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Sort of new guy from Melbourne - 2/6/2015 11:07:26 PM

yokeon

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So I have a bit of an oedipal complex nothing about my own mother but acting it out. Nothing gets me excited faster than a woman calling me darling or bad boy. So about the middle of last year I went to a few brothels to try out this fetish.

The first time I booked a lady it was great she had a great mix of stern and loving/motherly in her role and I was pushed to where I thought I wouldn't enjoy but I did. She was very beautiful as well only slightly shorter than myself, long blondish auburn hair and toned body. She was just spanking me with bare hands when she went up to a pot in the room picked up the decorative reed and brought it down over my ass like a cane. The next time I booked her for a longer session and it was even better. I had my shower and she orders me to massage mummy's feet. I hadn't been a foot fetishist before but I just had to suck on her toes. It felt great. Multiple times she stopped me and spanked me when I didn't please her.

The next time I came back and the receptionist said she was no longer on the books (I later found out from one of the other ladies told me she was a drug addict and the other ladies didn't get along with her). So I chose from the other ladies a very tall redhaired (at least 6 foot 4) woman. The experience was alright but there were times she didn't seem to know what to do next. I thought there were some great times when she did take charge like when she walked in to scold me for my naughtiness she grabbed me by the penis hard and lead me to the bed to be spanked. When we were sitting down on the bed afterwards I could tell she seemed a bit shook up about what we'd done and it made her feel a bit uncomfortable. So I went one last time to a lady with a very large pair of natural breasts and I brought a wooden hairbrush which I had been thinking about the whole week. The lady was actually someone I had booked in the past just for a vanilla session and she was really nice and down to earth. Again the session was alright (she only spanked lightly with the hairbrush which was disappointing to me). Afterwards this lady was bothered and asked me had I been assaulted as a child. I said no (to be clear I haven't and have no physical attraction to my own mother). But she kept persisting with it until I lied and said I had. She then told me the thoughts I had were wrong and that I should try to stop these feelings. I walked out not feeling relaxed but frustrated confused and a little bit ashamed.

So with this experience I knew I was definitely into this kink and there may be like minded individuals in the local scene. At least I thought more than you were likely to find in a random section of the general public. So it was about October I started to going to munches and events. I made a lot of friends and still go to things but there has been no one I've met into the same kink so far. When I try and tell people this they say go to munches and talk to people. To which I answer I do that and it isn't as easy to find people as you think. So this is why I came here slightly weary from the local scene and frustrated.

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RE: Sort of new guy from Melbourne - 2/7/2015 4:11:42 AM

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Well, it takes time. And frankly, what you find in a personal relationship will likely NOT start out as clear as your pro relationships.

But welcome to the forums! *smiles*

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RE: Sort of new guy from Melbourne - 2/7/2015 10:08:15 AM

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Helpful note - in Australia, evidently prostitution is legal, unlike the States.

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RE: Sort of new guy from Melbourne - 2/7/2015 5:53:45 PM

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I understand that but I would like to get my kinks and desires out in the open towards the start of a relationship rather than scare someone off later.

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