joether -> RE: Canadian gun control... (11/3/2014 10:49:24 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Aylee Please inform us all of the difference between barbaric and unenlightened? London is your largest city, right? What is the death rate? What would the death rate be if you all had ten to fifteen cities of that size with that death rate? Oh. . . yeah. . . population DOES make a difference. You still claim that saving one attacker is better than women and children having protection. You really have no use for women and children do you? It is certainly looking like child sexual exploitation is the norm. How many cases until it is not "okay" and "acceptable" and you get concerned about it? I copy/pasted the title. I did not leave anything out. Actually, I think that the title counts as the very first part. [:)] So. . . what have I lied about? As I read through your ideas and thoughts I keep sensing the same tired and used underlying concept of those advocating less firearm rules, regulations and restrictions: fear....Fear.....FEAR! Is having one or more firearms really a liberty if you living in fear (be it direct, indirect, real or imaginary) of one or more 'somethings'? I know people that have firearms for all sorts of reasons. Yet some of them feel no safer with a firearm than without. Not because they are afraid of something real or not; but that their level of threat is the same regardless. So for them, they enjoy the liberty for what it is. And there are people that have firearms due to legitimate and imaginary reasons. These people are not practicing a liberty, but living in fear. WOW! I never thought that I would actually use this phrase, but here ya go: CHECK YOUR PRIVILEGE! 29 Things Women Avoid Doing Because We Fear For Our Safety: 1. Get drunk, because you never know if someone might try to assault you when you’re under the influence. 2. Leave our drinks at the bar, unattended, because someone might try to drug them. 3. Move into certain neighborhoods or live on certain blocks, because the harassment is too severe. 4. Meet our creepy landlords, the cable guy, or the electrician by ourselves, because it makes us feel unsafe. 5. Travel solo, because there are certain places where it’s just not safe to be a woman traveling alone. 6. Try couch-surfing, because staying at a stranger’s house seems like an invitation for trouble. 7. Run alone at night, because we fear attackers. 8. Talk back to harassers, because you never know if the abusive words will escalate to violent actions. 9. Meet a stranger — for a date or to buy something on Craigslist — without telling a friend exactly where we’ll be, because we’re aware there’s always the threat of danger. 10. Walk home at night without holding our keys out, because you never know when you might need a makeshift weapon. 11. Wear flimsy clothing when we’re out walking by ourselves, because harassers see it as an invitation to bother us. 12. Wear loud or outrageous clothing, either, because that’ll invite comment from strange men too. 13. Wear anything that will expose our breasts or remind men that we’re women, because that’s seen as an invitation for leers. 14. Wear a ponytail, because it will make it easier for an attacker to grab our hair. 15. Wear high heels, because it’ll make it harder to run faster if we need to. 16. Engage in small talk with a man, because he may interpret it as an invitation to come on to us in a lecherous way. 17. Make eye contact with strangers, because it’s seen as an invitation to approach us. 18. Even smiling can be seen as tacit approval to talk or approach us. 19. Eat food in public — like ice cream cones — that might attract unwanted male attention. 20. Ride our bikes late at night, because we don’t want to deal with the harassment. 21. Stay at a party or a show after our friends have gone home, because we don’t want to worry about being stranded in a potentially threatening situation. 22. Get into a subway car with just men in it, because we’re afraid something might happen. Instead, we scope out subway cars with other women already in them. 23. Walk around late at night with headphones on and blasting music, because we’re afraid attackers might come up behind us. 24. Answer the door to unexpected visitors, just in case it’s someone who got into the building randomly, who might be planning to attack. 25. Let the cab driver/our date drop us off directly in front our buildings, because we don’t want random guys to know where we live. 26. Walk directly home, sometimes, if we’re afraid someone is following us. Instead, we’ll stop at a neighborhood bar and pretend we’re meeting someone. 27. Give our last names to strangers or potential dates, because it makes it that much easier for a stranger to find out where you live, or where you work. 28. Stay late at our offices by ourselves, because of the potential of being attacked. 29. Use an ATM that’s outside or isolated, because we fear being attacked. http://www.buzzfeed.com/juliegerstein/29-things-women-avoid-doing-out-of-fear-for-our-safety The misogyny is strong with this one. Your just proving my point. The reason to obtain a firearm has nothing to do with enjoying the liberty but living in fear of the 'What If' moment(s). What do you think that does to a person over months and years? Living with that sort of worry, stress, aggravation, and anxiety? Is that really how one practices liberty? To be free? Fear is the opposite concept to liberty. Why does one learn a martial art? I've heard the whole list. That 'defending myself' is not at the top of the list, says something of the individual. They do it to get in shape, lose weigh, meet people, learn something new, and challenge themselves to greater height. That 'learning self-defense' is the positive by-product of the skill. Someone learning self defense to become more aggressive towards an entity real or imaginary is setting the person up for problems down the road. Those folks are taken aside and asked serious questions. Not to belittle them, but figure out if there is reasonable alternatives to combat the problem; so that their learning of a martial art could be a positive experience for them long term. Firearms, like any other 'self-defense' system is the same way. I have no problem with someone that wants to use their firearm to go hunting (or teach the young how to hunt). Nor target shooting to relieve stress, competitive shooting, or historical reenactments. Nor of those that wish to collect but keep such arms safe from unauthorized individuals (like a museum devoted to firearms). But we are not talking any of these activities with 'your list'. "I have a gun so that idiot ex of mine doesn't fuck with me or my kids" is not showing liberty, but living with fear. And there are many women that this is sadly a reality. That we as a society fail them. To find ways to combat their fears, reduce their stress of their fear manifesting itself, and hopefully letting them live a better life. That we give them a firearm is such a poor excuse to failing in our responsibility as a society to do something better. What that 'better' is, is a good question. I have heard some of your back story, and I *REALLY* do wish and hope things are improving for you.
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