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RE: Why? - 1/31/2015 12:34:28 PM

freedomdwarf1

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Obeying, being told what to do, taking orders = serving

Not in my books it isn't.
You can repeat it as often as you like but it won't make it fit everyone.

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ORIGINAL: imtempting
Giving orders, giving commands, saying what to do = served

Again, you can repeat it as often as you like but it won't make it fit everyone.

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ORIGINAL: imtempting
I don't think I can make it any more clearer.
As someone else could see, whips and chains is an add on.

It's typical "one twue wayism" as per your book, not everyone's book.

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RE: Why? - 1/31/2015 12:51:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: imtempting

Rolls eyes.

Obeying, being told what to do, taking orders = serving

Giving orders, giving commands, saying what to do = served

I don't think I can make it any more clearer.
As someone else could see, whips and chains is an add on.

People may not like it to be called "service and served" but that is what it is.

Thank god you came back to set everyone straight. I don't know how we got along with you telling us how things really are.

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RE: Why? - 1/31/2015 5:29:19 PM

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@stef, I know, where would these sites be without me, wait I know, they will be where they started with subs going "yes miss, no sir, whatever you say sir,ma'am on every topic and being to scared to disagree.

Stop looking past your hatred for me and see sense.

You go to a restaurant and you give you order and they serve you.

Funny how people seem to be disagreeing yet they are not giving their own opinion on what the basis of D/s is.

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RE: Why? - 2/2/2015 12:48:00 AM

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What is with this obsession to attribute our every motivation or character attribute to genes? People are not just a dime bag of chemicals. Not only would that be a suicidally depressing thought, but it would take any and all enjoyment of service away from both Dom/me and sub, as it would simply mean that the Dom/me found someone who serves for no other reason than that they can't help it.

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RE: Why? - 2/2/2015 12:55:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: imtempting

@stef, I know, where would these sites be without me, wait I know, they will be where they started with subs going "yes miss, no sir, whatever you say sir,ma'am on every topic and being to scared to disagree.

Stop looking past your hatred for me and see sense.

You go to a restaurant and you give you order and they serve you.

Funny how people seem to be disagreeing yet they are not giving their own opinion on what the basis of D/s is.

My opinion of D/s is power exchange.

I don't serve, I am not a maid. I exchange power with a Dominant partner for our mutual pleasure.

Does that help?

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