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On voluntarily not masturbating - 1/8/2015 11:04:30 AM   
AllTheThings


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Status: offline 		I've noticed that I to procrastinate with masturbation to the point where I'm not getting much done anymore, so I've decided to keep my hands away from my pants for the next week. I was wondering if anyone else has decided not to masturbate for a similar cause or is there anyone that simply doesn't enjoy it?

Thoughts on masturbation people, doing it/not doing it, whatever you want. I just want to see if I have enough willpower to do this. Results will be posted once the week is over.
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RE: On voluntarily not masturbating - 1/8/2015 11:24:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: AllTheThings

I've noticed that I to procrastinate with masturbation to the point where I'm not getting much done anymore, so I've decided to keep my hands away from my pants for the next week. I was wondering if anyone else has decided not to masturbate for a similar cause or is there anyone that simply doesn't enjoy it?

Thoughts on masturbation people, doing it/not doing it, whatever you want. I just want to see if I have enough willpower to do this. Results will be posted once the week is over.

I will happily assist as your key holder. That way no struggle with will power.

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RE: On voluntarily not masturbating - 1/8/2015 11:53:15 AM   
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RE: On voluntarily not masturbating - 1/8/2015 1:54:06 PM   
FieryOpal


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Status: offline 		No, I have never decided not to masturbate, nor do I keep to a masturbation schedule. It has to be a spontaneous activity for me that has never gotten out of hand (no pun intended). I'm not inclined to masturbate to a fantasy stranger or to a celebrity figure. Not that I haven't done so, but it just isn't nearly as exciting. When I have a decline, it's usually because I don't have a real person to masturbate about (which could be for a week). I was once so stressed out, I abstained for 2-3 weeks out of lack of sexual desire.

It isn't uncommon for chastity slaves to tell me that they feel they masturbate excessively, which is why they want to get locked in a cockcage. Externally enforced chastity/orgasm control with a device doesn't interest me, and a man who doesn't have the willpower to control himself (whether under his Mistress's direction or not) doesn't interest me either. A man with little to no self-control over his impulses will find ways to cheat.

I know there are females who get into wearing a chastity belt, but I don't know what their primary motivation is for that--whether it's simply a desire to have their sexuality controlled by their partner-Master and/or to heighten their arousal responses.

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RE: On voluntarily not masturbating - 1/8/2015 3:05:38 PM   
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RE: On voluntarily not masturbating - 1/8/2015 3:07:54 PM   
needlesandpins


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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

No, I have never decided not to masturbate, nor do I keep to a masturbation schedule. It has to be a spontaneous activity for me that has never gotten out of hand (no pun intended). I'm not inclined to masturbate to a fantasy stranger or to a celebrity figure. Not that I haven't done so, but it just isn't nearly as exciting. When I have a decline, it's usually because I don't have a real person to masturbate about (which could be for a week). I was once so stressed out, I abstained for 2-3 weeks out of lack of sexual desire.

It isn't uncommon for chastity slaves to tell me that they feel they masturbate excessively, which is why they want to get locked in a cockcage. Externally enforced chastity/orgasm control with a device doesn't interest me, and a man who doesn't have the willpower to control himself (whether under his Mistress's direction or not) doesn't interest me either. A man with little to no self-control over his impulses will find ways to cheat.

I know there are females who get into wearing a chastity belt, but I don't know what their primary motivation is for that--whether it's simply a desire to have their sexuality controlled by their partner-Master and/or to heighten their arousal responses.


That about sums it up for me too. I find the thought of a guy in these chastity things utterly boring. if I'm with a guy I want him to be fucking me all the time, so what's the point?

I quiet like the feeling of being horny all day. yes it can get distracting, but that's part of the fun. It leads to some extremely intense orgasms, and I'm not about to deprive myself of those.

needles

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RE: On voluntarily not masturbating - 1/8/2015 6:49:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

No, I have never decided not to masturbate, nor do I keep to a masturbation schedule. It has to be a spontaneous activity for me that has never gotten out of hand (no pun intended). I'm not inclined to masturbate to a fantasy stranger or to a celebrity figure. Not that I haven't done so, but it just isn't nearly as exciting. When I have a decline, it's usually because I don't have a real person to masturbate about (which could be for a week). I was once so stressed out, I abstained for 2-3 weeks out of lack of sexual desire.

It isn't uncommon for chastity slaves to tell me that they feel they masturbate excessively, which is why they want to get locked in a cockcage. Externally enforced chastity/orgasm control with a device doesn't interest me, and a man who doesn't have the willpower to control himself (whether under his Mistress's direction or not) doesn't interest me either. A man with little to no self-control over his impulses will find ways to cheat.

I know there are females who get into wearing a chastity belt, but I don't know what their primary motivation is for that--whether it's simply a desire to have their sexuality controlled by their partner-Master and/or to heighten their arousal responses.


I do....keep to a masturbation schedule.

It's affected my sales. (Sales are somewhat down).

Sometimes....in the middle of a sales call.....3:45 p.m. ......I just have to spew.

I try to warn them beforehand but.....well.....ya know.....

< Message edited by LookieNoNookie -- 1/8/2015 6:51:07 PM >

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RE: On voluntarily not masturbating - 1/8/2015 10:14:17 PM   
FieryOpal


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I do....keep to a masturbation schedule.


Yanno, somehow I knew that.

You're one of those 3x/day guys, aren't you?

(And no, I'm not clairvoyant.)

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RE: On voluntarily not masturbating - 1/9/2015 4:37:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal


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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

I do....keep to a masturbation schedule.


Yanno, somehow I knew that.

You're one of those 3x/day guys, aren't you?

(And no, I'm not clairvoyant.)


3? My guess is closer to 30 give or take.

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RE: On voluntarily not masturbating - 1/9/2015 5:54:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

"I am the Key Master; are you the Gate Keeper?"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wZfdFoQg13U


LMAO! omg, wasn't Sigourney Weaver just the ultimate Hollywood bad ass? Another one of my favorite movie scenes was Michelle Pfeiffer as Catwoman doing cartwheels, flips and using her whip as jump rope, then saying "Meow" right before an explosion. Hot, hot, hot.
To OP, yes, had a porn addiction, realized what a time waster it was, so busied myself in the interim doing pertinent tasks. My discipline is so much better than it was back then.

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RE: On voluntarily not masturbating - 1/9/2015 5:17:02 PM   
FieryOpal


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ORIGINAL: LiveSpark
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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

I do....keep to a masturbation schedule.


Yanno, somehow I knew that.

You're one of those 3x/day guys, aren't you?

(And no, I'm not clairvoyant.)

3? My guess is closer to 30 give or take.

That's per day, around mealtime; evening and throughout the night might be when the other 27 times factor in.

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RE: On voluntarily not masturbating - 1/10/2015 2:58:11 PM   
GotSteel


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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery
"I am the Key Master; are you the Gate Keeper?"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wZfdFoQg13U

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RE: On voluntarily not masturbating - 1/10/2015 3:03:56 PM   
GotSteel


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Status: offline 		Seriously though, there are people who don't masturbate, there are even kinks centered around seeing how long you can go without orgasm. If you manage to go long enough your libido will calm down somewhat, however you'll likely find it gets much worse before it gets better. An alternative if you don't find orgasm denial enjoyable and/or helpful would be to learn to orgasm more quickly so that it doesn't consume so much of your time.

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RE: On voluntarily not masturbating - 1/10/2015 3:11:21 PM   
SlaveHunter23


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Status: offline 		I actually limit my masturbation, due to the fact that i find the relief from sex or being serviced orally is a different kind of orgasm for me. I like to save my cum for my submissive/slave. It's more of a choice for me... but for me instead of the daily masturbation, when we are together.. etc... i usually go 3-4x for 20-30 min, rather than... feeling a tad depleted if i were to have been masturbating daily. I rarely masturbate... i find at work i work harder when i don't... some people are the opposite and argue it keeps you balanced.

I can say the best i ever was at my business... was when i was being sucked off and fucking an asian slave... almost daily... but never have i felt balanced when i masturbated.

Thus... i restrict myself to maybe 1 or 2 times per week when i'm not sexually active.

Hope this insight helps.

J

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RE: On voluntarily not masturbating - 1/10/2015 4:25:21 PM   
questioningdream


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Status: offline 		I procrastinate, but ordinarily with something else. If I do decide to masturbate, I normally get distracted by something else pretty soon into it. Not that I don't enjoy the fuzzy warm tingles of pleasure, but, inevitably I do find other things to do with my time.

...That and my vibrator is at my former Master's house, which his daughter is clearing out slowly. She hasn't found it yet, judging by the lack of a phone call. Or the riding crop. Oops. That'll be a mildly awkward conversation waiting to happen.

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