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ideas for suprising my Dom - 7/12/2006 8:12:14 AM

hisforever

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My Husband is a truck driver, and will not be home until friday. ( I miss him greatly right now) The day he left was a bad one. i acted out greatly in anger when i discovered a super virus in our computer that will cost a great deal of money to fix. i screamed at him, and all around acted very badly. i would like to make up for my behavior when he gets home by suprising him by having the children at his mothers. But what to do? Any help here? Note that this isnt a bid to get out of punishment for my actions, i am aware it is coming and will happily submit to it as i greatly deserve it!

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RE: ideas for suprising my Dom - 7/12/2006 8:14:46 AM

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There are some "vanilla" type things like fixing his favorite meal, if he likes cigars, getting him one of his favorite, that sort of thing. As i don't know your Master and you do, you would have a better idea of some of his favorite things that he likes to do to relax.

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RE: ideas for suprising my Dom - 7/12/2006 8:16:56 AM

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Maybe get some massage oils and give him a nice massage he might be all tensed up from all the driving. I know most men like massages so it is a thought.

Matt's littleone

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RE: ideas for suprising my Dom - 7/12/2006 2:17:29 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: hisforever

My Husband is a truck driver, and will not be home until friday. ( I miss him greatly right now) The day he left was a bad one. i acted out greatly in anger when i discovered a super virus in our computer that will cost a great deal of money to fix. i screamed at him, and all around acted very badly. i would like to make up for my behavior when he gets home by suprising him by having the children at his mothers. But what to do? Any help here? Note that this isnt a bid to get out of punishment for my actions, i am aware it is coming and will happily submit to it as i greatly deserve it!

Once upon a time...in a vanilla relationship....my ex had been on tour with his band...this is what I did.....
I bought a blonde wig...(he had always dated blondes previous to me)....got a hoochie ass red dress...something I would never wear...did my make up very dark...I seriously looked like something you'd find on Hollywood Blvd for a fee....I acted completly out of my own self....I was a hooker...well his hooker for the night...it was so much fun...he still to this day will bring it up in conversation..."so how is Sally these days"....(my name during)...OMG...I just realized....that was a scene...never had a name for it til now...I was dong BDSM and I didn't even know it...lol....
Hope this helps....if not I have a few more seductive things I have done throughout the years.....let me know if you'd like more suggestions....

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RE: ideas for suprising my Dom - 7/12/2006 6:31:49 PM

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that sounds like it would be a lot of fun....after I have the baby LOL I dont think it would work with a preggo belly LOLOLOL but good idea for after...hm... I think he would love that one!

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RE: ideas for suprising my Dom - 7/12/2006 7:11:07 PM

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Ask the Doms/Sirs/Masters...And whatever THEY say, keep in mind the likes of the ONE you are trying to please.

My two cents - men like to be fed...make a great meal. Feed it to HIM. Be attentive. Only you know how to spoil him. Reach back and think of something that in your relationship was very special...build a them around that.

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RE: ideas for suprising my Dom - 7/12/2006 7:12:08 PM

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them = theme

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RE: ideas for suprising my Dom - 7/13/2006 2:53:21 AM

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Jacuzzi room at hotel?

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RE: ideas for suprising my Dom - 7/13/2006 5:12:09 AM

hisforever

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Thanks for the ideas! I have decided to go with making him a specical dinner, and going from there. Thanks!!

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RE: ideas for suprising my Dom - 7/13/2006 4:28:00 PM

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Thanks for the ideas! I have decided to go with making him a specical dinner, and going from there. Thanks!!

Like the others said a lot of pampering might work, and maybe wear a new outfit for him or do a strip tease.

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RE: ideas for suprising my Dom - 7/13/2006 6:25:39 PM

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i acted out greatly in anger when i discovered a super virus in our computer that will cost a great deal of money to fix.

why is it going to cost a great deal of money to fix? Virus fixes are free and come with step by step instructions.

if you are going to happily submit to punishment, it does not sound like punishment to me

if you really want to suprise him with something he will love get him a 10 dollar gift card for home depot and trail around the store after him for a few hours

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RE: ideas for suprising my Dom - 7/13/2006 6:38:38 PM

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How about you dress up in Dominatrix gear...as he walks in the door, crack the whip and say, "It's my turn, cocksucker!"

That would be a surprise, Ja?

Ron

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RE: ideas for suprising my Dom - 7/13/2006 6:49:30 PM

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No, I will not enjoy the punishment trust me, what I meant was, I have no....problem with the fact that I will be, I believe I deserve it. Ron, yeah a suprise that will get my tush even redder then its about to be LOLOL

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RE: ideas for suprising my Dom - 7/13/2006 7:03:58 PM

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Then indeed you are trying to mitigate the punishment. Fall at his feet, kiss them and anything else he lets you, and beg for his mercy.

Make sure he has only the one decision tho, woman, have everything else in life perfect and calm, he only needs to decide how much to punish you for your self-admitted transgression...........So there is only ONE (choice, man, love, hearth, anything...........)

Ron

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RE: ideas for suprising my Dom - 7/13/2006 7:06:28 PM

hisforever

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thank you for the advice Ron, it is appreciated!!

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RE: ideas for suprising my Dom - 7/14/2006 10:20:43 AM

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If the story is true that gods forgive in the face of true repentance, a man should be able to soften his heart somewhat as well.

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RE: ideas for suprising my Dom - 7/15/2006 3:03:43 AM

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

If the story is true that gods forgive in the face of true repentance, a man should be able to soften his heart somewhat as well.

Oh no doubt....but you'll never get them to admitt to it...LOL

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RE: ideas for suprising my Dom - 7/15/2006 5:11:21 PM

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I was about to admit it to you; can you beg pretty?

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RE: ideas for suprising my Dom - 7/15/2006 8:42:53 PM

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I dont know.. this is where Im evil:
leave a flogger on the floor for him to trip on?
Then you can salt his wounds :-)

Just about anything nice would be nice

dL

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RE: ideas for suprising my Dom - 7/15/2006 11:09:22 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: hisforever

that sounds like it would be a lot of fun....after I have the baby LOL I dont think it would work with a preggo belly LOLOLOL but good idea for after...hm... I think he would love that one!

You know, my ex-wife was never more beautiful and sexually attractive to me than when she was pregnant with my children.
My ex-wife used to complain that she was not attractive to me because she was pregnant, and nothing I could do or say could dissuade her from what she thought she knew.

I would suggest that you do what people recommend to you, not use your being pregnant as an excuse not to self-actualize your inner slut, and "get 'er done."

From my perspective, it is always possible to find a reason to not do something, but a truly exemplary individual is able to do it regardless.

Just me, could be wrong, etc.

Sinergy

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