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JunoSub -> New question for DOMs (12/12/2004 2:56:40 PM)
Hello, I'm a relatively new sub and am trying to understand the concept of being collared. It is appealing but also something that I'm not thinking I want. What is the difference between being in a LTR relationship with a DOM and being collared? To me it seems one in the same. Thanks!

BeachMystress -> RE: New question for DOMs (12/12/2004 7:54:05 PM)
It is like the difference between being married and just living together. One is a deeper level of commitment.

DomButNotForgotn -> RE: New question for DOMs (12/12/2004 8:13:36 PM)
It depends on the weight of the "collaring". Some D/s couples really see it as a life commitment, as opposed to a LTR. It really is like being married. It is one thing to place a collar or chain on a subs neck and quite another to formally "collar" them. It is treated much like a wedding ceremony in some circles. I suppose that you would need a good circle of BDSM friends to do that and not freak out the relatives!

Lordandmaster -> RE: New question for DOMs (12/12/2004 8:25:24 PM)
A collar means whatever you and your master want it to mean. No more and no less.

JunoSub -> RE: New question for DOMs (12/12/2004 8:30:46 PM)
Thanks to you both for responding. I'm currently with a DOM who says we are moving into a LTR, but lately has been treating me differently and I asked why and he says he doesn't think he is. Being brand new, it is confusing for me and wonder if this behavior is part of training and I don't realize it and just trust what he told me.

darksdesire -> RE: going down..... (10/22/2006 6:26:10 PM)
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mistoferin -> RE: going down..... (10/22/2006 6:28:57 PM)
Wow...this thread is nearly two years old

KatyLied -> RE: going down..... (10/22/2006 6:31:00 PM)
quote: It's His perogative to do it or not, that's the nature of our relationship. Still...... I want to add that if this is a big issue for you it needs to be addressed. You have wants as well and it's not all about the Dom. I personally think that oral should be an equal opportunity thing, even in a D/s relationship, although it isn't always so. But that certainly is the most fun scenario (for me, anyway!).

darksdesire -> RE: going down..... (10/22/2006 6:33:05 PM)
That's a question i've always had. i love it but rarely get it and i've never been sure why not. i haven't asked because somehow that's seemed wrong to do so...my block. i'm sure He'd welcome the question. i've wondered if it's because it seems like a submissive act to Him, or if He just doesn't enjoy it, or if He sees it as a rare reward. i've just assumed He doesn't really care for the act, but reading this forum topic, i wonder if there is another reason. maybe it's time for me to ask about it rather than giving the occasional subtle hints. lol

KnightofMists -> RE: going down..... (10/22/2006 7:15:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavebabe to all the D's out there.if i may ask...can you tell me please why some Masters do not go down on there slaves...is it a feeling of loosing the D factor or what i am confused..please help me with your points of view slavebabe Not a clue... since I am not adverse to doing that from time to time.... of course... I tend to use my teeth as much as my tongue... so my girls do have mixed emotions with me going down on them. lol

kyraofMists -> RE: going down..... (10/22/2006 7:20:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KnightofMists Not a clue... since I am not adverse to doing that from time to time.... of course... I tend to use my teeth as much as my tongue... so my girls do have mixed emotions with me going down on them. lol Mixed emotions?? That is a bit of an understatement my Lord. Kyra

spanxalot15 -> RE: going down..... (10/22/2006 7:29:00 PM)
Personally, I find it one of the best things ever. The nectar of the Gods. Oh, yeah, that and artichokes with lemon garlic butter. Never thought to mix the two, though....

xBullx -> RE: going down..... (10/23/2006 7:43:47 AM)
Tal Good Neighbors, Ahhhh, the flavor of female flesh. mmmmmmmm. How I love to watch her wither and squirm under the power of my tongue. To yelp and the hear her beg for the cock. Yes, I think I am rather fond of a taste little slut. Sounds to me like it was my pleasure wouldn't you think. I wish you all a treat of your own, or 7 or 8 if there small, Bull

ExtremeOwnerIL -> RE: going down..... (10/23/2006 8:33:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavebabe to all the D's out there.if i may ask...can you tell me please why some Masters do not go down on there slaves...is it a feeling of loosing the D factor or what i am confused..please help me with your points of view slavebabe You will get many different replies, as performing cunnilingus is a very personal choice. Personally, I'll do anything sexual to my property if I feel like it, because it pleases me to. She knows that - so there is nothing I do that makes me less Dominant in her eyes. Regards, EO

CrappyDom -> RE: going down..... (10/23/2006 9:51:56 AM)
Oh god I live for eating a beautiful cunt and believe me, when I do it, we BOTH know who is in control.

RedSavageSlave -> RE: going down..... (10/23/2006 10:37:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cariad this slave has a question in regards to deep throating, she's done it but gags quite a bit and would like to know if there is a way she can do it without gagging? http://tdte.porkyhost.com/instruction.htm I think this is very helpful.. good luck to you

CrappyDom -> RE: going down..... (10/23/2006 11:10:24 AM)
http://tdte.porkyhost.com/uadt-32pa.htm You just HAD to post that site, didn't you?

Level -> RE: going down..... (10/23/2006 12:51:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Estring Some men for some reason think it is icky to go down on a woman. In my opinion they are missing out on one of lifes great pleasures. I agree with Estring and the OP's comment of "losing the Dominant factor". The ick factor, well, that's up to the individual, but it's silly to feel less dominant just because you like to eat pussy.

RedSavageSlave -> RE: going down..... (10/23/2006 2:36:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CrappyDom http://tdte.porkyhost.com/uadt-32pa.htm You just HAD to post that site, didn't you? why not?? isnt the world a better place if every female knew how to deep throat ?? LOL...

ToGiveDivine -> RE: going down..... (10/23/2006 2:45:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedSavageSlave quote: ORIGINAL: CrappyDom http://tdte.porkyhost.com/uadt-32pa.htm You just HAD to post that site, didn't you? why not?? isnt the world a better place if every female knew how to deep throat ?? LOL... Wouldn't this be a good skill for male subs where the Domme wants them to suck their strap-on?

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