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Munches in my area? And why bother... - 11/10/2014 11:36:04 PM   
xgender


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Status: offline 		Would like to attend a munch in my area (Albany, Brattleboro), but have no idea on how to find one. Help is appreciated in this regard.

As to "Why bother..." - Feeling pretty fucked over by relationships. Tired of dealing with vanilla who act like their shit don't stink and that somehow I am to be tolerated. Fuck that. I am worth being cherished (tolerated, my ass)... So I'm hoping meeting folks at a munch will help to cahnge that.

So, help is sought to fine a munch in my area...

Thanks,

Julian

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RE: Munches in my area? And why bother... - 11/10/2014 11:55:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: xgender

Would like to attend a munch in my area (Albany, Brattleboro), but have no idea on how to find one. Help is appreciated in this regard.

https://www.google.com/search?q=bdsm+munch+albany

https://www.google.com/search?q=bdsm+munch+brattleboro


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RE: Munches in my area? And why bother... - 11/11/2014 10:57:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		And you are worth being cherished, because....?

Straight up - one big reason I don't have anything to do with munches anymore is because of the high percentage of folks I wasn't even willing to tolerate after a while.

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RE: Munches in my area? And why bother... - 11/11/2014 11:52:11 AM   
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Just because someone is kinky doesn't mean they will be any different than non kinky people you meet and get into a relationship with. If everyone you've ever dated tolerates you, then you are subconsciously picking people to do this. The only constant in all your relationships is you.

To change this, to fix your broken people picker, and to become someone worth cherishing requires a great deal of self work.

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RE: Munches in my area? And why bother... - 11/11/2014 3:12:18 PM   
xgender


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ORIGINAL: stef


quote:

ORIGINAL: xgender

Would like to attend a munch in my area (Albany, Brattleboro), but have no idea on how to find one. Help is appreciated in this regard.

https://www.google.com/search?q=bdsm+munch+albany

https://www.google.com/search?q=bdsm+munch+brattleboro




Thanks Stef.

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RE: Munches in my area? And why bother... - 11/11/2014 3:13:34 PM   
xgender


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ORIGINAL: TheHeretic

And you are worth being cherished, because....?

Straight up - one big reason I don't have anything to do with munches anymore is because of the high percentage of folks I wasn't even willing to tolerate after a while.


I am worth being cherished (by my lover which was evident in my OP) the same way we all are. If you don't understand that you have no business in this thread...Straight up.

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RE: Munches in my area? And why bother... - 11/11/2014 3:20:25 PM   
xgender


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

http://www.albanypowerexchange.org/

Just because someone is kinky doesn't mean they will be any different than non kinky people you meet and get into a relationship with. If everyone you've ever dated tolerates you, then you are subconsciously picking people to do this. The only constant in all your relationships is you.

To change this, to fix your broken people picker, and to become someone worth cherishing requires a great deal of self work.


Thanks Des. To be clear the difference I seek is a like minded crowd - one that doesn't see kink as something to be tolerated. I never said that everyone I ever dated tolerates me- you said that - I said I was sick of just being tolerated. A recent thing. So I appreciate the advise, but it doesn't apply. ;) And yes, I have made changes to my people picker in light of recent relationship decisions.

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RE: Munches in my area? And why bother... - 11/12/2014 8:30:31 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: xgender

Would like to attend a munch in my area (Albany, Brattleboro), but have no idea on how to find one. Help is appreciated in this regard.

As to "Why bother..." - Feeling pretty fucked over by relationships. Tired of dealing with vanilla who act like their shit don't stink and that somehow I am to be tolerated. Fuck that. I am worth being cherished (tolerated, my ass)... So I'm hoping meeting folks at a munch will help to cahnge that.

So, help is sought to fine a munch in my area...

Thanks,

Julian


Brattleboro is tough...Albany is rocking.

Quit whining.

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RE: Munches in my area? And why bother... - 11/12/2014 9:40:16 PM   
xgender


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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie


quote:

ORIGINAL: xgender

Would like to attend a munch in my area (Albany, Brattleboro), but have no idea on how to find one. Help is appreciated in this regard.

As to "Why bother..." - Feeling pretty fucked over by relationships. Tired of dealing with vanilla who act like their shit don't stink and that somehow I am to be tolerated. Fuck that. I am worth being cherished (tolerated, my ass)... So I'm hoping meeting folks at a munch will help to cahnge that.

So, help is sought to fine a munch in my area...

Thanks,

Julian


Brattleboro is tough...Albany is rocking.

Quit whining.



Thanks on Albany. Bite me on the whining. ;-)

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RE: Munches in my area? And why bother... - 11/12/2014 10:46:21 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: xgender

quote:

ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie


quote:

ORIGINAL: xgender

Would like to attend a munch in my area (Albany, Brattleboro), but have no idea on how to find one. Help is appreciated in this regard.

As to "Why bother..." - Feeling pretty fucked over by relationships. Tired of dealing with vanilla who act like their shit don't stink and that somehow I am to be tolerated. Fuck that. I am worth being cherished (tolerated, my ass)... So I'm hoping meeting folks at a munch will help to cahnge that.

So, help is sought to fine a munch in my area...

Thanks,

Julian


Brattleboro is tough...Albany is rocking.

Quit whining.



Thanks on Albany. Bite me on the whining. ;-)


Deal with it.

Quit whining.

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RE: Munches in my area? And why bother... - 11/12/2014 11:26:50 PM   
xgender


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< Message edited by xgender -- 11/12/2014 11:29:31 PM >

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RE: Munches in my area? And why bother... - 11/12/2014 11:28:41 PM   
xgender


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Status: offline 		It was a rant. Btw, who the hell are you to tell me anything? (Edited to get rid of my "Get bent" comment)

You wanna kick me when I'm down? Expect to get kicked back.


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RE: Munches in my area? And why bother... - 11/13/2014 12:20:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: xgender

It was a rant. Btw, who the hell are you to tell me anything? (Edited to get rid of my "Get bent" comment)

You wanna kick me when I'm down? Expect to get kicked back.

Ignore him, everyone else does.

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