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GoddessManko -> RE: Anyone single on this site? (1/1/2015 11:03:01 AM)
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ORIGINAL: smileforme50
Funny experience I had when i first got into the "real life" side of all this.....
The first Dom I got involved with was married. For myself....on a very selfish note, I know....I didn't care. At the time, I wasn't looking for a LTR, and I wasn't looking to take him away from his wife. A few weeks into it, I learned that even if she found out, she probably wouldn't have been very upset. They slept in separate rooms, and she probably would have been better off without him. She probably would have been grateful to me if I would have taken him from her.
Although he said something so stupid to me one time......he told me that I was his "first priority relationship"
I told him he was fucking crazy. His wife was his first priority relationship.
He insisted that wasn't the case.
Until I asked him.....who does he spend Thanksgiving and Christmas with? Who does he go on vacation (with kids) with? Who will get his life insurance when he dies?
That pretty much stopped him from ever calling me his "first priority" again.
LOL! In a nutshell, yup! Most guys do respect that I am seeking a relationship and most married guys come clean right away. I think finsubs and kinky bottoms/ pro subs would be less inclined but you have to really outline you're not seeking that from these guys and even then, expect some to ignore that completely. You have to wade through a ton of emails if seeking a relationship on your terms is the gist of it.
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