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College kid - 10/4/2014 3:41:57 AM

lucas1111cxr

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I am so tired of trying and failing to meet up with other kinksters... My profile is set up as a sub so that I could fast track my bdsm knowledge with a mistress but I have yet to find one, or at least one that is intelligent and clean and good looking. I'm more of a switch or dom but i could maybe submit to a really hot mistress. As of now I'm still vanilla with a dirty mind but I uploaded a face pic finally so maybe I will finally match with the right person. To clarify, I'm straight so all the male doms can stop hitting me up. I don't want you to tie me up and fuck me.. I only want to try that with a female kinkster. I'm typing this while slightly intoxicated so please excuse any grammatical errors. Anywas, hopefully when I wake up tmw i have some messages to read. Look forward to meeting you ;) I live in EUGENE OR. [MOD EDIT TO REMOVE PHONE NUMBER]

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RE: College kid - 10/4/2014 3:52:24 AM

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Please do not include contact information in posts.

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RE: College kid - 10/4/2014 5:16:53 AM

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Um. Welcome.

1. Forget about meeting a really hot Mistress. There are some out there, but they will go for men that submit to them and focus on their needs, especially outside the bedroom.
2. Forget about meeting anyone online. Instead, go to munches and especially play parties. You seem to just want play, and the partirs have that.
3. Forget about having women contact you. Online, women are flooded with messages from men. Even at offline parties, men are expected to make the first move.
4. When you do make the first move, open conversation. What's her scene name? Why did she choose it? How long has she lived in the state? What local events would she recommend? If you walk up to a woman asking her to do XXX to you, you'll likely strike out.
5. You don't want to play with men. I agree, and I don't either. But open conversations with them. They understand the scene from a man's pov better than a woman does.

Welcome. Slow down and don't expect lines of women at your door. Relax and enjoy getting to know people.

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RE: College kid - 10/4/2014 9:42:33 AM

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What do you have to offer her other than your penis? If all she wants is an unimpressive dick, she can easily find it just about anywhere, particularly if she is fairly young and hot.

Also, do those other men and women know you put their face up on a kink site? If not, that's not cool dudebro, and your lacks attention to detail is not likely to bring. About trust that you won't out this potential mistress.

If you need a clue x 4 try reading Ask A Mistress - FAQ and Section Guidelines - Ask a Mistress

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No longer searching -- found my one and only right here on CM

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