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patagoonia -> Question (10/30/2014 7:05:58 PM)

hey im pretty new to the site and havent really posted much before.. im wondering best way to go about finding someone interested in me being their live in slave. is it ok to post a "want ad" of sorts and if so in what section any ideas are welcomed. thank you



DesFIP -> RE: Question (10/30/2014 7:11:33 PM)

Introductions is where you want this to go.

However, it's unlikely to yield any success. Because nobody you would want to be in a relationship with would welcome a strange guy into their house on the first date.

This is still a relationship. You need to meet people, to date for months to see if you're compatible, to talk out how this would work. See if you like each other as friends, and so on.

Kink is not a short cut that allows you to avoid learning and using communication and relationship skills. Far from it. It does not guarantee fair fighting skills, or magically give you excellent problem solving skills.



DarkSteven -> RE: Question (10/30/2014 8:38:14 PM)

To be honest, your post and profile mention more about you wanting to move in with a woman than what the woman herself should be like. It sounds like you want to move out of your apartment.

Why not focus on what she should be like, and what you can offer her? Tell about yourself - are you a student, or do you work? What education do you have? What dreams? What things do you like doing with your woman?



MsDDom -> RE: Question (10/31/2014 2:07:56 PM)

What has been said has been great.

I took a look at your profile too.

I know we all want something and we want our needs to be met, but how does that apply to a relationship that requires both give and take?
Lay your cards all on the table...what you can and cannot offer in support of a relationship as a male switch. At least, you will give a woman the opportunity to work with you or pass you by.

Success on your search!



patagoonia -> RE: Question (10/31/2014 5:29:29 PM)

thanks to all who posted i appreciate your input. and have a happy halloween!



DarkSteven -> RE: Question (10/31/2014 6:54:51 PM)

Same to you!



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