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No Underwear for Male Subs - 12/13/2014 2:13:00 AM   
SanDieoSub


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Status: offline 		I am just wondering what Dommes think of this...

I'm not sure if all women are aware and I doubt all men are like me, but I know I kind of rely on my boxer briefs to keep my erections from being noticed by others. It's not as if I have much trouble controlling myself, I'm 32, not a teenager, but I like the sense of security I get from having boxer briefs on knowing that if I do get aroused, I won't have a public pants tent situation on my hands.

It seems to me that sense of security would a be valuable thing to for a woman to take from a man, and it might make an interesting way for her to display the power she has over him. But I am wondering what the Dommes out there think?
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RE: No Underwear for Male Subs - 12/13/2014 9:04:30 AM   
RomanticRebel


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Status: offline 		Male sub here... I think you need to start controlling your dick instead of letting it control you.

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RE: No Underwear for Male Subs - 12/13/2014 9:13:52 AM   
ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: SanDieoSub

I am just wondering what Dommes think of this...

I'm not sure if all women are aware and I doubt all men are like me, but I know I kind of rely on my boxer briefs to keep my erections from being noticed by others. It's not as if I have much trouble controlling myself, I'm 32, not a teenager, but I like the sense of security I get from having boxer briefs on knowing that if I do get aroused, I won't have a public pants tent situation on my hands.

It seems to me that sense of security would a be valuable thing to for a woman to take from a man, and it might make an interesting way for her to display the power she has over him. But I am wondering what the Dommes out there think?


Ya know, we have a Mistress here that you need to meet. FieryOpal, is the Lady you need to be looking for, and in the mean time you should go look at her posts. I think you may just be her cup of tea.

Jus sayin


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RE: No Underwear for Male Subs - 12/13/2014 9:33:04 AM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		How do boxer shorts prevent trouser-tent situations? I've never found they were of any help. Me, I've found that the only reliable way to hide embarrassing vigour in the groinal area is with a newspaper.

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RE: No Underwear for Male Subs - 12/13/2014 9:33:16 AM   
SDFemDom4cuck


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ORIGINAL: RomanticRebel

Male sub here... I think you need to start controlling your dick instead of letting it control you.


If not a good chastity device and lock will solve that problem quickly.

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RE: No Underwear for Male Subs - 12/13/2014 9:35:02 AM   
SDFemDom4cuck


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

How do boxer shorts prevent trouser-tent situations? I've never found they were of any help. Me, I've found that the only reliable way to hide embarrassing vigour in the groinal area is with a newspaper.



Peon!!!! How I've missed that torso. Have you considered a chastity device rather than a newspaper. More eco friendly at least.

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RE: No Underwear for Male Subs - 12/13/2014 11:13:12 AM   
PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

How do boxer shorts prevent trouser-tent situations? I've never found they were of any help. Me, I've found that the only reliable way to hide embarrassing vigour in the groinal area is with a newspaper.


Peon!!!! How I've missed that torso. Have you considered a chastity device rather than a newspaper. More eco friendly at least.


Can you get chastity devices with the news printed on them? If not, there's a clear gap in the market for some entrepeneur!


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RE: No Underwear for Male Subs - 12/13/2014 2:16:57 PM   
SDFemDom4cuck


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


quote:

ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck


quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

How do boxer shorts prevent trouser-tent situations? I've never found they were of any help. Me, I've found that the only reliable way to hide embarrassing vigour in the groinal area is with a newspaper.


Peon!!!! How I've missed that torso. Have you considered a chastity device rather than a newspaper. More eco friendly at least.


Can you get chastity devices with the news printed on them? If not, there's a clear gap in the market for some entrepeneur!



Peon, I'm intrigued. Although you might get arrested when you pulled it out to catch up on the news No??

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Or wantoned with a Bone -

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RE: No Underwear for Male Subs - 12/13/2014 4:21:20 PM   
OvrThRainbow


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Status: offline 		I'm not into public humiliation. Actually, I'm not into humiliation at all. I've never had a sub, or any man for that matter, tell me that his underwear prevents an erection from becoming visible.

If he told me that his underwear did make his erection less visible I wouldn't want him to be embarrassed while at work or anywhere out in public. He'd wear his underwear.



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RE: No Underwear for Male Subs - 12/13/2014 5:59:44 PM   
FieryOpal


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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant
quote:

ORIGINAL: SanDieoSub

I am just wondering what Dommes think of this...

I'm not sure if all women are aware and I doubt all men are like me, but I know I kind of rely on my boxer briefs to keep my erections from being noticed by others. It's not as if I have much trouble controlling myself, I'm 32, not a teenager, but I like the sense of security I get from having boxer briefs on knowing that if I do get aroused, I won't have a public pants tent situation on my hands.

It seems to me that sense of security would a be valuable thing to for a woman to take from a man, and it might make an interesting way for her to display the power she has over him. But I am wondering what the Dommes out there think?

Ya know, we have a Mistress here that you need to meet. FieryOpal, is the Lady you need to be looking for, and in the mean time you should go look at her posts. I think you may just be her cup of tea.

Jus sayin

Stop giving all my secrets away! And how'd you know that I prefer boxer briefs on my men?

Btw, I'm still waiting patiently for that prime specimen of a (straight male) minion to get delivered onto my doorstep in time for Christmas.... <hands on hips> I did say I'd reimburse you for the trouble, didn't I?

OP, if you want your erections to not get noticed by others, then boxer briefs won't do the job. You'll have to switch to regular boxers.
You should also read up on CFNM-Clothed Female Naked Male, a staple of FemDom. Where did you get the idea that you can keep your underwear on anyway? It's wear a codpiece or go sky glad as a male sub.

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RE: No Underwear for Male Subs - 12/14/2014 5:38:12 AM   
experiment2


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Status: offline 		the cod piece sounds like an intersting approach to preventing erections from showing.

i have to agree with others that boxer underwear won't do the trick. i found that a tight fitting chastity device will hide the erection well. however as all things have a down side, the erections might get painful and come at the wrong time so as to lose concentration on work or activities. a cheaper option is to wear two or three briefs or gaffs to keep the cock down

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RE: No Underwear for Male Subs - 12/14/2014 10:23:06 AM   
PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: experiment2

the cod piece sounds like an intersting approach to preventing erections from showing.

i have to agree with others that boxer underwear won't do the trick. i found that a tight fitting chastity device will hide the erection well. however as all things have a down side, the erections might get painful and come at the wrong time so as to lose concentration on work or activities. a cheaper option is to wear two or three briefs or gaffs to keep the cock down


You're best off with tighter trousers, especially jeans, I've found. If you get an awkward tumescence, you can simply rearrange your old chap (to point upwards towards your belt), and it'll stay in place till it subsides (after you've done some mental mathematics - that always and utterly reliably kills erections for me). You can't do that with baggy, thin-cotton, trousers - the only thing I've found that will rapidly reduce your priapic embarrassment when wearing those is to think as hard as you can of your prime minister or president sitting on the toilet.

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RE: No Underwear for Male Subs - 12/15/2014 8:55:09 PM   
SanDieoSub


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the feedback...

OvrtheRainbow - I'm actually not into public humiliation either, humiliation yes, public not really. I'd just like to reiterate that it's not as if I really have much trouble controlling myself, so as long as a woman wasn't blatantly trying to arouse me it is very unlikely that anyone would take notice anyway. It's really just the sense of insecurity, particularly in the presence of a Domme who knows she has the power to stimulate me, that I thought might be something fun for her to toy with. I realize this isn't the most hardcore activity, but sometimes just subtle acts of domination can go a long way. I wanted to see what Dommes think, thank you.

Also ExiledTyrant, first that's an awesome username, and thank you for the reference to FieryOpal, she seems amazing.

FieryOpal, I am well aware of CFNM and believe it should be practiced on a regular basis for a number of reasons.

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RE: No Underwear for Male Subs - 12/15/2014 10:17:40 PM   
seekingreality


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ORIGINAL: SanDieoSub

I am just wondering what Dommes think of this...

I'm not sure if all women are aware and I doubt all men are like me, but I know I kind of rely on my boxer briefs to keep my erections from being noticed by others. It's not as if I have much trouble controlling myself, I'm 32, not a teenager, but I like the sense of security I get from having boxer briefs on knowing that if I do get aroused, I won't have a public pants tent situation on my hands.

It seems to me that sense of security would a be valuable thing to for a woman to take from a man, and it might make an interesting way for her to display the power she has over him. But I am wondering what the Dommes out there think?


Personally:

1. I am baffled how/why boxer briefs would keep erections from being noticed.
2. It's hard to imagine a woman requiring a man to not wear underwear would be a big power play for many people, male or female. It would be kind of a yawnfest for me.
3. In this area, the main thing I've seen is women who like to have a man wearing women's panties or a cock cage.

Ultimately, if this is a kink that works for you -- and whoever you end up with -- cool. Hard to imagine it applies to many other people, though

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RE: No Underwear for Male Subs - 12/16/2014 12:55:59 AM   
FieryOpal


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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

It's wear a codpiece or go sky glad as a male sub.

SanDieoSub, I did mean this in the privacy of one's home. I would not have my sub go to work without wearing underwear. As seekingreality noted, it could be going out in public or about my sub's business wearing panties. It would all depend on the sub and the occasion. I wouldn't do anything to jeopardize my sub's livelihood. That's just uncool, in my book.

I personally don't get into cockcages whatsoever, or externally enforced chastity & orgasm control.

Yes, there are many ways to get into (mild) humiliation play. Know your limits, and make them known in advance. It's always best to keep lines of communication open at all times. What's done cannot always be undone so easily.

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RE: No Underwear for Male Subs - 12/22/2014 6:12:46 PM   
unwantedsub


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ORIGINAL: RomanticRebel

Male sub here... I think you need to start controlling your dick instead of letting it control you.


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RE: No Underwear for Male Subs - 12/22/2014 6:34:24 PM   
unwantedsub


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Status: offline 		I am a bit confused. Here in Canada boxer shorts are a loose fit. "Boxer briefs" are actually just called briefs which is a cotton/polyester fabric usually with elastic rings top and bottom. Usually these are a very tight fit and hold my parts firmly in place. Doesn't exactly hide an erection but it certainly doesn't flop around. XD

That being said if that is what he is talking about I would agree that I have always felt more comfortable and more secure with briefs. I've tried boxers and hated them.

Chastity works also though I can say with experience that it leaves an un-desired bulge in my pants which might be confused with a raging hard on... XD Equally embarrassing.

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

How do boxer shorts prevent trouser-tent situations? I've never found they were of any help. Me, I've found that the only reliable way to hide embarrassing vigour in the groinal area is with a newspaper.


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RE: No Underwear for Male Subs - 12/23/2014 2:01:17 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: SanDieoSub

I am just wondering what Dommes think of this...

I'm not sure if all women are aware and I doubt all men are like me, but I know I kind of rely on my boxer briefs to keep my erections from being noticed by others. It's not as if I have much trouble controlling myself, I'm 32, not a teenager, but I like the sense of security I get from having boxer briefs on knowing that if I do get aroused, I won't have a public pants tent situation on my hands.

It seems to me that sense of security would a be valuable thing to for a woman to take from a man, and it might make an interesting way for her to display the power she has over him. But I am wondering what the Dommes out there think?


(I don't even know what he just asked)

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