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wandering4u -> RE: Being who you are, or are you more than one? (7/12/2006 6:19:55 PM)

Just myself but showing different aspects.  but then there are my syblings. They don't live near by and still think of me as the "wayward child".....Wait, maybe they are correct!



denika -> RE: Being who you are, or are you more than one? (7/12/2006 6:35:08 PM)

I'm always true to myself and my core values but like everyone else I also  wear alot of diffrent hats. At work I'm the person people turn to in a crisis, I have to be very much in command. 
And of course the 4 cats that rule the roost*s* They have us trained so well don't they ?*s* after all we're the ones scooping their poop lol.


denika



TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Being who you are, or are you more than one? (7/12/2006 6:56:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

My manager and I HATE that------[:(] what a woos butt, but I'm working on it---its the single Mom, single income achilles heel and boy does she know where it is. ARGH
..I can sooo relate to this!.[:@]..Tempting



champagnewishes -> RE: Being who you are, or are you more than one? (7/12/2006 7:29:38 PM)

I wouldn't say that i am more than one person....but rather a diverse person who adapts easily to the people around her.  Unlike NakedOnMyChain, i have never found the one person that i can be 100% of me with.  As a result, i have a wide array of friends, each of whom identifies with a part of me. 

I do not like the person i am when i have any contact with my ex.  I never knew this part of me existed.  I had trouble accepting that aspect of myself and would much prefer to keep it buried by having as little to do with him as possible. 



LiliesDoGrow -> RE: Being who you are, or are you more than one? (7/12/2006 7:50:33 PM)

I'm a mean person.

I'm a lot nicer to people than I really wish to be for the most part. Really working on inwardly feeling as accepting towards others as I present outwardly. Maybe that's being untrue to my nature, but I call it being polite.

Never really get an opportunity to be "submissive" whatever that means in regards to my normal every day demeanor and actions. My life situation dictates that I have to be in complete control and exert a dominating stance. I'm quite comfortable in this role in daily living.

There is no person that causes me to change who I basically am. I wouldn't wish to be involved with anyone who would create an enviornment where I wouldn't feel comfortable being myself.

So I guess I'm thinking that I'm only "submissive" in a relationship with someone I love and respect. Other than that, I ain't subordinate to nobody.

What was the question?




enigmabrat -> RE: Being who you are, or are you more than one? (7/13/2006 12:00:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

My Damn Cat..!!! everybody is a servant to her!


LOL my 10 pound poddle does the same too me....



RavenMuse -> RE: Being who you are, or are you more than one? (7/13/2006 2:52:12 AM)

There is no person that causes a change in me, nor do I get any less Dominant. However my normal state is laid back, quietly confident, calm tone to my voice even when giving direction.

Put me in the middle of a problem that needs dealing with right then and there and I turn into my old colour sergeant. RIGHT, YOU, YOU AND YOU. HERE IS THE PROBLEM, THIS IS WHAT WE ARE DOING ABOUT IT. BY THE NUMBERS. MOVE IT!!!



srllile7 -> RE: Being who you are, or are you more than one? (7/13/2006 3:28:58 AM)


My little family members granted I have none of my own but do live with a couple of my sisters little ladies and I am more dominant with them then even my mom and dad are or my sister. Im submissive in any relationship other then this one with the little family members.
There for a while I was also a different person at work feeling that I needed to be more dominant and have no aspect of my bdsm side if you will while working with battered women.  But then I figured some stuff out and now I mesh the 2 happily. I find it easier to be just 1 person the 2 person thing was tearing me apart and I found it impossible to have 2 opposing sides in myself.



twicehappy -> RE: Being who you are, or are you more than one? (7/13/2006 4:43:19 AM)

For me it is my owners. With them i am a slave, loving, soft, gentle.

With the rest of the world i am 110% biker bitch.  I worked with guys, played with the boys, i race with men in the men's class. I tend to command almost every situation i am in, make hard and fast decisions and stick to them.

Only my owners see the me inside.



kyraofMists -> RE: Being who you are, or are you more than one? (7/13/2006 4:44:20 AM)

Well, my normal self is neither dominant nor submissive; I am more likely to just go my own way and if others want to follow, then great; if they don't, then it's no big deal.  I have strong opinions about certain things and if others don't like it, then, as my Lord says, I will pick up my toys and go to a sandbox where they are doing things the way I want. 

Outside of my relationship with my Lord (and my cats), I am not submissive.  He inspires me to submit to him and be his slave.  I also submit to my boss, not because he is my boss, but because I have great respect for his knowledge.  His path and mine are the same, so I obey him.  I have had a boss where our paths were different and many times I did the opposite of what she wanted. 


Knight's kyra



Sasy -> RE: Being who you are, or are you more than one? (7/13/2006 5:33:14 AM)

My Dad ...... I  become a defensive cold bitch

There are issues I can only  hope he will clear on his death bed as he seems to have amnesia in daily life ... A question only  he can answer

( okay  some of the Dominants here will say I am the above but reactions to  random stupidity  dont count)



ownedgirlie -> RE: Being who you are, or are you more than one? (7/13/2006 7:23:00 AM)

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ORIGINAL: yourMissTress
 
Who is it for you?  What trips your trigger sending your normal self to the opposite end of the spectrum?


My parents.  I take care of so many things for them.  My mother, bless her heart, is emotionally immature.  I speak to her as though she were an adolescent and she responds wonderfully.  My Dad is pretty lost right now as he is losing his battle with cancer, and I accompany him to the doctors and organize his medical notes, and help him make decisions about his health care.  I am managing many things for them now, including making sure their finances are organized so my mom can take over when he passes.   They look to me for direction.  When I behaved as their "child" rather than their "parent," it was a confusing, miserable mess. 

Editing to add:  I am submissive only to Master.  I stand pretty strong and confident at work, with friends, etc.  But it is with my parents that I walk in and take over, and guide and direct.  My dynamic with them is really the opposite of my dynamic with Master...although I don't whip them (even though I'd like to sometimes!).



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