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Need advice - 7/12/2006 10:09:28 AM   
margarita50


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Status: offline 		I hope I am posting this in the right place.  I am new here so please be patient w/ me.  I am submissive.  My Master has purchased a butt plug for me to use for his pleasure... he wished me to keep the plug in while I am doing things around the house.  But it keeps plopping out.  How do I keep it in place?  Thanks for any suggestions you may have.
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RE: Need advice - 7/12/2006 10:11:56 AM   
heartfeltsub


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Status: offline 		It may be a size factor, what size butt plug did you get? Also did you get one with a flared base which aids in keeping the plug in, because the sphincter will close around the smaller part of the base to hold it in place? Also you might want to consider a belt of some sort.

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RE: Need advice - 7/12/2006 10:16:44 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		crotchrope, alum.  These are a few of my favorite things.........

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RE: Need advice - 7/12/2006 10:17:22 AM   
MrDiscipline44


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Status: offline 		A harness was my first thought when I read this question.

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RE: Need advice - 7/12/2006 10:18:03 AM   
CrappyDom


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Status: offline 		I use epoxy as lube, works like a charm...

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RE: Need advice - 7/12/2006 10:19:38 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Loctite is spendy, but you are gonna only have to use it once. 

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RE: Need advice - 7/12/2006 10:20:10 AM   
tangldupinblue


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Status: offline 		tight fitting underwear and even tighter pants always worked for me, but it does take a bit of time to teach your body not to push it out.

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RE: Need advice - 7/12/2006 10:21:40 AM   
MrDiscipline44


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Status: offline 		Duct tape will keep that sucker in.

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RE: Need advice - 7/12/2006 10:22:09 AM   
marieToo


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RE: Need advice - 7/12/2006 10:24:06 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		What'cha eating?  Take-out?

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RE: Need advice - 7/12/2006 10:34:56 AM   
sensiia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CrappyDom

I use epoxy as lube, works like a charm...


You scare me so much Sir that you excite me with your expertise


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RE: Need advice - 7/12/2006 1:28:47 PM   
mastersayed


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ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44

Duct tape will keep that sucker in.


You beat me to it..lol. Duct tape is the solution to most modern problems, including global warming and dont ask me how cuz I dont know.

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RE: Need advice - 7/12/2006 3:54:10 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		I know it's always stressed to use lots and lots of lube.  But it is possible to use too much.  Maybe cut back on the amount used, just use the bare (so to speak) minimum to get it in reasonably comfortably. 

If that doesn't work, then my vote is with duct tape.

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RE: Need advice - 7/12/2006 6:50:55 PM   
wandering4u


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Status: offline 		I was thinking a harness and then duct tape was mentioned......truely one of the better uses. but since you are new, use a harness and tight thong. 

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RE: Need advice - 7/12/2006 7:19:01 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		A harness or good ole duct tape

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RE: Need advice - 7/12/2006 7:45:25 PM   
ToyGuyforU


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Status: offline 		I would say you are ready for a bigger plug.

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RE: Need advice - 7/12/2006 8:02:19 PM   
somethndif


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quote:

ORIGINAL: margarita50

I hope I am posting this in the right place.  I am new here so please be patient w/ me.  I am submissive.  My Master has purchased a butt plug for me to use for his pleasure... he wished me to keep the plug in while I am doing things around the house.  But it keeps plopping out.  How do I keep it in place?  Thanks for any suggestions you may have.


Try this.  http://www.extremerestraints.com/female-butt-plug-and-dildo-harness_1295.html

Dan

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RE: Need advice - 7/12/2006 9:20:25 PM   
Owned1


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Status: offline 		one other option if i may suggest, if  able there are inflatable plugs that can be inflated to the size needed so they do not fall out.  Not that i have any experience with that  ;)

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RE: Need advice - 7/12/2006 9:38:07 PM   
margarita50


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Status: offline 		Thank you all for your good advice.  I am wondering why I didn't think of duct tape.  LOL.  Somethndif -- thanks for the website address. 

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RE: Need advice - 7/13/2006 2:38:49 AM   
shadevarr


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Status: offline 		PC muscle excercises can help keeping it in as well, but I do think that a slightly larger one would be advisable...maybe with a tail :P

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