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hello - 12/30/2014 11:36:48 AM

sharksugar

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I'm new to this site and wondering about personal experiences. Has it worked out well for everyone here?

I'm very inexperienced but eager to change that. I'm at a very temporary point in my life and choosing to take advantages of that and try to gain new experiences.

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RE: hello - 12/30/2014 11:45:54 AM

SMgirl66

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hi there

ok firstly this site like so many others has its share of time wasters and idiots and so you have to keep an open mind and a finger on the block button.

as you are inexperienced a word of advice take it slow, don't rush to meet people and please when you do make sure a trusted friend knows exactly where you are and arrange to make a safe call, i always tell my friend that i will ring a half hour after the meeting time with a word that either means all ok or not ok, also through bitter experience i will not go off with anyone on a first meeting, its safer to walk away and evaluate that to take the chance.

good luck and feel free to private message me if you want to ask any questions or to just chat

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RE: hello - 12/30/2014 11:46:35 AM

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I've had good experiences. Some became friends, some were relationships, some were play partners. It takes time, but getting to know people should take time.

My lifetime partner I actually met outside, but it has still been a good experience here.

Welcome, and good luck!

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RE: hello - 12/30/2014 11:47:03 AM

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Rule #1: You're the boss, you make the rules, and are in complete control of all aspects of your life at all times until such a point you find someone worthy of relinquishing that power to.
Rule #2: If at any point you or anyone else presents/questions the rules, control, aspects of your life or who the boss is, see rule #1.

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RE: hello - 12/30/2014 11:50:50 AM

sharksugar

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SMgirl66

hi there

ok firstly this site like so many others has its share of time wasters and idiots and so you have to keep an open mind and a finger on the block button.

as you are inexperienced a word of advice take it slow, don't rush to meet people and please when you do make sure a trusted friend knows exactly where you are and arrange to make a safe call, i always tell my friend that i will ring a half hour after the meeting time with a word that either means all ok or not ok, also through bitter experience i will not go off with anyone on a first meeting, its safer to walk away and evaluate that to take the chance.

good luck and feel free to private message me if you want to ask any questions or to just chat

Thank you! This is really helpful :) I'll be sure to message you if I have any questions etc
I've already seen quite a few people I need to block

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