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Greta75 -> Lesbian domme and anal penetration (10/29/2014 8:36:06 AM)

So because I've always been totally straight all my life, and only obsess with males, I recently got a female lesbian sub messaged me. That was weird to start with, but her question to me was, how do you find a dom who doesn't care for anal penetration?

And I was like huh? You're a lesbian, so I assume you only dabble with dommes, you mean they all want anal penetration???

And she said, yes, it's a problem for her and impossible to find one that doesn't want to anally penetrate her.

So, because that's not my thing, so I never once pondered about it. But I have also never felt any sexual inclination towards any woman, so but she now made me think about it and now I am curious and also quite puzzled.

Really??? Why?? Why would women top like anal penetration so much?

Anyway, I told her that usually with male doms, the no anal thing is not much of a dealbreaker in my experience anyway.



starkem -> RE: Lesbian domme and anal penetration (10/29/2014 9:28:37 AM)

I've heard stranger things. In fact, I have my own strange desires where I ask myself, what is wrong with me?

I got my answer one day while watching the Food Network: Zimmerman consumes this slimy looking thing that I would have never eaten. Surprisingly, his reaction was mmmmmm "that is soooo good.". Now I wanted to taste it.

Anal penetration as the top can be such a powerful experience, but some tops become more inquisitive than others. "I wonder what she's feeling to make her go mmmmmm? That thought flashes in the tops mind. The next thing you know, he wants to taste that experience. For others, the notion nor interest ever comes to mind.

I think it's more of a trigger than being flexible and open minded. It can be curiosity or a regularly frequent thing. Can you think of any food that you would never taste but one day something triggers this strange craving? If you can, then the parallel is that her predominate sexual identity is willfully blurred by this opposing desire.



GoddessManko -> RE: Lesbian domme and anal penetration (10/29/2014 9:31:54 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Greta75

So because I've always been totally straight all my life, and only obsess with males, I recently got a female lesbian sub messaged me. That was weird to start with, but her question to me was, how do you find a dom who doesn't care for anal penetration?

And I was like huh? You're a lesbian, so I assume you only dabble with dommes, you mean they all want anal penetration???

And she said, yes, it's a problem for her and impossible to find one that doesn't want to anally penetrate her.

So, because that's not my thing, so I never once pondered about it. But I have also never felt any sexual inclination towards any woman, so but she now made me think about it and now I am curious and also quite puzzled.

Really??? Why?? Why would women top like anal penetration so much?

Anyway, I told her that usually with male doms, the no anal thing is not much of a dealbreaker in my experience anyway.


It sounds like a man trolling for kicks. Different Ds like different things.



starkem -> RE: Lesbian domme and anal penetration (10/29/2014 9:40:40 AM)

Undercover trolling as a man is a good possibility just to get interact with you. Also, some have different sets of variety. I realize now that the lesbian that texted you was not looking for bottoming for anal penetration, but she was just looking for a Dom. Now I'm all confused.



Wickad -> RE: Lesbian domme and anal penetration (10/29/2014 9:56:27 AM)

(fast reply)

I know a lesbian F/f couple whose main penetrative sexual activity is anal. In fact, I think the bottom has only had vaginal sex once or might even be a technical virgin. Thus, this type of interaction doesn't strike me as strange. A number of lesbians I know, both vanilla and otherwise, also get really squicked out by the idea of vaginal penetration.

I also know a number of lesbian Tops, as well as straight women Tops, that prefer to be called 'Dom' rather than 'Domme' as they feel that the term 'Domme' is anti-woman in that it is a made up abbreviation. The idea being that women need special treatment and that by doing so somehow creates a 'real' and 'lesser' stratification of dominance. On some level I agree with this. I use the term Domme myself only because of internet convention and not wanting to spend all my time clarifying my position.

Each to their own I guess.

Wickad




Greta75 -> RE: Lesbian domme and anal penetration (10/29/2014 8:35:04 PM)


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ORIGINAL: GoddessManko

It sounds like a man trolling for kicks. Different Ds like different things.


The picture of her looks quite genuine, but yea, it might be.



sexyred1 -> RE: Lesbian domme and anal penetration (10/29/2014 8:48:47 PM)

Anal is great, why shouldn't all types, straight, gay, sub, Dom or Domme like it?

Not strange at all.



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