep plenty of variety and spice, so I'm looking for more ideas.

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RE: Dominating from Afar - 9/24/2014 6:37:47 PM

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Hallo to you OP,
Of course is skyping with him where he's on camera and you direct him to do this or that. You can get resourceful, even shoelaces work so you're never at a loss. Having him on his knees even on camera before you gives a bit of the same domming effect. Especially if he does so at home already as is. You should know how to turn it up or cool it down.

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RE: Dominating from Afar - 9/24/2014 7:21:58 PM

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Yes, we do use skype, but I was hoping to find some more specific examples of things I could tell him to do (especially for those times when he's in public working). I do tell him to go commando, or bind himself, or use toys that he occasionally packs, but I'd like to have a larger arsenal of specific ideas at the ready.

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RE: Dominating from Afar - 9/24/2014 7:25:51 PM

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Well, ultimately, domination is about control. So, control him. Have him do things, they can be small things, but the key is that they're at your direction. Things like double knotting his shoes in the morning, or wearing a specific pair of socks, or this tie or that one. Have him write his rules on a piece of paper, and then tuck it into his shoe so that he always has a physical reminder of you. That sort of thing.

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RE: Dominating from Afar - 12/23/2014 4:09:35 AM

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i'd love an online mistress from afar

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RE: Dominating from Afar - 12/23/2014 2:04:20 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mistresschef

I'm new to the lifestyle of being a mistress. While things are going great when my slave is home, he travels a lot for his job. I'm looking for some good ideas of ways to keep the dominance going when he's living in a hotel room. We're developing some basic rules (he has to be naked in the room, no touching self without permission), and I do tease him with pics. But I'd like to keep plenty of variety and spice, so I'm looking for more ideas.

Video's.

Of you.

And him.

(And if he's interested.....of others).

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