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subgirlooking -> Sorting Through Messages (11/22/2014 12:00:01 PM)

Hello people.
As you know, if you're a new sub on this site, you get bombarded with messages. The only way I've found to sort out whom I've already talked to and ruled out is to add them to the blocked list after.
Anyone know of a better way.... One that doesn't hurt feelings? Lol
Thanks




sexyred1 -> RE: Sorting Through Messages (11/22/2014 1:18:42 PM)

No. That is the best way otherwise they get upset and lash out.




RockaRolla -> RE: Sorting Through Messages (11/22/2014 1:29:37 PM)

Nothing wrong with that method, I use it as well. I'm slightly more conservative with the block button though, and use it for repeat offenders. But if you use it to avoid repeats, more power to you.

You're not going to hurt feelings because they're not going to notice 99.999% of the time. They're sending those messages to every new sub and won't notice if you bite or not. Half of them will message you a month or so later with the same message not noticing they've talked to you before. So you're not going to be missed.

So yeah, no feelings hurt. But if they did get butthurt, should you really care?




DarkSteven -> RE: Sorting Through Messages (11/22/2014 3:13:35 PM)

Below the profile are two panes for text. The upper one is to send messages, and the lower one is for notes. Make a note saying "Ruled out 11/22/14.




joybaby -> RE: Sorting Through Messages (11/22/2014 3:16:55 PM)

i like to make a note to myself as to WHY i ruled them out, as well…just in case they've "cleaned up" their profile or otherwise changed it the next time they message me.




ExiledTyrant -> RE: Sorting Through Messages (11/22/2014 3:20:45 PM)

FR

I don't know why you /girls don't send out C/P form letters demanding dick pics and Skype sessions with them sucking off their BF? Sure would curb a lot of that stupid shit.

Jus sayin




RockaRolla -> RE: Sorting Through Messages (11/22/2014 3:35:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

FR

I don't know why you /girls don't send out C/P form letters demanding dick pics and Skype sessions with them sucking off their BF? Sure would curb a lot of that stupid shit.

Jus sayin

You underestimate the stupidity (and stubbornness) of HNGs.

Imagine waves of "lol no, but id luv 2 see u suck me off SHOW ME BOOBS"

Jus sayin




ExiledTyrant -> RE: Sorting Through Messages (11/22/2014 3:39:58 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: RockaRolla

quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

FR

I don't know why you /girls don't send out C/P form letters demanding dick pics and Skype sessions with them sucking off their BF? Sure would curb a lot of that stupid shit.

Jus sayin

You underestimate the stupidity (and stubbornness) of HNGs.

Imagine waves of "lol no, but id luv 2 see u suck me off SHOW ME BOOBS"

Jus sayin


When I am Emperor of the world I will round them up, and put them in death matches called the HNG Games. I mean, if you're going to cull the herd, cull out the stupid first, right? There will be a random lottery, but all submissions will be made by you /girls ;)

Wait, wot's the netiquette for a switch, /girl/S?




RockaRolla -> RE: Sorting Through Messages (11/22/2014 3:44:03 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

Wait, wot's the netiquette for a switch, /girl/S?

I don't typically do slashy speak, but /Girl could work.

Loving the HNG games. How long until the random sub guy runs out and shouts "I VOLUNTEER AS TRIBUTE!" ?




ExiledTyrant -> RE: Sorting Through Messages (11/22/2014 3:46:45 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: RockaRolla


quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

Wait, wot's the netiquette for a switch, /girl/S?

I don't typically do slashy speak, but /Girl could work.

Loving the HNG games. How long until the random sub guy runs out and shouts "I VOLUNTEER AS TRIBUTE!" ?


At his Mistress behest, most likely.

I love /Girl, that is brilliant, but now I have to write Ladies, Gentleman, B/boys and G/girls. Are you a Dominant leaning switch or submissive leaning or is it just too complicated for me to grasp?




RockaRolla -> RE: Sorting Through Messages (11/22/2014 3:58:00 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


quote:

ORIGINAL: RockaRolla


quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

Wait, wot's the netiquette for a switch, /girl/S?

I don't typically do slashy speak, but /Girl could work.

Loving the HNG games. How long until the random sub guy runs out and shouts "I VOLUNTEER AS TRIBUTE!" ?


At his Mistress behest, most likely.

I love /Girl, that is brilliant, but now I have to write Ladies, Gentleman, B/boys and G/girls. Are you a Dominant leaning switch or submissive leaning or is it just too complicated for me to grasp?


Maybe too complicated for ME to grasp? It's evolving. For a while I was bottom-leaning, but I'm topping more as I get more comfortable with my boys.




ExiledTyrant -> RE: Sorting Through Messages (11/22/2014 4:06:49 PM)

/Girl it is ;)




DarkSteven -> RE: Sorting Through Messages (11/22/2014 4:51:57 PM)

Subgirllooking, the above is an example of how we like to have fun here. Welcome to the boards.




IronicTautology -> RE: Sorting Through Messages (11/22/2014 6:12:40 PM)


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Subgirllooking, the above is an example of how we like to have fun here. Welcome to the boards.


Perving the forums is fun. Great for when you can't sleep at 2 a.m.!




subgirlooking -> RE: Sorting Through Messages (11/23/2014 2:11:49 AM)

Just read through all your responses. I guess I will stick with what works. Danke` schoen!




ExiledTyrant -> RE: Sorting Through Messages (11/23/2014 6:57:12 AM)

Nichts zu danken ;)




DeviantlyD -> RE: Sorting Through Messages (11/23/2014 7:43:39 AM)


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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

Nichts zu danken ;)


How many tongues are you fluent in, oh Exiled One. :)




ExiledTyrant -> RE: Sorting Through Messages (11/23/2014 8:25:15 AM)


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ORIGINAL: DeviantlyD


quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

Nichts zu danken ;)


How many tongues are you fluent in, oh Exiled One. :)


Um... there is really no way to answer this sans hubris, and it would damage my reputation as a moron.

Jus sayin




sexyred1 -> RE: Sorting Through Messages (11/23/2014 8:36:57 AM)

You should change your title to Silver Tongued Devil.

Quite apt I would say.




DaddySatyr -> RE: Sorting Through Messages (11/23/2014 8:42:30 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: subgirlooking

Hello people.
As you know, if you're a new sub on this site, you get bombarded with messages. The only way I've found to sort out whom I've already talked to and ruled out is to add them to the blocked list after.
Anyone know of a better way.... One that doesn't hurt feelings? Lol
Thanks


As a person who suffers from a crap memory, the idea of writing yourself a little note is a good one but, I have to warn you off of the "Block" feature without making that little note to yourself. Here's why:

If you block someone and don't make a note as to why, you might accidentally write to someone whom you've blocked (people do change and they do re-word their profiles to better explain themselves). They won't be able to respond. That's all well and good but, you will be the "idiot" (No personal attack intended. Please notice the quotation marks) because you'll be seen to be "teasing" or "inciting" them.

"Block" only keeps them from contacting you. It doesn't prevent you from contacting them nor does it hide them from your search. There's a "Hide User" button for that.







Screen captures (and pissing on shadows) still RULE! Ya feel me?




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