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AlabamaPrincess -> RE: Slut Shaming (3/2/2015 7:48:51 AM)
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I was asked privately if I'd ever been slut-shamed or slut-bullied in the military. Here was my reply:
Me personally, no. Reason being, I owned my sexuality, and identified with the men easier. In my career field back then, women were the severe minority. When I arrived in Korea the first time, my kennelmaster asked me flat out "whose desk will you be crawling under to get out of this assignment?" and I told him flat out I wasn't into that, and if he thought I was like that, then he obviously needed to watch me work. He then asked if I was pregnant, or married, both were met with "no". He then assigned me a dog, set up an explosive search to see how I did. From then on, he and all 36 other male dog handlers had respect for me. And the fact that I made it clear that I liked sex, well, I was more of a novelty than anything else. Back then, as a female I had to be a Dom, simply to keep from being raped or taken advantage of. *shrug* it was a weird time I guess. Due to my upbringing and that time in the military, I developed a very strong personality, more so for survival. It wasn't until Sir and I got together that I've been able to slowly let that wall down and be a woman/sub.
** Note, my job was an explosive detector dog handler, hence the "assigned me a dog", the term 'kennelmaster' etc
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