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EssentiaIndy -> Sincere submissive in Indiana (12/21/2014 4:43:27 AM)
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I have been around the CS website for only a few months. I realize that, in the scheme of things, that isn't a long time. However, I have realized a few things in my time there... I cannot keep my profile public for long as my inbox gets flooded with inappropriate offers. (I took the advice offered me and I took my profile public. As such, I have edited my introduction post and I'm willing to see what happens.) I'm not here to find a kinky sex partner. I'm here seeking that elusive, long-term, committed, monogamous, D/s relationship. So I thought I would take a chance and throw out an introduction here on the forums.
I'm a lady. I'm sensual and I'm not a pain slut. I do like kinky sex...I just want more.
I'm sapiosexual.
I live in Indianapolis, Indiana. Yes, I am open to the idea of relocating and I am capable of relocating for the right situation...
I'm female, 54, submissive, attractive (although I realize this is subjective, I am comfortable with myself and like my body), I don't smoke, I'm a very light social drinker and I do not use drugs.
I have tattoos. All of which can be covered for the vanilla world. I'm not ashamed of them....they are actually quite beautiful and I'm always receiving compliments on them. I didn't get my first tattoo until I was 49 and I sought to find the best tattoo artist I could before I ever let my skin receive ink.
I am not your typical "submissive"--I am confident with a solid sense of self and I'm no one's doormat. My ego is not dependent on what others think of me. I am very interested in a long-term, mutually beneficial, honest and sincere D/s relationship. I am, at my heart and core, submissive. I thrive with a compassionate Dominant. I do not, however, put up with crap or abuse.
I know that for a long-term relationship to survive in the kink community the vanilla aspects must be as compatible as the kink aspects. Morals and ethics must be comparable. You have to be willing to communicate. About everything from desires for lifestyle and dreams for the future to how often to have sex (vanilla or kinky).
There is so much more to this search than can be said in any introduction. I know that this is long, and yes, quite a bit is from my profile...but it is not all that is in my profile. I'm a deep thinker and I'm a writer by advocation. So, I apologize if this went too long.
However, I value intelligence and I really can't see wasting anyone's time. Can you?
Thank you for taking the time to learn a little bit about me.
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