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My Wife's deal - 11/6/2014 7:57:13 PM   
Snoek1973


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So after many years my wife is starting to understand and appareicate the joys of bondage which is a relieve for both of us. However she has now got particular about what she enjoys.

Now I am running out of ideas here - as long as she is bound / cuffed / tied up and there is no escape she is fine and really gets into it - however she now is getting a bigger kick out of more refined restraints where she cannot move and is completely at my mercy. When I have her in this predictment she is aroused before I even get close to her.

My question is this ------she is now making a deal that she is up for my games at anytime I like as long as I can ensure she is completely helpless and that's her kick, she is not interested in anything else.

Where can I get device bomdage type gear or anything else that can put her into these predictments ---I have exhausted my ideas to date and anything I can get from this forum would be great !

cheers
Snoek
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RE: My Wife's deal - 11/6/2014 8:15:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		You can try shibari, there are beginner's courses on youtube. Then you can get into other areas and suspension. Hanging her upside down might make blowjobs fun.Your profile confuses me though, does she know you are actively seeking?
Is this for your "wife" or your sub?

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RE: My Wife's deal - 11/6/2014 8:28:18 PM   
Snoek1973


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Status: offline 		Hi Goddess,

thanks - yep sounds interesting.......

No she doesnt and yes prfile needs to change --------as has my siutation - so understand the confusion :-)

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RE: My Wife's deal - 11/6/2014 8:34:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		^ those youtube videos are a good suggestion. Two Knotty Boys have a lot 'how to' videos on the net, so does Twisted Monk. They have their web sites and they are rather nicely put together. I posted a rope instructional lick list a while ago but the links are broken now. However it's good list of titles and you can search the titles for their new locations.
-=Several Instructional Rope Bondage Videos=-

You can also read up on predicament bondage. Book link in my sig. As Manko mentioned, shibari is popular and fav book is The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondageby Midori, Craig Morey

You are at a wonderful place in your relationship. You both have discovered something new and exciting to explore together and that is a blessing. Have fun.




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RE: My Wife's deal - 11/6/2014 9:24:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		You can also use pallet wrap, easily bought at Home Depot. Like saran wrap but bigger rolls. If you try this, put something like a bottle cap under it so you can then cut holes into it in places you want to play with.

Spreader bars work well if you enjoy them. Personally I don't. The bar tends to press on a body part and hurt.

For lined leather cuffs, almost any good sex shop or online store such as Extremerestraints will sell sets. Try wrists tied to ankles tied to thigh cuffs. Or any such combination. Under bed restraints work well also for spread eagle.

Is she interested in sensory deprivation? Blindfolds and gags.

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RE: My Wife's deal - 11/6/2014 9:50:24 PM   
Snoek1973


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Status: offline 		Thanks RSADIST , very much appreciated !

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RE: My Wife's deal - 11/6/2014 9:51:52 PM   
Snoek1973


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Status: offline 		thansk Desfip !! like the pallet wrap !

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RE: My Wife's deal - 11/7/2014 5:29:20 PM   
YouName


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Status: offline 		There's a toy that works like a latex sleepingbag. It has an internal pumping mechanism (sometimes external) that sucks out all the air out of it leaving you completely restrained.
Doesn't lead much room for play though you can pick one that doesn't cover the face.


It's called a Vacuum bed.
Seriously dangerous toy though, for obvious reasons.

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RE: My Wife's deal - 11/8/2014 9:24:18 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		I strongly warn against trying suspension at home unless you've taken a workshop or two or three on it. Too many people think an eyehook into sheetrock is sufficient. You really don't want to do that.

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RE: My Wife's deal - 11/8/2014 10:31:30 AM   
Bhruic


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Snoek1973

My question is this ------she is now making a deal that she is up for my games at anytime I like as long as I can ensure she is completely helpless and that's her kick, she is not interested in anything else.


cheers
Snoek


I don't know how happy I would be about such a narrow and self directed demand... but anyway...

Try vacuum bed restraints... You are pretty much 100% immobilized as I understand it.

http://boingboing.net/2008/11/26/latex-vacbed-bondage.html

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RE: My Wife's deal - 11/10/2014 5:54:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		Not the cheapest or most available choice but I am throwing this out there since this is an option a lot of people don't know about: Segufix

< Message edited by Inghammar -- 11/10/2014 5:55:10 PM >

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RE: My Wife's deal - 11/11/2014 12:14:12 AM   
Snoek1973


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Status: offline 		cheers - intersesting ...is it easy to get hold of ?

looks a bit loose --- wander how much it tightens up and etc ------have you used it t=yet ?

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RE: My Wife's deal - 11/11/2014 4:54:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
I strongly warn against trying suspension at home unless you've taken a workshop or two or three on it. Too many people think an eyehook into sheetrock is sufficient. You really don't want to do that.


Alternatively one could go to the fetlife group "above the ring" and be at least a little handy or just buy a stand. I think the workshop-worthy part of things isn't so much in the anchor as where girl meets anchor.

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RE: My Wife's deal - 11/12/2014 8:26:55 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Snoek1973


So after many years my wife is starting to understand and appareicate (appreciate) the joys of bondage which is a relieve (relief) for both of us. However she has now got particular about what she enjoys.

Now I am running out of ideas here - as long as she is bound / cuffed / tied up and there is no escape she is fine and really gets into it - however she now is getting a bigger kick out of more refined restraints where she cannot move and is completely at my mercy. When I have her in this predictment (predicament) she is aroused before I even get close to her.

My question is this ------she is now making a deal that she is up for my games at anytime I like as long as I can ensure she is completely helpless and that's her kick, she is not interested in anything else.

Where can I get device bomdage (bondage) type gear or anything else that can put her into these predictments (predicaments) ---I have exhausted my ideas to date and anything I can get from this forum would be great !

cheers
Snoek


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RE: My Wife's deal - 11/18/2014 9:10:44 AM   
Bhruic


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Snoek1973

cheers - intersesting ...is it easy to get hold of ?

looks a bit loose --- wander how much it tightens up and etc ------have you used it t=yet ?



I worked as an HA1 at a mental hospital when I was going to Uni... and those look like the restraints used on psychotic mental patients when they were having an episode and were at risk of injuring themselves. They definitely could not (usually) get out of them... but they do not completely restrict movement. That would have driven them more nuts.

If you want total immobility, go with the vacuum bed. I am told you can feel a lot through the rubber.

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