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GoddessManko -> RE: Ex play partner wants me not to attend event (3/20/2015 9:27:42 AM)
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ORIGINAL: SockySockSock
Update on the situation:
After almost 2 weeks of no contact, I sent her a mail explaining that I had reasons to go to the event that have nothing to do with her, but if she really wanted me to, I would not cancel attending to give her space. I wanted to see what her reaction would be, and whether she would have calmed down.
During this time, I had contacted one of the other event performers (we'll call her A) to cancel a (very small part) that I was due to play in her act, and that I might not go to the event because my ex was insisting that I don't go. Apart from this I didn't go into any details about our split.
She replied with a huge message saying things like "Why do I have to always think about your schedule and feelings? It is me that is angry, so until I contact you I want you to f!@k off. You got A involved in our private matter that has nothing to do with her. I'm angry that you told her we had an argument. Don't come! I was going to contact you the day before the event. I'm sad that you couldn't wait."
Each of the above things are repeated many times. I was going to paste it in here (edited for privacy) but it is just too long. Pasting it into Word, the entire message takes up a page (in 12 point font, no spacing between lines).
So far I haven't had the energy to reply. Until she says sorry, I don't want anything to do with her. I won't go to the event, because I worry that she start fighting with me in front of everyone.
So far I have not told anyone except A, and only because I had arranged something with her and didn't want to stand her up. But now I am considering telling everyone that she doesn't want me to come.
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I have not "run my mouth" to anyone about our personal business. Whenever anyone in the scene asks me, I have merely said that we have split up and she doesn't want me to come to her events or the big event (as these affect other people). I have not said anything else.
Like everyone else said, grow up. You are lying and I would not trust you. And yes, you have run your mouth about it. Maybe not to us but certainly to A and I'm aure this post is quite a display if A is reading it. This was to solidify your attempt to garner sympathy. Like others have said, stop it, grow up. She was right. STOP INVOLVING PEOPLE IN HER PERSONAL LIFE, IT MAKES SENSE FOR HER TO NOT WANT SOMEONE LIKE THAT AROUND HER. Move on, cut the crap with the bullshit scapegoating when all she is telling you to do is stop all of THIS. You even made a "SockySock" name and do you really think A who now thinks she's being this mean and catty ex is going to keep this information to herself? I seriously avoid people like you like the plague. Stop making excuses, stop demonizing her and move on, leave her alone for a while and yea, now you made the attending the event thing stupid, but that's on you.
ETA, Stop waiting for an apology, put one foot in front of the other and walk in opposite direction. If you are still this attached to her you need to give her space.
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