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spanko from Central NY - 12/30/2014 5:15:07 PM

johnsk

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Older man here, from Central NY, 98% sub, into spanking but not limited to that. So many dommes here are disappointing; playing games or unwilling to consider an older man. One messages them politely, most will not even take 2 seconds to say thanks for writing, but we are not a good match or some such polite comment. LOve to hear from some domes who are sincere.

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RE: spanko from Central NY - 12/30/2014 8:29:54 PM

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John, just because you message someone does not mean they are under an obligation to reply. Many Dommes get over 100 messages some days and don't have time to respond to all of them.

That's the situation. If you want to change it, then consider how to do so. My personal advice would be to get out into the community and meet people face to face at munches and parties.

Welcome to the forum.

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RE: spanko from Central NY - 12/31/2014 5:22:22 AM

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What DS said.

I respond to everyone, that's my personal policy. However, I do get over 80-100 messages a day, and I am incredibly picky about who I choose. And older man would have MUCH better luck with me in person, through the munches and events I attend, to show me how amazing he is, and the things he offers above and beyond a hot body and attractive features.

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RE: spanko from Central NY - 12/31/2014 6:24:26 AM

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ORIGINAL: johnsk

Older man here, from Central NY, 98% sub, into spanking but not limited to that. So many dommes here are disappointing; playing games or unwilling to consider an older man. One messages them politely, most will not even take 2 seconds to say thanks for writing, but we are not a good match or some such polite comment. LOve to hear from some domes who are sincere.

John, first of all welcome to the forums. Now then, look at what you posted. You start out great, telling us what you're looking for. Unfortunately you then slide into negativity. I understand it's disappointing that you haven't had any luck but negativity is bound to turn off those who might have otherwise responded. I haven't looked at your profile but if you have written the same kind of thing I suggest changing it. I see this kind of thing with Doms too and all it does is make me move on.

Good luck I hope you find what you're looking for.

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