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About Chastity. from a Dom - 10/17/2014 7:41:59 PM

Poloboi234

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Hello subs

Just would like some info. What was your first experience in chastity like? Did you innate the move to chastity or did your dom or domme?

Also, if you weren't too keen at it at first, how did your dom or domme get you to get it on? How long did you wear it? Which type is the best for a person?

Also how did you feel wearing it at work the next day, or during the day the first couple of weeks? Also how did it feel? (What was it a reminder of when you saw it when you had to pee, or going someplace, or when another woman/man talked to you? Did you only think of your dom or domme?)

Also if you were vanilla at first(brought into the lifestyle by a someone), What did the person use to get you to wear it, or sell you to get you to wear it?

Just a question. I have two subs that I'm thinking of wearing a chastity belt for me, but it's long distance and it seems like a trying thing ot get them into, though both are willing to try it, but we are taking it slow... well, thanks in advance.

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RE: About Chastity. from a Dom - 10/17/2014 8:48:51 PM

shiftyw

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I have never had to wear a chastity belt, I just don't play with myself, longest I went was...I think 10 days.
I did it because I knew when he did fuck me, the orgasms would rock my socks. But I live with him, and I'm bedroom only- so you and I have some differences.

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RE: About Chastity. from a Dom - 10/18/2014 11:44:40 AM

OntarioManSlave

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Hello. First experience was thrilling and euphoric yet scary and painful. my Domme made the move. W/we used the cb3000 which i found very uncomfortable, coming from someone with a high pain threshold. I was keen at first since i am very turned on by manhood being locked up by my Domme. It was tough to get on the first time, takes practice. Make sure the sizing is right. In fear i could escape, my Domme at the time put the tightest ring on. I had to return a few days later in desperate pain, at which time we put the bigger ring on. Vaseline helps with the pain. I wore it for 4 weeks straight, then 5 weeks straight. I don't recommend the cb3000.
Wearing it to work was thrilling. It's a constant reminder of being owned. You can't stop thinking about pleasing her, it's great. Personally, mine made my pants stick out in that area. I had to be careful of the types of pants i wore, and had to be strategic about keeping it on the DL. It was also difficult to move around as freely. This means that playing sports is pretty much out of the question!
For me, night time was hell. I got very little sleep in those 9 weeks, and i mean very little. I was getting hard every time i dozed off, and the pain would immediately wake me up. It was the worst form of torture i've endured as a slave. I would literally get up in the middle of the night and pace back in forth from the pain, sweating and heart pounding from the extent of it. And there was no escape. It's a physical and mental beat down.

I don't think i could be successful at it online or in a distance relationship. Literally, ALL You can think about, ALL You want in chastity is to serve Your Domme. It's such a mental fucking, i needed my Domme there to help relieve it. There wasn't a time i didn't want to be licking her floor. Not sure how it would work online. Also, consider the safety issues involved with not being able to open the device in an emergency. But good luck. Let me know if i missed any questions.

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RE: About Chastity. from a Dom - 10/18/2014 1:30:20 PM

OntarioManSlave

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Hello. First experience was thrilling and euphoric yet scary and painful. my Domme made the move. W/we used the cb3000 which i found very uncomfortable, coming from someone with a high pain threshold. I was keen at first since i am very turned on by manhood being locked up by my Domme. It was tough to get on the first time, takes practice. Make sure the sizing is right. In fear i could escape, my Domme at the time put the tightest ring on. I had to return a few days later in desperate pain, at which time we put the bigger ring on. Vaseline helps with the pain. I wore it for 4 weeks straight, then 5 weeks straight. I don't recommend the cb3000.
Wearing it to work was thrilling. It's a constant reminder of being owned. You can't stop thinking about pleasing her, it's great. Personally, mine made my pants stick out in that area. I had to be careful of the types of pants i wore, and had to be strategic about keeping it on the DL. It was also difficult to move around as freely. This means that playing sports is pretty much out of the question!
For me, night time was hell. I got very little sleep in those 9 weeks, and i mean very little. I was getting hard every time i dozed off, and the pain would immediately wake me up. It was the worst form of torture i've endured as a slave. I would literally get up in the middle of the night and pace back in forth from the pain, sweating and heart pounding from the extent of it. And there was no escape. It's a physical and mental beat down.

I don't think i could be successful at it online or in a distance relationship. Literally, ALL You can think about, ALL You want in chastity is to serve Your Domme. It's such a mental fucking, i needed my Domme there to help relieve it. There wasn't a time i didn't want to be licking her floor. Not sure how it would work online. Also, consider the safety issues involved with not being able to open the device in an emergency. But good luck. Let me know if i missed any questions.

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RE: About Chastity. from a Dom - 10/20/2014 12:21:24 AM

Born2BBound72

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I've never actually worn a chastity device, but I have been deprived of every sexual outlet. The only sexual interaction I was allowed was anal sex, and that was only because I hated it so much. That happened for thirty days a piece, twice during my time of service. I have still never developed any type of enjoyment or tolerance for anal sex. I will always equate anal anything with punishment. I will endure it if that's what makes my Master happy, but I just suffer through it until it's over without complaining.

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RE: About Chastity. from a Dom - 10/20/2014 12:34:09 AM

DerangedUnit

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Ive been sewn closed, also pn the domme side ive sewn the penis to the stomach of a sub to inhibit movement. I quit having sex for 4 years because of a bet that I couldn't quit for a week, and I have seriously considered buying the rape-x condoms as a deterrent, normally fighting and wearing multiple layers is enough. Now I just have someone to hide behind if anyone looks at me wrong.... but lots and lots of sex... I might get a belt for me but I dont like the idea of going to the bathroom wearing one... too diaperish. Plus if someone loses a key that is an area I dont want bolt cutters near

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RE: About Chastity. from a Dom - 10/20/2014 12:54:10 AM

Born2BBound72

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quote:

Ive been sewn closed

@DerangedUnit you mean actually sewn, as in a needle and thread?

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RE: About Chastity. from a Dom - 10/20/2014 3:48:08 AM

DerangedUnit

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Yes

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RE: About Chastity. from a Dom - 10/23/2014 9:39:17 PM

Poloboi234

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Thanks for those that responded, it gave me some thoughts. Online sub, would be a hard thing. But if he got one of those time locks it could be accomplished. Hehe, but I don't know, seems the more we get along, the further we are from getting there. It is what it is. Out of sight out of mind I take it?

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RE: About Chastity. from a Dom - 10/31/2014 2:50:14 PM

iwearpanties

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Hello Sir

I've worn a chastity device here . I have tried over 6 different types or devices of chastity for males . I currently wear a steel CB 6000s

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RE: About Chastity. from a Dom - 10/31/2014 5:45:31 PM

InHisHeart

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I never wore a chastity belt, he believes in the honor system. When he tells me not to play with myself, he trusts me not to even though it drives me crazy. He knows I won't lie to him or lie by omission. If I did play when told not to, I'd tell him whether he asked me or not and I'd face the consequences.

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RE: About Chastity. from a Dom - 11/22/2014 11:33:57 AM

kashsplace

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i was a very part time, weekend sub. Chastity was presented without any input from me, in a consensual 'non consensual' form of punishment. And, for me and how i view power exchanges, presenting it without me having a choice in the matter really elevated the experience for my Domme. She used a heavy metal cage. i had to buy it and present it to her. The anticipation really built up in my mind, which She loves! i didn't see my Domme during the week, only the weekend, so my Domme felt it was convenient to have me in the cage for a week. It was challenging, getting through the week without anyone noticing it. i could not go without noticing the heavy weight, which reinforced the idea that, even if my Domme was not there, She is in control, and that i was her sub.

i tend to sleep on my face, so that was a bit interesting.

Being in chastity for a week pleased my Domme to no end. i really enjoyed the experience of figuring out how to get through the week with no one noticing it.

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RE: About Chastity. from a Dom - 12/10/2014 1:51:57 PM

experiment2

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my experience with chastity started when i came in contact with my first Domme. at that time i was immediately given direction to maintain chastity at all times unless permission was given. initailly it was imposed as a self control and trust activity.

at some point i was ordered to obtain a chastity cage. the intent i later realized was to impose extended chastity on me. initially it was to be a few days i was told. after a week it continued. i was allowed out periodically and allowed to orgasm but in situations where i derived very little pleasure due to the situation i had to masturbate in. the cage went back on and my Mistress proceeded to keep me in chastity. again i was told it was for a few days. then it was a week. i was continually promised a release but it was constantly postponed. i got to 56 days and could not take it any longer and managed to masturbate. the cycle continued over the next few months until my Mistress ended out relationship and dropped out of any Domme related activities.

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RE: About Chastity. from a Dom - 12/10/2014 2:07:57 PM

GoddessManko

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quote:

ORIGINAL: experiment2

my experience with chastity started when i came in contact with my first Domme. at that time i was immediately given direction to maintain chastity at all times unless permission was given. initailly it was imposed as a self control and trust activity.

at some point i was ordered to obtain a chastity cage. the intent i later realized was to impose extended chastity on me. initially it was to be a few days i was told. after a week it continued. i was allowed out periodically and allowed to orgasm but in situations where i derived very little pleasure due to the situation i had to masturbate in. the cage went back on and my Mistress proceeded to keep me in chastity. again i was told it was for a few days. then it was a week. i was continually promised a release but it was constantly postponed. i got to 56 days and could not take it any longer and managed to masturbate. the cycle continued over the next few months until my Mistress ended out relationship and dropped out of any Domme related activities.

I'm pretty amazed, my subbie record is 40 days. Well done. I enjoy chastity myself and have not been impaled by phallus this entire year (woohoo)! Kind of saving myself for that "ah hah" moment that continues to elude. Lots of dating and learning new things like riding a jetski and waterskiing and kayaking have been part of the "great" this year and looking forward to 2015. Women are lucky that we can do indefinite chastity with low incidences of "aching" and "uncontrolled frenzy" (even frenzy can be controlled). Never heard of a man being in chastity as long as myself.
So when a sub thinks my chastity is cruel I of course, laugh in my mind. I made out with this boy uh...this past weekend and he told me "You're a freak". He was embarrassed to state it but apparently the perception I left with him. Looks like the next time we go out I have to wear a babydoll dress and frosted makeup for a more innocent look.

I'd hate to encourage his lingering thoughts when really it was pure primal instinct to attack his face. Too soon. He might crack before I'm ready, time will tell. <3

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RE: About Chastity. from a Dom - 12/10/2014 7:12:40 PM

experiment2

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GoddessManko yes 56 days was one of my better attempts to maintain chastity i hope to never repeat it again. my second best was 34 days. i cannot explain why i find chastity control so appealing, perhaps it some guilt issue or need to punish myself for enjoying self pleasure.

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RE: About Chastity. from a Dom - 12/11/2014 7:31:43 AM

GoddessManko

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experiment2 I have no idea what it is like for a man but I know for me it's all about discipline, self restraint and something about the "journey" vs "destination" thing if that means anything. As a result I am hypersensitive, my senses are all amplified and keen. I hold myself to a higher standard than my subs because then I know any request I do make is not "unreasonable", nor hypocritical.

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RE: About Chastity. from a Dom - 12/11/2014 3:25:46 PM

sexyred1

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Born2BBound72

quote:

Ive been sewn closed

@DerangedUnit you mean actually sewn, as in a needle and thread?

Sorry, but that is an example of a bad kink.

Yes, I know I am judging.

Shudders.

< Message edited by sexyred1 -- 12/11/2014 3:26:26 PM >

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RE: About Chastity. from a Dom - 12/11/2014 6:43:49 PM

smileforme50

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

quote:

ORIGINAL: Born2BBound72

quote:

Ive been sewn closed

@DerangedUnit you mean actually sewn, as in a needle and thread?

Sorry, but that is an example of a bad kink.

Yes, I know I am judging.

Shudders.

"Shudders".....

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