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Inexperienced - 11/6/2014 9:00:26 AM

Turtles1234

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hi I'm inexperienced/new to the bdsm scene and was wondering what's the easiest way to find a master/mistress ??

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RE: Inexperienced - 11/6/2014 10:14:19 AM

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Why? Why do you want it to be easy?

The easiest way is to pay for a pro. Or advertise on craigslist.

Now, if you want a good relationship instead of the easiest one to get, then go to munches and events and meet people.

That said, you haven't bothered to fill in your profile and don't specify where in the UK you live. How serious are you?

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RE: Inexperienced - 11/6/2014 10:42:16 AM

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What DarkSteven said.

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RE: Inexperienced - 11/6/2014 12:30:09 PM

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Dang. I was about to say something but DS said it so well.

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RE: Inexperienced - 11/6/2014 2:48:38 PM

YouName

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edit: Hey if I can't play around a bit and help Turtles out that way I'll shut up!

Mean mod, mean!

edit2: Oh it was the druge reference. Mod is alright then :-) Rules are rules, no?

< Message edited by YouName -- 11/6/2014 3:22:20 PM >

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RE: Inexperienced - 11/9/2014 11:42:00 PM

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Probably the best way and the one that will create a lasting, fulfilling experience for you, is to go to some local kink events in your area and start making friends and connections. If you're not willing to put yourself out there and let people get to know you, you have to wonder what sort of Master or Mistress would want you.

Remember, if you want someone special, you've got to be someone special.

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RE: Inexperienced - 11/11/2014 12:40:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: Turtles1234

hi I'm inexperienced/new to the bdsm scene and was wondering what's the easiest way to find a master/mistress ??

All the best things in life require some diligent work. Easy will invite disaster. Your choice.

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RE: Inexperienced - 11/11/2014 6:17:12 PM

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