willing2serve
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Joined: 4/6/2004 Status: offline
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i do know i am an honest eager submissive, i never did use the cpl filter, but do let me say one positive thing about couples that was introduced to me when i began searching and learining in this lifestyle that some new submissives may want to consider, or at least i considered it. We all know that a search for the "One" is a difficult and a frustrating task, being new and eager, i did not have much patience and wanted to find "Him" immediately to begin all the wonderful exploration. i had an experienced couple approach me and offered to aid me in my explorations and search for a new Dom while getting curiosities filled in an honest, open, safe manner and not settling for the wrong Dom for me. i am fortunate that i am serving a Dom now, but i will admit the right couple option would keep new submissives from making costly mistakes IMO, all while learning and exploring and having patience to find the right one to serve. Thought i might just add another positive angle to finding a couple. Maybe its like having "Godparents" until you find the "Daddy" (wink)...i never did use this option, but i would not be opposed to it if ever needed in the future. i would be curious as to how the dynamics work in a triad. Respectfully, Willing2serve
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