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crazyml -> RE: Giving him reasons to punish me (10/6/2014 5:31:46 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Rovenna72
My boyfriend and I have recently been playing around with bdsm, only in bed, with him domming me. I love being good for him, but I also love when he punishes me. Oftentimes when he gives me an order I want to disobey so he'll punish me, but I don't want to disappoint him so I don't. But then we're left with not enough reasons for him to punish me. Ideas?
To an extent this is going to depend on what really drives you - If you've a strong streak of wanting to be obedient, then deliberately acting out to force a punishment may not be the best thing. That said, there are lots of ways you can make it clear that you'd like to be punished - From a cheeky look, to being naughty but there's a balance to be struck. The idea of "Topping from the bottom" (where the person in the sub role effectively takes charge) is talked about a lot here, and many doms find it a turn-off - (But since they're not your dom, it doesn't matter much, what matters is how you and your bf arrange your dynamic).
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Also, what kinds of names could I use with him during sex? He calls me things like "good girl" "sex toy" and "little cum slut" but calling him "master" doesn't sound right to me. Are there any other options I could think about?
As someone who finds being called "master" feels a little silly (ie it feels silly to me - if it works for others then awesome), I can relate to this. Some people find "Sir" a little less odd. Strictly speaking, you should ask him what he wants you to call him, and be a good girl ;-) (He can always spank you if you forget).
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