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DerangedUnit -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/19/2014 7:16:26 PM)

Yes, mine lists a couple of inches shorter than he is, but he also lists heavier.... I think it has to do with modest body image more than intent... or maybe I have the distorted view since I don't have a measuring tape that long :P

I think it has to do with being less intimidating. In social situations men always automatically agree with whatever he says and women all automatically become defensive(with me it's the exact opposite, women always act scared of me and men pick fights which makes for a really interesting dance when we are together... those types of things facinate me though) so he tries to make himself come across as less intimidating so that people qont just say "yes I can do that right away sir"... when they have no clue what they are trying to do.

The women in my family are mostly the tall models types, they go overseas for modelling contracts and 5 of my cousins/aunts brought back Japanese men they married... usually they are a lot taller than their spouse. So they are always trying to insinuate they are taller than they are. women aren't allowed to wear heels, and so on. One of my exes had 5'6 on his license and he wasn't more than 5'2.




searching4mysir -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/19/2014 8:01:45 PM)

The picture of me on this profile is close to 2 years and 100 lbs ago. But I'm not searching anymore, and he has loved me fat and thin so it really doesn't matter at this point.



FieryOpal -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/19/2014 8:13:07 PM)

I think we get it that your stance is "Nope, It's Not Too Much to Ask a Woman [Who's a Total Stranger to You] to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System" and if you go over on Fet, there are plenty of women over there who will happily scratch your itch for you, regardless of whether they share in that fetish or kink themselves. Why would they do this? Why, because we all know that men will happily oblige any random woman who approaches them. Would you GS, provide this public service out of the goodness of your heart because you're such a giver? Or as you had posed to me earlier about attractiveness, if you weren't already in a (presumably) committed relationship, would you only oblige a woman whom you found attractive? At the very minimum, a woman who strokes your ego like you're the hottest thing since baked bread? [:D]

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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

Oh, I also believe those lying-profile stats reflect the majority of stag (or cheating) men's basic nature to say whatever line of b.s., or to give whatever impression they can, even make whatever promises they sense are necessary to get what they want from a woman.
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ORIGINAL: GotSteel

Actually you did make up that conclusion, your link about how men are twice as likely to lie wasn't a general statement, it was specific that they're twice as likely fudge their height. And AND that twice as likely didn't get anywhere near the majority of single men, it was 22% All the various studies that your link quoted showed minority numbers, NOT the majority that you believe.

Allow me to recap for you. These are the 3 things I mentioned, for the sake of brevity:
-- to say whatever line of b.s.
-- to give whatever impression they can
-- even make whatever promises they sense are necessary
...to get what they want from a woman.
First off, I did not say that what a man wants from a woman is primarily or only sex, now did I? A man could be looking for a steady girlfriend or a wife. You are the one who read more into it than what was actually stated.

When my husband, who was originally my first real boyfriend when I was still in high school, and I met at a party, he was the bouncer there. After we got to talking, he flashed me his U of MD faculty card and said he was a professor. Now, he was intoxicated at the time, but that's not the point. I later found out he worked security there. He wanted to get in my pants and tried to impress me. If he had been completely sober, perhaps he wouldn't have done that, who knows, but that's no excuse.

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ORIGINAL: GotSteel

Oh good the anecdote because those are very reliable and never skewed by conformation bias.

Excuse me, is this a scientific study we're conducting here? I know you've heard of empirical evidence, based on personal observation. And your anecdotes about how more open to BDSM and sexually minded people are at Fet compared with here on CS should also be disregarded and summarily dismissed? Many of those same Fet people are also on CS & OkCupid, because I get many cross-referenced user names. Oh, that's right. My anecdotal experiences don't count--just yours do.



DesFIP -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/19/2014 8:24:26 PM)

Re height: A lighter note.
The Man went for his annual this year and they have new height measurements. According to this new machine, he's three inches shorter than he was a year ago. Which would make him shorter than my daughter who is 5'10. He's still about two inches taller than her. So I don't think he's been lying about his height all this time.

Of course, two weeks ago when I had mine, they measured me on the other machine down the other corridor. I was pleased to discover that I'm an inch taller than last year. I'm now 5'4" which is not a height I have ever been. At my tallest I was 5'3 1/2". But I know I've shrunk at least half an inch over the years.



GotSteel -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/21/2014 12:13:04 PM)

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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
I think we get it that your stance is "Nope, It's Not Too Much to Ask a Woman [Who's a Total Stranger to You] to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System" and if you go over on Fet, there are plenty of women over there who will happily scratch your itch for you, regardless of whether they share in that fetish or kink themselves.....

Um no that's not my stance at all....

The way your looking at things is just bizarre to me, lots of people these days aren't as hyper relationship driven as you, they want to do things like get established in a career first. It's natural for both genders to enjoy sex and sexual acts.

Ergo the guy just needs to run into a girl who would get off on the power trip of humiliating him. I get that girls not you but simply not being compatible with your way of things doesn't mean it's compatible with no-ones.



GotSteel -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/21/2014 12:19:19 PM)


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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
First off, I did not say that what a man wants from a woman is primarily or only sex, now did I?


What statement of mine are you even responding to with this?



FieryOpal -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/21/2014 2:44:01 PM)


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ORIGINAL: GotSteel
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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

I think we get it that your stance is "Nope, It's Not Too Much to Ask a Woman [Who's a Total Stranger to You] to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System" and if you go over on Fet, there are plenty of women over there who will happily scratch your itch for you, regardless of whether they share in that fetish or kink themselves.....

Um no that's not my stance at all....

The way your looking at things is just bizarre to me, lots of people these days aren't as hyper relationship driven as you, they want to do things like get established in a career first. It's natural for both genders to enjoy sex and sexual acts.

Ergo the guy just needs to run into a girl who would get off on the power trip of humiliating him. I get that girls not you but simply not being compatible with your way of things doesn't mean it's compatible with no-ones.

And 'lots of people,' both female and male alike are relationship driven, and always have been, career considerations or not. It all depends upon what each person's individual priorities are.
This isn't about relationship commitments and this isn't about my personal preferences alone, as a woman or as a lifestyle Domme. If you'll notice, this thread title is not directed at Dommes and is inclusive of all females. Neither does it point the finger at male subs or just one side of the kneel.

It is more systemic of the fast-food culture that we live in, where instant gratification rules the day. A topic for another day, perhaps.

Would you stand on a street corner braying to the world that somebody of the female persuasion needs to fix you a Big Mac, with a side of French fries? Forthwith, and post-haste? No, I imagine you wouldn't do that. How does it make it any more acceptable - other than hiding behind a computer screen - for an HNG (vanilla, Dom, Top, S/switch, sub-slave, bottom) to no sooner than even bother to ask Hello, How Are You, let me tell you a little bit about myself as a person, and get to know you as a person also, introduce himself as his fetish or as his kink.
Seriously, if you can't see the distinction, or if you've been blind to the innumerable threads that start out as "Why is it so hard to find a woman to..." or "Why can't I find a Mistress who will..." and then ends with [name of fetish-kink].

This is nothing new, the topic of this particular discussion. As with any number of contentious issues, sometimes all that can be done is to hope to raise awareness that it IS an issue, not to try to invalidate our opinions. That, in itself, is an issue.
Look, there's also nothing wrong for you to refer newcomers to other sites where they might possibly meet with better success than they have here. But if their approach is flawed, then why don't you point that out as well, rather than trying to stick your finger in the dyke?

For your research and/or to refresh your memory:
http://www.collarchat.com/m_4267202/tm.htm "Funny Messages from the 'Other Side'" (1226 posts, 62 pages)
http://www.collarchat.com/m_4577130/tm.htm "50 Shades of NOPE" (89 posts, 5 pages)



GotSteel -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/21/2014 6:43:43 PM)


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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
But if their approach is flawed...


Let me stop you right there. This is my problem with your position, you're judging the validity of what they want.



xgender -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/22/2014 2:42:42 AM)


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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

Not a poll, but in the name of random stupidity, there is currently a thread which demands "Is that too much to ask for?" a "dominating woman to pin me down and lick/spit all over my face while berating me." [8|]

This, without even asking us out to dinner and a movie. How cheap do these guys think we are? [8D]

Yep, it's too much to ask a Dominant (or any) woman to be your fetish/kink delivery system.
Yep, it's too much to ask a woman to come up and kick you in the balls.
Yep, it's too much to ask a woman to slap you in the face because you enjoy it.
Yep, it's too much to ask a woman to squash your face.
Yep, it's too much to ask a woman to trample on you.
Yep, it's too much to ask a woman to assfuck you with a dildo.
Yep, it's too much to ask a woman to want to fuck you with a strap-on.
Yep, it's too much to ask a woman if you can squeeze her breasts.
Yep, it's too much to ask a woman if you can squeeze her butt.
Yep, it's too much to ask a woman to flash her tits/ass/pussy for you.
Yep, it's too much to ask a woman [fill in the blank]....

Just so nobody feels left out,
Yep, it's too much to ask a man [fill in the blank]....
Yep, it's too much to ask a transgender [fill in the blank]....


FO, who is "us" and "we"? And why is it just "guys"?

Fwiw, the male in me resents this and the female in me doesn't understand your rant. You're getting attention and you don't like it? I know that not all attention is desired, but by being on site and having a public profile, you've set yourself up for this and you know it. So, what's the real issue?



GotSteel -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/22/2014 3:29:41 AM)


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ORIGINAL: xgender


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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
This, without even asking us out to dinner and a movie. How cheap do these guys think we are? [8D]


FO, who is "us" and "we"? And why is it just "guys"?


I'm thinking misandry since she's making negative statements about the "majority" of single guys which neither her stats nor her anecdotes support. But what really horrified me was the "cheap" comment. The moment we're talking about selling sex, cheap or expensive are just different flavors of hooker. Portraying women that way rubs the feminist in my humanist the wrong way.



FieryOpal -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/22/2014 9:49:51 AM)


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ORIGINAL: GotSteel
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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
But if their approach is flawed...

Let me stop you right there. This is my problem with your position, you're judging the validity of what they want.

The approach of which I speak is the approach that a person - which for [the word that Mm takes exception to :p] non-lesbian Dommes would be a male on this site, but which could also be a female or transgender - takes to introduce himself/herself.

You, amigo, are judging that I am judging the validity of what a person who lacks social skills or manners wants.
My examples are not made up. Neither are they a direct criticism of a particular fetish or kink.
I could just as easily have used vanilla sex-demanding examples, but those wouldn't have tied in with the title, which is more germane to this site.
In fact, demands for vanilla sex are much more prevalent on other kinds of Seeking (dating, sex but not BDSM-centric) sites.
However, if it makes you feel better, I'll add a couple which I am also into, since THAT IS NOT THE ISSUE.

For the sake of clarity, let me substitute the word "ask" for "approach" (come up to, send a cold-call message to), and then a brief notation as to why for the benefit of the clueless:
Yep, it's too much to approach a woman to perform oral worship (cunnilingus, anilingus) upon her. Why? Because this assumes that the woman is willing to spread her legs for anyone (total stranger) who expresses this desire. It is therefore presumptuous.
Yep, it's too much to approach a woman with your bare ass (could be in pic form) to get an OTK spanking session. Why? Because this assumes that simply a bare ass will do, and that being a spanking slut is all it takes to get your foot in the door. It is therefore presumptuous.



smileforme50 -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/22/2014 10:06:41 AM)


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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal


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ORIGINAL: GotSteel
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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
But if their approach is flawed...

Let me stop you right there. This is my problem with your position, you're judging the validity of what they want.

The approach of which I speak is the approach that a person - which for [the word that Mm takes exception to :p] non-lesbian Dommes would be a male on this site, but which could also be a female or transgender - takes to introduce himself/herself.

You, amigo, are judging that I am judging the validity of what a person who lacks social skills or manners wants.
My examples are not made up. Neither are they a direct criticism of a particular fetish or kink.
I could just as easily have used vanilla sex-demanding examples, but those wouldn't have tied in with the title, which is more germane to this site.
In fact, demands for vanilla sex are much more prevalent on other kinds of Seeking (dating, sex but not BDSM-centric) sites.
However, if it makes you feel better, I'll add a couple which I am also into, since THAT IS NOT THE ISSUE.

For the sake of clarity, let me substitute the word "ask" for "approach" (come up to, send a cold-call message to), and then a brief notation as to why for the benefit of the clueless:
Yep, it's too much to approach a woman to perform oral worship (cunnilingus, anilingus) upon her. Why? Because this assumes that the woman is willing to spread her legs for anyone (total stranger) who expresses this desire. It is therefore presumptuous.
Yep, it's too much to approach a woman with your bare ass (could be in pic form) to get an OTK spanking session. Why? Because this assumes that simply a bare ass will do, and that being a spanking slut is all it takes to get your foot in the door. It is therefore presumptuous.



I'm sorry. I'm going to add my comment into this and I am speaking about these types of men (not necessarily all men)

For some stupid reason, they seem to think that since this is exactly what they would LOVE to have a woman come up to them and do--offer to spread her legs to him so he could perform oral worship-- they seem to think that the only reason a woman doesn't do that is because she is shy....and he just needs to give her a little "push" of encouragement.

ugh



FieryOpal -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/22/2014 10:25:47 AM)

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ORIGINAL: xgender
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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

This, without even asking us out to dinner and a movie. How cheap do these guys think we are? [8D]
<snip>

FO, who is "us" and "we"? And why is it just "guys"?

Fwiw, the male in me resents this and the female in me doesn't understand your rant. You're getting attention and you don't like it? I know that not all attention is desired, but by being on site and having a public profile, you've set yourself up for this and you know it. So, what's the real issue?

Since this is about asking or approaching a woman, the "us" would refer to a woman. You'll note that I did indicate in my first example "any" woman, so this can mean a person who identifies as such and not necessarily from a cis-gender standpoint.

"Guys" is a generic term which includes both males & females. Saying You guys does not excludes gals. I've heard some younger women (and seen this on line also) call other women "dudes," although to me a "dude" is a male.

Let me ask you this, xgender, assuming that you do not like to be sexually objectified by complete strangers (which your post would indicate that neither the male in you nor the female in you [unsure there] doesn't) if somebody were to send you this message, would you take to it warmly?
"Show me what your dick looks like under that dress. Transgenders get me hot."

This topic has offended you in some way, or else I have, and that was unintentional. If you choose not to participate by sharing your own experiences, that's your prerogative. I thank those who have. I deliberately made an effort not to exclude anyone, per my OP:

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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

Just so nobody feels left out,
Yep, it's too much to ask a man [fill in the blank]....
Yep, it's too much to ask a transgender [fill in the blank]....
[Brackets mine]



FieryOpal -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/22/2014 11:15:44 AM)

[Brackets mine]
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ORIGINAL: smileforme50
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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
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ORIGINAL: GotSteel
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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
But if their approach is flawed...

Let me stop you right there. This is my problem with your position, you're judging the validity of what they want.

The approach of which I speak is the approach that a person - which for [most] non-lesbian Dommes would be a male on this site, but which could also be a female or transgender - takes to introduce himself/herself.
[snip]
For the sake of clarity, let me substitute the word "ask" for "approach" (come up to, send a cold-call message to), and then a brief notation as to why for the benefit of the clueless:
Yep, it's too much to approach a woman to perform oral worship (cunnilingus, anilingus) upon her. Why? Because this assumes that the woman is willing to spread her legs for anyone (total stranger) who expresses this desire. It is therefore presumptuous....

I'm sorry. I'm going to add my comment into this and I am speaking about these types of men (not necessarily all men)

For some stupid reason, they seem to think that since this is exactly what they would LOVE to have a woman come up to them and do--offer to spread her legs to him so he could perform oral worship-- they seem to think that the only reason a woman doesn't do that is because she is shy....and he just needs to give her a little "push" of encouragement.

ugh

You bring up a good point, smile. There are women from every walk of life who do not get into oral sex receiving (vanilla, Domme-Top, S/switch, sub-bottom), and yet those who make such offers tend to act as if it's all about pleasuring us women and not all about them. We've had many such threads where the OP was utterly confused about how this could be, and why weren't women thrilled to take him up on his sexual offers left & right.

Irrespective of this mentality, it does illustrate how those who solicit sexual or BDSM favors automatically assume that this is what the other person also wants, that there is nothing further to negotiate. In some cases it could pertain, but it is the one-sidedness of this approach which is fundamentally flawed.

I have a cross-dressing friend whom I've taken out clothes shopping before. Would I do this for someone who was not a friend? Why would I, and why should I? He has a standing offer to take me up flying in his plane with him, but that's not my thing. Regardless, I appreciate the thought because we have a friendship--which btw, IS a relationship, although not a physically intimate one (other than helping him get changed in the dressing-room stalls).



FieryOpal -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/22/2014 11:43:36 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GotSteel
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ORIGINAL: xgender
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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
This, without even asking us out to dinner and a movie. How cheap do these guys think we are? [8D]

FO, who is "us" and "we"? And why is it just "guys"?

I'm thinking misandry since she's making negative statements about the "majority" of single guys which neither her stats nor her anecdotes support. But what really horrified me was the "cheap" comment. The moment we're talking about selling sex, cheap or expensive are just different flavors of hooker. Portraying women that way rubs the feminist in my humanist the wrong way.

Tell that to my friend who is 10 times more the "feminist in" your 'humanist" than you'll ever be. [:)] He has marched in Equal Rights rallies (signing petitions counts also) and is not an armchair feminist.
Further, tongue-in-cheek humor must have escaped you. You do know what this means, don't you: [8D]

Furthermore, my anecdotes are not to make this all about me or the people I have known, or those with whom I presently interact. I don't need to provide evidence or stats to support what the experience of women on Seeking sites encounter from the 'majority' of men (whether single or not) who contact them on dating and/or sex/BDSM sites. Majority means over 50%. Since you are the one who has doubts, you can always do what other males have done and set up your own bogus female test profile to see for yourself, that would be entirely up to you. I wouldn't recommend doing so for ethical reasons, but considering that you have no concrete basis upon which to base your musings, then perhaps you are the one who can provide *proof* of your own spurious allegations and counterclaims.



FieryOpal -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/22/2014 4:10:06 PM)

Just FYI GS, I'm glad that the subject of truthfulness in actively maintained profiles has been broached. I had a birthday last month and have subsequently updated my age on this site.
On this site, due to it not automatically updating ages yearly, I make a mental allowance for ages being more than how they get listed, adjusting it by the Join Date, unless informed otherwise.
There is no half-inch selection under height, so that shall remain a half inch over.
There is, of course, obviously a difference between a deliberate deception, an implied deception, an outright lie, an omission of the truth, and plain ole hypocrisy.

It would appear that you have deigned to make this personal. So perhaps you won't mind if I ask you, since you seem to identify with the less-than-half minority of men who are sticklers for accurate data in their own profile stats, are you still 35 and is your avatar/profile pic a recent one? Within the last 2 years, as opposed to one of your favorite photos of yourself? Are you the height & weight that you have disclosed, give or take a half inch in height and roughly 10-15 lbs in weight? I'll take your word for it, whatever you decide to answer.

Also, I don't believe that calling people out on their shite makes a person a misandrist or a misogynist. You should perhaps better familiarize yourself with the definition of this term before using it improperly.

I love men (people) in general. Most of my friends throughout my life have been males. Doesn't mean I want to have sex with them by virtue of their maleness.
I'm biased on this, but I believe I had the best father in the world. I couldn't have asked for a better one.
Some past issues with my older brother due to his self-entitlement and mental illness, but I've reconciled those.
My male relatives, including in-laws, are pretty cool. So are my female ones.
I married my first real boyfriend. We later got divorced. We got back together about 10 years later. He will always be my first husband, and I have referred to him as my husband, although technically he's my late husband.
I believe I've already indicated that my (late) husband was my sub and that we had a happy marriage overall, with 2 wonderful sons.
On the fora, I have referred to my second husband as my (vanilla fetishist) ex-fiancé. It would detract from the content of my posts to go into a longwinded explanation about this. He perpetrated 2 pre-marital frauds, and not telling me that he knew he was sterile (this had been an issue w/his last ex-wife per fertility treatments) until long after we were married (a good 5 years after we had started dating), which made that marriage annullable. He always knew I wanted another child and for my (older) son to not grow up as an only child.
TMI, but now you know a little more about me than you did before, upon which to extrapolate whatever it is that serves your purposes to extrapolate.

[Edited to remove word don't]



GotSteel -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/22/2014 8:53:29 PM)


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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
And 'lots of people,' both female and male alike are relationship driven, and always have been, career considerations or not. It all depends upon what each person's individual priorities are.

Exactly.

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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
This isn't about relationship commitments and this isn't about my personal preferences alone, as a woman or as a lifestyle Domme. If you'll notice, this thread title is not directed at Dommes and is inclusive of all females. Neither does it point the finger at male subs or just one side of the kneel.

It is more systemic of the fast-food culture that we live in, where instant gratification rules the day. A topic for another day, perhaps.

There's the judging people for wanting something different than you again.

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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
Would you stand on a street corner braying to the world that somebody of the female persuasion needs to fix you a Big Mac, with a side of French fries? Forthwith, and post-haste? No, I imagine you wouldn't do that. How does it make it any more acceptable - other than hiding behind a computer screen - for an HNG (vanilla, Dom, Top, S/switch, sub-slave, bottom) to no sooner than even bother to ask Hello, How Are You, let me tell you a little bit about myself as a person, and get to know you as a person also, introduce himself as his fetish or as his kink.

Two compatible people sharing a scene isn't one sided, even when that's all they're sharing. If that's what the guy's looking for, then that's what the guys looking for. Fixing his "approach" to make it sound different....wouldn't that entail the lying you've been complaining about?

Instead of all the judging and trying to get posters to conform to how you think things should work, why not just send them to where they'd fit in? https://fetlife.com/groups/61368/group_posts/6186391



FieryOpal -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/22/2014 9:47:49 PM)

You should take a look at this (from Missokyst's thread): http://www.upworthy.com/have-you-seen-this-instagram-account-it-makes-me-totally-embarrassed-to-be-a-man?c=ufb1

(I couldn't find one with a hard-on.)

[image]local://upfiles/1774587/5A8893C04EA84A468925E2DA597BBD4D.jpg[/image]



HoneyBears -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/23/2014 8:53:18 AM)

Fiery, have you been seeing a disturbing trend lately?
There must be a full moon.
Not only are there fewer and fewer dommes posting over the past six months, but the ones who do are often getting dissed and harassed lately.
It is ironic for this to be instigated by someone who is quick to criticize those of us who remain here on the forum side of collarspace as giving other posters a hard time.


[image]local://upfiles/1754578/E66E7993B2D04A4984AC59B0634D5A3F.jpg[/image]



ExiledTyrant -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/23/2014 9:12:04 AM)

I'm with HoneyBears.



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