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What is going on here? - 11/20/2014 7:12:12 PM   
travisalamo


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Status: offline 		I responded to a profile posting by a woman who claimed to be dominant looking for slave husband. Said she worked offshore as technical person on oil rig. She claimed that in order to communicate with her, I needed to sign up with an offshore internet provider. Well, I was interested and ask the company she mentioned to give me address to send check for fees. Well, I got a response from a guy claiming to be some kind of manager for a company, which I know to be legitimate, but with a slightly different name than the first one. He wanted me to contact western union or money gram about sending him money to a place he would provide information for. I smelled a rat. So I contacted the legitimate company whose name he used and they never heard of him or the woman. What do you think is going on? The woman is still listed with the same profile, so I wrote to her and told her that the people she was dealing with were apparently scam artists of some kind. I havent heard back. I hope that she is alright. I suppose maybe she gave up on finding someone, but her profile is still active. Of course, she was only 30 which is a lot younger that me, so maybe she just changed her mind. What do you think?
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RE: What is going on here? - 11/20/2014 7:29:04 PM   
SeekingTrinity


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Status: offline 		It's a hustle and she is in on it, OP. Plain and simple. Your dream girl is fishing for stupid and you weren't as stupid as she hoped.

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RE: What is going on here? - 11/20/2014 7:31:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		Travis, please report the profile to me or Support, through an email or clicking on report for the email or profile/journal. Please do not give the name here. Each email has a warning not to send money to anyone and there are very good reasons for not doing that. A safe personal rule is to not go off site with strangers. Get to know them a bit before you do, especially if they are asking you to sign up for something.

Please let us know so that we can look into this. You can click on my name and go to my profile or find me in a search from home page.

Thank you,

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RE: What is going on here? - 11/20/2014 7:36:03 PM   
starkem


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Status: offline 		Your first mistake was seeming like a desperate potential slave husband. Contacting someone in need of a slave husband requires more than a desire. Your action was arbitrary and random. Your desperation may have prompted the prudent to find a suitable means to exploit the obvious. Please be careful in the future. May I suggest interactions on this forum in topic discussions similar to your interest. You could possibly attract the desired position or at least get a referral in the right direction from someone. Enjoy.

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RE: What is going on here? - 11/20/2014 7:45:02 PM   
shiftyw


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Well- are you new to the internet? Don't send strangers money. Don't use Western Union to do anything like that. There is a HUGE red warning label on EVERY MESSAGE YOU GET on collarspace suggesting that you not to do so.

Don't do it.
Its a hustle- and there is no "her"

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RE: What is going on here? - 11/20/2014 8:34:34 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		He is 70.

This makes me very sad for him.

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RE: What is going on here? - 11/20/2014 9:01:47 PM   
FieryOpal


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He is 70.

This makes me very sad for him.

Hahaha...

People actually fall for this stuff? Or is it just guys?

And why is it young people can't resist clicking onto those "You Are the Millionth...WINNER...Click Here" pop-ups that can hijack your computer?

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RE: What is going on here? - 11/20/2014 9:07:50 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Fella, forget about meeting women online. Go to munches and events. I'm 58 and find that women over 50 are very interested in someone their age or older.

Go forth and have fun!

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RE: What is going on here? - 11/20/2014 9:12:26 PM   
shiftyw


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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal


quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

He is 70.

This makes me very sad for him.

Hahaha...

People actually fall for this stuff? Or is it just guys?

And why is it young people can't resist clicking onto those "You Are the Millionth...WINNER...Click Here" pop-ups that can hijack your computer?


What young people do you know?

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RE: What is going on here? - 11/20/2014 9:24:43 PM   
GoddessManko


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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

And why is it young people can't resist clicking onto those "You Are the Millionth...WINNER...Click Here" pop-ups that can hijack your computer?


LOL Fiery, if they don't know then they need to lose all access to technology, this includes social media like instagram and twitter. The OP's issue is a very well known scam from the 90's. I'm surprised people still do that and some people still fall for it. Seriously. But if he's 70 then I applaud him on at least figuring out how to maneuver the internet.

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RE: What is going on here? - 11/20/2014 10:22:34 PM   
FieryOpal


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ORIGINAL: shiftyw

What young people do you know?

That's an odd question. I haven't been living in a bubble.
I've been a (working) soccer mom, active with Cub Scouts, Boy Scouts and various youth groups, host plenty of gamers that my sons know (their classmates, just did so this evening 2 nights in a row), and besides them there are my many nephews & nieces. I'm good friends with my older son's ex-girlfriend (mid20s), her sister & large family.
That should do for starters. The youngest people I interact with on line are in their early 30s, and I still consider them *young people*.

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RE: What is going on here? - 11/21/2014 12:49:36 AM   
ThePrincessKali


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Status: offline 		A woman forty years younger than you asked you to send her money. What could possibly be strange about that?

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RE: What is going on here? - 11/21/2014 4:21:05 AM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali

A woman forty years younger than you asked you to send her money. What could possibly be strange about that?


As a parent of a daughter, it happens to me all the time...

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RE: What is going on here? - 11/21/2014 4:44:12 AM   
Spiritedsub2


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Fella, forget about meeting women online. Go to munches and events. I'm 58 and find that women over 50 are very interested in someone their age or older.

Go forth and have fun!


Bad advice. He won't find 30 year old women out in the community looking for 70 year old slave husbands like he did online.

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RE: What is going on here? - 11/21/2014 5:26:12 AM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Fella, forget about meeting women online. Go to munches and events. I'm 58 and find that women over 50 are very interested in someone their age or older.

Go forth and have fun!


Bad advice. He won't find 30 year old women out in the community looking for 70 year old slave husbands like he did online.


Neither his profile nor his post state that he is confining his search to much younger women.

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"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: What is going on here? - 11/21/2014 5:48:50 AM   
FieryOpal


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ORIGINAL: GoddessManko

But if he's 70 then I applaud him on at least figuring out how to maneuver the internet.

Yes, this is true. Yanno, I did a doubletake on your comment last night. I had misread sexyred1's comment, and thought she meant that the 30-year-old on-line "Domme" was in fact a 70-year-old man behind the screen who hadn't been able to pull one over on this male sub.

travisalamo, you will never hear back from this "woman." That should only confirm to you that "she" was in on this tomfoolery, so consider yourself lucky for dodging a bullet. There are older Dommes out there. However, even the older ones can pull male slaves 30 years younger than them. I know one who was 68 four years ago when I met her. She had two subs accompanying her. One was in his late 30s I believe, and the other was around 40. You do have stiff competition, so bring your A-game. Hopefully you have some stability and old-fashioned romance to offer. I once told an older sub, when he shot himself in the foot by saying he had never dated a woman over 48 (which was then a couple years younger than my present age) as he was trying to assure me of his virility, that the only thing an older man could offer me that a younger one couldn't was to treat me better. There are plenty of men my age and younger who are financially secure, and this is not how I meant it. I meant appreciate me better. Good luck.

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RE: What is going on here? - 11/21/2014 6:46:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		They put up a warning on this site. It says "DO NOT SEND MONEY TO ANYONE FOR ANY REASON" and if you follow this simple advice you won't get ripped off.

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RE: What is going on here? - 11/21/2014 6:59:55 AM   
Spiritedsub2


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven


quote:

ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Fella, forget about meeting women online. Go to munches and events. I'm 58 and find that women over 50 are very interested in someone their age or older.

Go forth and have fun!


Bad advice. He won't find 30 year old women out in the community looking for 70 year old slave husbands like he did online.


Neither his profile nor his post state that he is confining his search to much younger women.


I didn't read his profile. I read his post. In it he posits the question whether the woman he is trying to hook up with who wants some money is scamming him. He states he is 70 and that the woman is 30. Hardly a basis on which to assume he has a lick of sense.
Edit: and why did you suggest to the OP that he go out into the community to munches and events to meet women in their 50s? Why not suggest he seek out women in their 60s and 70s? After all, he is 70.


< Message edited by Spiritedsub2 -- 11/21/2014 7:11:13 AM >

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RE: What is going on here? - 11/21/2014 8:36:14 AM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven


quote:

ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Fella, forget about meeting women online. Go to munches and events. I'm 58 and find that women over 50 are very interested in someone their age or older.

Go forth and have fun!


Bad advice. He won't find 30 year old women out in the community looking for 70 year old slave husbands like he did online.


Neither his profile nor his post state that he is confining his search to much younger women.


I didn't read his profile. I read his post. In it he posits the question whether the woman he is trying to hook up with who wants some money is scamming him. He states he is 70 and that the woman is 30. Hardly a basis on which to assume he has a lick of sense.
Edit: and why did you suggest to the OP that he go out into the community to munches and events to meet women in their 50s? Why not suggest he seek out women in their 60s and 70s? After all, he is 70.



I suggested that women over 50 would likely be interested in him. I did not exclude women in their 60s and 70s.

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"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: What is going on here? - 11/21/2014 12:06:06 PM   
seekingOwnertoo


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quote:

ORIGINAL: travisalamo

I responded to a profile posting by a woman who claimed to be dominant looking for slave husband. Said she worked offshore as technical person on oil rig. She
Travis



Trust me, I have seen this con since it originated ... somewhere way back then! LOL

In both of our life times, Travis.

DO NOT buy into it.

IT IS TOTALLY FAKE!

trust me, I get hit on like this all the time. SEND MODERATOR 3 THE NAME OF THE PROFILE as She asks ....

And forget you ever communicated with those people.


BTW, give your self a pat on the back for asking here on the boards .... smart decision Everyone is giving you GREAT advice!


Back to reality .... when I cruse profiles here, am seeing more and more Dominant Ladies in their 50's and 60's.

As I assume you are free to travel, try introducing your self to them. You might find paradise quickly!

Good Luck!





< Message edited by seekingOwnertoo -- 11/21/2014 12:14:04 PM >

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