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EmpressElsa -> RE: So how do you know who's fake? (11/19/2014 4:03:53 AM)
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Before we can ask if someone is fake we must operationalize the word fake. In other words, how do you define fake?
Is she fake because she works as a professional Dominant? That is not fake, just different than someone who is strictly lifestyle. No need to get all pissy and use the block button, just say no and move on.
Is she fake because she is a financial Dominatrix? That is not fake, just different. Again, just say no and move on.
Is she fake because her ideas of BDSM is different than yours? That is not fake either, just different.
Is she fake because she is actually a man in disguise, then yes, "she" is fake LOL.
But for all the bitching that guys do about "fake" Dommes, we ladies wade neck deep through thousands of BS notes from males who think they are subs but are really just guys who are looking to get laid and never call again. I have lost count of the numbers of misogynists, selfish pricks, weirdos, clueless dumb asses, scammers, people who are too lazy to think for themselves, etc.
This topic is actually quite played out on this site. Most people who claim to be real Doms/subs are full of shit, and this site is especially bad for some reason. With experience, you learn to look for clues. For example, if she's a hot Domme and in her early 20s but you are over 35 and not in stellar shape, she's probably in it professionally.There are certain word clues in profiles as well. Most people do not read carefully.
There is no litmus test. I was called fake once because I told a male that I had absolutely zero desire to stick my fist up his ass (which I dare say is the case for most lifestyle Dommes). Funny because I live the lifestyle, literally, 24/7. I have thought certain males were fake subs, but in reality they were just COMPLETELY uneducated in terms of approaching a Domme, so they came off as wankers.
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