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Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed


Adore me, you writhing hunk of male fuckmeat
  40% (9)
Ignore me, oh the horror of your attention
  54% (12)
Ridicule me, cuz I'm a humiliation whore like that
  4% (1)


Total Votes : 22
(last vote on : 11/7/2014 8:27:50 AM)
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InHisHeart -> RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed (11/5/2014 5:25:56 PM)

By strangers on the street, ignore me will do fine. It's not the horror of the attention, most often it doesn't freak me out, I simply ignore it but there have been times when it gave me the "keep alert, don't let your guard down" vibe. I rather be ignored because I don't give a fuck what some stranger thinks, he can keep his thoughts to himself. Since I can't control his actions, I can only control my reaction, I just go about my business.




ExiledTyrant -> RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed (11/5/2014 5:33:48 PM)


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ORIGINAL: camille65


quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessManko


quote:

ORIGINAL: camille65

At this stage in my life? Adore me please. I've reached the age of being invisible and it is weird. I've always been quiet (despite my prolific typing) and usually blend into the background, but having reached the age of *cough cough cough* it is sometimes hard to know I won't turn any heads.

That is my honest answer!

Edited to ask if I can have the adoration minus insults and humiliation please n thanks.


Ha, honestly you probably are still getting gawked at but probably not from where you'll expect or will be receptive. I notice the younger guys at my gym...high school to college age CONSTANTLY checking out the older ladies there. It's to the point where a 15 year old complained to me about it when I first joined but I notice it now that I've been there awhile. And these ladies are of all shapes and sizes. I don't expect to look the same when I hit 40 but omg, CAN'T WAIT!


:)

I bet a lot is attitude too, I need to cultivate Attitude dang it. So I can be adored. Heh.



Damn it, WOMAN! You've been the inspiration for countless spermcicle Tyrants born anonymously around the world and that's still not enough?




camille65 -> RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed (11/5/2014 5:41:41 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


quote:

ORIGINAL: camille65


quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessManko


quote:

ORIGINAL: camille65

At this stage in my life? Adore me please. I've reached the age of being invisible and it is weird. I've always been quiet (despite my prolific typing) and usually blend into the background, but having reached the age of *cough cough cough* it is sometimes hard to know I won't turn any heads.

That is my honest answer!

Edited to ask if I can have the adoration minus insults and humiliation please n thanks.


Ha, honestly you probably are still getting gawked at but probably not from where you'll expect or will be receptive. I notice the younger guys at my gym...high school to college age CONSTANTLY checking out the older ladies there. It's to the point where a 15 year old complained to me about it when I first joined but I notice it now that I've been there awhile. And these ladies are of all shapes and sizes. I don't expect to look the same when I hit 40 but omg, CAN'T WAIT!


:)

I bet a lot is attitude too, I need to cultivate Attitude dang it. So I can be adored. Heh.



Damn it, WOMAN! You've been the inspiration for countless spermcicle Tyrants born anonymously around the world and that's still not enough?



*bats her eyelashes*

I want world wide adoration.




ExiledTyrant -> RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed (11/5/2014 5:44:14 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: camille65


*bats her eyelashes*

I want world wide adoration.



Okay... here's tha thang. Hundreds of people on this site have adored your avatar, posts, and feigned innocence. To get here you have to type WWW. etc... do you know what the WWW stands for?




camille65 -> RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed (11/5/2014 5:46:05 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


quote:

ORIGINAL: camille65


*bats her eyelashes*

I want world wide adoration.



Okay... here's tha thang. Hundreds of people on this site have adored your avatar, posts, and feigned innocence. To get here you have to type WWW. etc... do you know what the WWW stands for?



Wonderful Winsome Wench!

Right?




LaTigresse -> RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed (11/5/2014 5:47:02 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

Okay, the 10 hours in NYC has taken on a life of it's own. I've kept my comments on the fun and games level, because I've seen the video and if they had called her a fat ass whore she would've spent ten hours crying.

Often cat calls and other shit can get out of hand, but I want to take a poll of our Ladies and /girls... so, here we go!

Would you rather be adored, complimented, and heaven forbid, cat called. (clothing manufacturers, cosmetics companies, etc... think you do or they would be all bankrupt).

Ignored completely, invisible, non existent. (that's gotta be the sweet life. Imagine what it could do for the self esteem)

Ridiculed, mocked, and insulted. (I do not think the GAP stands for Guinea-Sacks And Pigsties)


Okay, this is gonna sound disgustingly vain and other bullshit. Tough.

I've spent most of my life with a face and body that attracts attention. I'm used to it. It's normal, just.......meh. It doesn't squick me out, piss me off, turn me on, stroke my ego, yada yada yada. It just, is. There are many other compliments (or snide digs if that's what a person is going for...), that have nothing to do with my physical appearance, that mean a helluva lot more to me.

While I've always tried to take good care of myself which has maintained some semblance of okay looking, it's still mostly, the genetic luck of the draw. Approximately 53 years ago my mother and father decided to fuck and voila! here I am with what I've got. I had nothing to do with that. Commenting on it is an easy shot. If that's all they've got, it's a great weeding tool for me. I'm only interested in people that WANT to see beyond the obvious.




ExiledTyrant -> RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed (11/5/2014 5:48:08 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: camille65


quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


quote:

ORIGINAL: camille65


*bats her eyelashes*

I want world wide adoration.



Okay... here's tha thang. Hundreds of people on this site have adored your avatar, posts, and feigned innocence. To get here you have to type WWW. etc... do you know what the WWW stands for?



Wonderful Winsome Wench!

Right?



Uh... yeah... we'll go with that...

Mod, check please! [sm=banghead.gif]




ExiledTyrant -> RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed (11/5/2014 5:50:19 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse


quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

Okay, the 10 hours in NYC has taken on a life of it's own. I've kept my comments on the fun and games level, because I've seen the video and if they had called her a fat ass whore she would've spent ten hours crying.

Often cat calls and other shit can get out of hand, but I want to take a poll of our Ladies and /girls... so, here we go!

Would you rather be adored, complimented, and heaven forbid, cat called. (clothing manufacturers, cosmetics companies, etc... think you do or they would be all bankrupt).

Ignored completely, invisible, non existent. (that's gotta be the sweet life. Imagine what it could do for the self esteem)

Ridiculed, mocked, and insulted. (I do not think the GAP stands for Guinea-Sacks And Pigsties)


Okay, this is gonna sound disgustingly vain and other bullshit. Tough.

I've spent most of my life with a face and body that attracts attention. I'm used to it. It's normal, just.......meh. It doesn't squick me out, piss me off, turn me on, stroke my ego, yada yada yada. It just, is. There are many other compliments (or snide digs if that's what a person is going for...), that have nothing to do with my physical appearance, that mean a helluva lot more to me.

While I've always tried to take good care of myself which has maintained some semblance of okay looking, it's still mostly, the genetic luck of the draw. Approximately 53 years ago my mother and father decided to fuck and voila! here I am with what I've got. I had nothing to do with that. Commenting on it is an easy shot. If that's all they've got, it's a great weeding tool for me. I'm only interested in people that WANT to see beyond the obvious.


That sounds suspiciously like you're not going to put out after my cat call... I sure hope I'm wrong.

Jus sayin




LaTigresse -> RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed (11/5/2014 5:53:35 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


That sounds suspiciously like you're not going to put out after my cat call... I sure hope I'm wrong.

Jus sayin


Maybe, but not because of the cat call. I find evil little blue men with a flair for the dramatic, disgustingly sexy.




ExiledTyrant -> RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed (11/5/2014 5:57:36 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse


quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


That sounds suspiciously like you're not going to put out after my cat call... I sure hope I'm wrong.

Jus sayin


Maybe, but not because of the cat call. I find evil little blue men with a flair for the dramatic, disgustingly sexy.



SCORE!

Take that, you bitches!

ETA: I use the term "bitches" in the most affectionate form of the word for all the fuckers that are wishing they were hitting that. You feel me, 3?




YouName -> RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed (11/5/2014 6:41:21 PM)

I'm not a fan of limited choices :)




kallisto -> RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed (11/5/2014 6:53:02 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: camille65

At this stage in my life? Adore me please. I've reached the age of being invisible and it is weird. I've always been quiet (despite my prolific typing) and usually blend into the background, but having reached the age of *cough cough cough* it is sometimes hard to know I won't turn any heads.

That is my honest answer!

Edited to ask if I can have the adoration minus insults and humiliation please n thanks.



This is me too. But in all honesty, I'm not sure I've been anywhere lately where cat calls would be likely.




sexyred1 -> RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed (11/6/2014 1:59:37 AM)

I am a redhead, we must be adored.

In NJ and NYC, you smile at compliments and either ignore rudeness or hit them with your designer bag.

Unless they are out of owners like Exiled Tyrant. Him I would just grab and ............




ExiledTyrant -> RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed (11/6/2014 7:10:01 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

I am a redhead, we must be adored.

In NJ and NYC, you smile at compliments and either ignore rudeness or hit them with your designer bag.

Unless they are out of owners like Exiled Tyrant. Him I would just grab and ............


I think I'm going to need to hear the "and...." cuz in my mind the cops are called and we are both trying to explain all the bite marks, scratches, and bruises of my adoration.

Jus sayin




sexyred1 -> RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed (11/6/2014 10:51:50 AM)

Yeah, that's about right. I think there was some hair pulling going on as well.





FieryOpal -> RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed (11/6/2014 11:08:24 AM)

I chose "Ignore" because I'm an introvert and prefer to be left alone. There's only one man (besides my kitties) I want to be attentive to me constantly, and I haven't met him yet.

IMO most women don't want unwanted attention, unless they are exhibitionists. Wanted attention is getting noticed and appreciated by a guy I think is hot, but he can't be conceited or it ruins it. Wanted attention is Brad Pitt, Jude Law, Johnny Depp; I would imagine they have enough class not to act like boorish fools. Okay, I'm too busy swooning to type any more than this. [sm=kiss.gif]




ExiledTyrant -> RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed (11/6/2014 11:10:03 AM)


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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Yeah, that's about right. I think there was some hair pulling going on as well.




Yep, we're in the same place. Good to know. xoxoxox




xTightlylacedx -> RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed (11/7/2014 4:51:22 AM)

At this point in my life, I've kind of fallen off the cat call radar, and I like being invisible now. The comments and cat calls always made me very uncomfortable. I did not see it as a compliment. It made me feel afraid and self-conscious. The only time I get any attention now is when I'm on a run, but I usually have my 80 pound German shepherd with me and she is a great deterrent.




SinFix -> RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed (11/7/2014 6:25:02 AM)

Ok, I voted for the adore me... though I most likely will not react to any adoring attention, I'm completely comfortable with myself to not have issues with this.




ExiledTyrant -> RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed (11/7/2014 6:27:43 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SinFix

Ok, I voted for the adore me... though I most likely will not react to any adoring attention, I'm completely comfortable with myself to not have issues with this.


That depends on where my adoration licks you, I'm thunkin.




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