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Any real people on this site? - 2/15/2015 5:45:35 AM

submissiveone857

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I have never met one single person from this site; had a couple of profiles over the years. In fact I don't think I've even talked to anybody. You can be exactly what someone describes they are looking for and send them a very detailed message only to hear nothing back "every" from anyone every time. There is an unlimited number of messages trying to get you to send money though.

Overall, this site is a pathetic waste of time full of scammers and fakes with 0 hope for anything real or sincere. If I ever loose my job I'll create a profile with photos of an attractive woman minus any view of the face and ask for 'tribute' before allowing any communication....seriously, what a joke!!!

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RE: Any real people on this site? - 2/15/2015 5:57:41 AM

masmiss

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Yes, there are plenty of "real" quality folks on this site.

If I may be frank, your profile is absolutely, entirely about you and your fetishes. That's a turn-off for me and I would skip by your profile.

Your desire to "serve" is followed by a long list of your kinks and fetishes. Sure, maybe some of those things a dominant woman may like, but essentially you are screaming "do-me"!!!!!!

Tuck your erection back in your pants and write about who you are as a person. What's your career? What kind of talents and skills (outside sex and kink) that would be useful to a Domme do you have? Write about that.

Also, an angry, whiny post on the forums isn't going to help your cause, either. So....tacky.

Best of luck to you. Keep posting and asking questions here and learn. I'll bet you'll have some success soon!

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RE: Any real people on this site? - 2/15/2015 6:03:54 AM

freedomdwarf1

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We are all socks on here!!

Seriously though... There are plenty of real people on this site.
In fact, there are quite a few who have met up from here.
There are some who have actually hitched up and met their partner from here too.

Have you ever thought that no reply is actually a reply? It's a polite "no thank you".

Or that maybe your 'very detailed message' is unwarranted or worded wrongly?
If you spot a scammer, just block and move on.

As masmiss said, your profile is all you and kink, not exactly a crowd-puller.
Treat people as people first, kink second. That will get you better results.
If you are having zero success, the common denominator is YOU!

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RE: Any real people on this site? - 2/15/2015 6:08:08 AM

UnholyBear

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Wow....first post ever and you come across as a whinny jackass. Maybe if you grow up, grow a pair of balls you may be lucky to meet someone....though I still highly doubt it.

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RE: Any real people on this site? - 2/15/2015 6:18:25 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: UnholyBear

Wow....first post ever and you come across as a whinny jackass. Maybe if you grow up, grow a pair of balls you may be lucky to meet someone....though I still highly doubt it.

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RE: Any real people on this site? - 2/15/2015 7:17:17 AM

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RE: Any real people on this site? - 2/15/2015 7:35:50 AM

catize

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Nope, just inflatable dolls who can type................

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RE: Any real people on this site? - 2/15/2015 7:43:36 AM

Wayward5oul

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I am real. And I have met several people on this site, in real life. So yes, they exist. I didn't bother looking at your profile to compare it to those of people that come across as real to me, but I would recommend you listen to the replies above. Any profile that I come across that is only about that person and what they want, automatically goes on hide.

And if you have truly been on here for years, have had multiple profiles, and have sent detailed messages out, yet have never managed to talk to someone, then maybe you need to look at your strategy rather than blame it on the site. The fact that there are forums to post in, and plenty of people posting messages in them that are clearly not generated by bots, indicates that there are real people around. You just have to distinguish yourself from the fakes on this site. And yes, there are many fakers and scammers. But there are real people here too. I find new ones all the tiem.

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RE: Any real people on this site? - 2/15/2015 7:49:01 AM

submissiveone857

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Thank you, may of the replies are actually helpful.

Unholybear,
Bite me. Why don't you stick your head up your ass and maybe you'll grow a better looking face and some manners.

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RE: Any real people on this site? - 2/15/2015 7:53:56 AM

shiftyw

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^ well that attitude (even in your initial post) is maybe not the best way to make friends...

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RE: Any real people on this site? - 2/15/2015 7:58:37 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: submissiveone857

Thank you, may of the replies are actually helpful.

Unholybear,
Bite me. Why don't you stick your head up your ass and maybe you'll grow a better looking face and some manners.

Oh boy... wrong statement...

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RE: Any real people on this site? - 2/15/2015 8:04:03 AM

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yep one can see easily why he hasnt met anyone here....

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RE: Any real people on this site? - 2/15/2015 8:12:14 AM

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RE: Any real people on this site? - 2/15/2015 8:15:50 AM

NookieNotes

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As a real person, I wouldn't touch that attitude with a 10-foot pole.

Whiny is right. And self-centered. And mean. *shakes head* Sad, really. The mean is what I really can't abide.

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RE: Any real people on this site? - 2/15/2015 8:39:15 AM

needlesandpins

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I'm a figment of my own imagination, and I've met myself several times coming back from there.

good luck with that.

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RE: Any real people on this site? - 2/15/2015 10:52:51 AM

Gauge

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quote:

ORIGINAL: submissiveone857

I have never met one single person from this site; had a couple of profiles over the years. In fact I don't think I've even talked to anybody. You can be exactly what someone describes they are looking for and send them a very detailed message only to hear nothing back "every" from anyone every time. There is an unlimited number of messages trying to get you to send money though.

Overall, this site is a pathetic waste of time full of scammers and fakes with 0 hope for anything real or sincere. If I ever loose my job I'll create a profile with photos of an attractive woman minus any view of the face and ask for 'tribute' before allowing any communication....seriously, what a joke!!!

Greetings submissiveone857 and Welcome to CollarChat, the forum side of CollarSpace. I see that you have already met some of our people and are doing a great job at fitting in around here. I encourage you to continue to involve yourself in more discussions on these forums. You seem to have much insight.

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RE: Any real people on this site? - 2/15/2015 12:23:39 PM

crumpets

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I must THANK the OP for bringing this issue to my attention.

Thank you, thank you thank you....

The reason I feel so grateful to the OP is that I've met myself, in the mirror ... and ... well ... I think I'm real, but, that's only HALF the equation.

In contrast to the OP's experience, people here HAVE contacted me through the collarspace email (as I generally don't do the contacting myself out of shyness) and, to those I've responded, two of them have graciously agreed to meet with me in the past two weeks, over coffee of course, and then some conversation, albeit a bit hesitant at first, but, one went for the next 7 hours, and we parted simply because it really was time to go (I was having so much fun with the conversation, I would have stayed forever - but - someone has to put a timer on these things sometimes)...

So, what am I grateful to the OP for pointing out for me?
Oh, no! Yikes!
I didn't even THINK to check to see if THEY showed up in the mirror though ...

Maybe they REALLY were not real! And it was all a conversation with the spirit.
NOTE TO SELF: Sidle by a mirror next Saturday when I'm with a lovely Master Chef and check to see if SHE shows up in the mirror!

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RE: Any real people on this site? - 2/15/2015 12:44:53 PM

DaddySatyr

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Well, silly me but I am going to take the OP seriously and forget about the whining, entitled posture of the post:

Yes, OP, I have met several people from this website; six of them, in fact.

To be fair; one of the people with whom I met up was traveling through the country and since we had talked about making some music, together and he was actually in the area ...

I'm guessing that's not the kind of meeting you're talking about? You wanna get laid?

That can happen, too but it isn't going to happen overnight.

You mentioned the folks that don't respond. That's an issue, also. Why not just think about this question: "Do I want the dis-courteous (or down-right rude) to be a part of my life?". They've flown their flag and showed you who they are. Skip 'em.

The ones that want you to send them money? Yes, I will agree that there may be some meat to this site encouraging the ones who are here for money. I think (60%) you might be right. I have seen deference paid to them.

Here's where we get into the crux of the matter: You.

You see, you're the common denominator, here.

Unfortunately, effort has to be put into letting people know who you are and what you're about.

I mean, for me, I usually just walk into a bar, throw my schlong on the table and the ladies flock to me. You might have to take a different approach.

Good luck.

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RE: Any real people on this site? - 2/15/2015 12:50:07 PM

Subano

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quote:

ORIGINAL: catize

Nope, just inflatable dolls who can type................

Damn. You outed me!

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RE: Any real people on this site? - 2/15/2015 1:10:32 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr
I'm guessing that's not the kind of meeting you're talking about? You wanna get laid?

I have had a similar experience as did the OP, but, it's not for any other reason than lack of my profile appealing to others, I'm sure.

So, to give the OP some serious advice, as you did, your profile has to ATTRACT those you seek.
You're not my type (maybe, yesterday, on Valentines Day, we should have started a lonely hearts club?), but, trying to take a peek at your profile, it says "profile not found", so, I'm not sure what's up with that.

I will just have to assume it wasn't appealing to your target market, as mine isn't either.

But, maybe you're active in seeking out the profiles of those who interest you?

If you're not even receiving a belated thank you, I would have to assume you're emailing those 18 year old sirens who just can't get enough of older men. That won't work. They, for the most part, aren't real, so, your initial premise is true, for a certain (maybe huge) category of profiles here.

If you find a profile interesting, check out the stats. If she's a 5'4" waif at 110 pounds, it's very likely not to be real (although it could be, so, take all into account). If she's 18, it's almost certainly not real. Start thinking real at around 150 to 200 pound and maybe 30 to 50 in age.

There are other clues, such as last login time. If she hasn't logged in since 2005, then, well, you're not likely to be the one who is going to get her to suddenly gain interest in meeting someone on Collarspace, now are you?

Other clues are in their profile. If you're used to sending one-line messages, well, I don't know if that works or not, but, given that a good portion of the profiles here say 'don't bother to send me a one-line message', well then, that probably won't work for the bulk of the women here, don'tcha think?

Likewise wit not responding to something in her profile, which, I think, almost anyone would notice if you do read the entire profile. Be particularly aware that a particular trick the most clever of Dommes do here, is that they place in the last line of their profile description the commands of how you should address her. Miss that last line, and you've missed the boat.

There are more clues, but, that should get you started in the right direction.

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