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Troi82 -> RE: Aftercare, how much, how little. (1/20/2015 5:46:14 PM)
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Before entering into any scene, everything needs to be laid out on the table. As for her getting mad that you almost passed out, that shows a complete lack of care for you. Aftercare is most critical especially if my sub has experienced a lot of pain even if the person enjoyed it. When I do aftercare not only do I cuddle, but I examine my subs whole body making sure she isn't to badly damaged. I also use the time to look at my handiwork. Aftercare is also necessary when you're sub had reached subspace. It's the job of the Top to monitor their sub as they come back. I knew a sub that when she reached subspace would shake and get very cold sweats. Her master during aftercare would cover her up, make her sip on water and rub her body as she calmed down.
I'm glad after talking with your mistress things are getting better. Hopefully she will be more aware of you during the next scene and not be upset if things aren't perfect. She needs to always be aware of your body whilst in a scene especially cause she is in control and you're just trying to please her.
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