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NeckFetish - 12/24/2014 10:03:10 AM   
Watch1


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Status: offline 		Any submissive slaves like to be erotically choked and strangled?
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RE: NeckFetish - 12/24/2014 11:47:17 AM   
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RE: NeckFetish - 12/24/2014 1:30:15 PM   
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RE: NeckFetish - 12/24/2014 1:52:56 PM   
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From the American Heritage Dictionary online:

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3. Something, such as a material object or nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.



In that spirit; any lady I've ever been able to have sex with has had a neck so, I have a neck fetish.



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RE: NeckFetish - 12/24/2014 2:04:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't find anything remotely akin to being choked and/or strangled as erotic or even mildly arousing/amusing.


So.... a big fat NO from me too.


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RE: NeckFetish - 12/24/2014 2:14:42 PM   
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Alright. I'll give an honest answer, now:

While I'm not specifically a fan of the practice, one of my ladies really enjoys the sensation of choking (used in the most loose of senses). I have never been a big fan of ladies that like to choke/gag/almost throw up while performing oral sex but I noticed that she really liked it.

So, I took a flier, one night, and I gently placed my hand on her neck while we were having sex; not very tightly, at all. Just tight enough to make her breathing just a bit heavier. She went out of her mind! I was shocked (she does not give a "kinky vibe" which caused me to not pay her much attention, initially).

I still can't say I'm a huge fan of the practice but I am a huge fan of the results.

I want to add that this is not to any extreme and she's never been left, struggling to breathe. It is not an activity to be undertaken with abandon. YMMV.



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RE: NeckFetish - 12/24/2014 11:21:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		No, but I'd sure like to find a neck fetishist into basorexia because this is an erogenous zone of mine. Nobody ever spends enough time attending to this region of my body. (Which is partly my fault due to arousal)

What you're into is breath play, so I hope you are aware of the risks you and your partner are taking. I had a sub who used to do this with his previous Mistress, not with squashing or Queening, but with her hand on his throat. I made it clear right away that this is a no-go zone with me, and he never missed it. I had other (safe) ways of making his orgasms feel more intense that he preferred.

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RE: NeckFetish - 12/25/2014 6:15:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		Women like that do exist, yes.

How much experience and training do you have? Are you known in the community for breath play?

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RE: NeckFetish - 12/25/2014 8:08:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		Neck play, yes. Breath play,no.
Him putting his big hand on the nape of my neck, awesome. Him resting his hand on my neck, ditto. Him biting my neck, exquisite.

None of which includes strangling me.

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RE: NeckFetish - 1/30/2015 10:32:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have been choked and strangled starting college with a buddy of mine. It made me rockhard and the closer I got to passout the harder my cock God. I crave strangle play. Being the strangler or being choked. With gloved or bare hands or with ligatures such as belts, ropes, courts, and silk that ties. Mild to wild to choke out.

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RE: NeckFetish - 1/30/2015 10:47:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		I must attract the psychopups then because something like 50-70% of the freaky chicks I know/meet are into breathplay/hand around neck/strangling sorta interactions.
Hell, I remember once being on a nilla date and the girl told me she liked being strangled till she turned blue. Yeah, twenty minutes later we were in my car and I was cockstrangling her as she went down on me in the parking lot. And thus was found the beginnings of a lovely friendship.
Frankly, I love breathplay. Every once in a while I meet a chica and one of my first thoughts is, "Man, I can't wait to wrap my hands around that neck."
It's just so effing controlling-a wonderful feeling

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RE: NeckFetish - 1/31/2015 3:56:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		I like a man's hand - fingers spread wide - on my neck and upper chest, or cupping my chin. I do not like being strangled or choked, and I know it's a fine line here. I have to trust someone very much to confide this.

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RE: NeckFetish - 1/31/2015 4:58:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		I do like breath play, but know that this form of fetish play takes much trust as one is putting their life in hand. I agree that this is a fine line to walk, and it takes trust and a strong bond with much knowledge of methods to make this as safe as it can be, but with breath play there are always inherent risks associated. No two people have have same physical makeup so the Risk can be greater for some. Can not express TRUST and KNOWLEDGE more times over concerning breath play.

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RE: NeckFetish - 1/31/2015 5:03:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		LOL same with Ivory, I have a thing for hands, looking at them. I like to give asphyxiation though. Haven't received. This is not terribly uncommon. One sub said he has been choked with thighs til he passed out. That's a bit much in my book and actually I don't believe him. I think he was baiting. Some subs like to exaggerate their experience and have no clue how it pans out in reality. The reason I question his story is he said it was a proDomme, which is all about safe, sane and consensual.

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RE: NeckFetish - 1/31/2015 5:54:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yes, of course some do. Some even choke themselves. It's called erotic asphyxiation, and auto erotic asphyxiation respectively. There have been many high profile news items on the topic of auto erotic asphyxiation over the years. And if you Google "sexual choking" you get over 4 million results... all leading to MY question;

...Do you ask because you don't know, and never thought to Google it? Or are you looking for a particular type of answer?

(Sorry GoddessManko... this was a reply to the OP)

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RE: NeckFetish - 1/31/2015 6:07:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		i love it when a man has a nice firm grasp around my throat. no, i dont want to be choked or asphyxiated, but yeees please! do show me that firm grip

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RE: NeckFetish - 2/8/2015 2:45:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		the neck has somme nice skin soft by the hairline, warm behind the ear taut, at the throat -good spot - smells nice too

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RE: NeckFetish - 2/19/2015 10:32:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		i suppose it depends on the level of choking/strangulation. It also depends on the method, in my experience. Just tight enough to make breathing difficult, and narrow my vision. That line where the fight for survival awakens in the back of my head makes all of my sensations all the stronger. i don't like being choked or strangled half to death, only to a light tingle and back, pushing up against the limit. It also matters if the pressure is on my throat, or the blood vessels in my neck. Crushing my throat isn't fun. That just plain hurts.

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RE: NeckFetish - 3/17/2015 10:04:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		Feeling his arm gently around my throat? YES. being strangled, choke hold, anything having to do with restricting my breath? O HELL TO THE NO... Start off with a panic attack, proceed to an attack of asthma, i also suffer from COPD. Mister Man knows me very well after almost 4 yrs. He knows what's acceptable & not.

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RE: NeckFetish - 3/17/2015 10:34:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		Lots of people are into breath play and need to get their asphyxiation fix. Were you fishing for a date, did you just want to know you weren't alone in the fetish or was there something specific about asphyxiation techniques or stages of hypoxia you wanted to know?

From the folks at insex.com, a oldie but a goodie. Nice BDSM music video for you:
Asphyxiation Fix – BDSM Rock Music Video (Awesome Real Player Video 3:06)
(Link will pop open your Windows Real Player. Give it a second to load the video.)

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