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mons -> watch what you send to others (7/14/2006 8:07:21 PM)
*greeting to all* *I have a problem that i think i should address here and also in the mistress fourm i just* receive a letter from a mistress! we here have spoke of this before! but she had the nerve to write me and ask me if i would care to watch her scat into her sub mouth and watch him eat. I am a private person i do not lay out anything to all ot see or watch. this was disrepectful to me i do no know her even if i did ,to ask me to watch this on web cam is crazy i scream my son said i do not want to even hear what it is about, so to all who do not know me well do not send things that are hard limits i do not mind letters saying or having am opinion but this was that worst it is a hard limit for me very hard *mons[X(]*

JessieMe -> RE: watch what you send to others (7/14/2006 8:12:08 PM)
Thank you for sharing this little glimpse into your life.

juliaoceania -> RE: watch what you send to others (7/14/2006 8:13:05 PM)
Anyone can ask you to do anything, if it isn't up your alley delete the email, and then block her. It is rude to suggest something you know is a hard limit, but it is up to you to enforce that hard limit over the internet. She can't force you to watch after all... unless I missed something in your post?

purelea2003 -> RE: watch what you send to others (7/14/2006 8:21:28 PM)
Interesting. I was contacted about the same thing by someone I've never even been in contact with previously. I wasn't offended. Why bother to be offended? I simply said - thanks but no thanks.

champagnewishes -> RE: watch what you send to others (7/14/2006 8:34:53 PM)
I understand you being upset. The best advice i can give is to not take such things personally, block and move on.

Caretakr -> RE: watch what you send to others (7/14/2006 9:23:30 PM)
Now I'm miffed,why don't I ever get mail like this?[:-]

gypsyssoul -> RE: watch what you send to others (7/14/2006 9:32:02 PM)
i get bad mail here all the time ... that say i am 'ugly' and curse me for being 'wiccan' ... or just say mean stuff 'like i am ugly but they would agree to train me if i wear a mask or bag .. over my head'... i just ignore them .. they do not deserve a second thought but i will not lie and say it doesn't hurt ... i am sorry ... you were offended ... ... its sad ... but you are truely unharmed .. so breath in and smile ~~~blessings

IronBear -> RE: watch what you send to others (7/14/2006 9:45:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Caretakr Now I'm miffed,why don't I ever get mail like this?[:-] Not to worry mate I got a message from a female in the UK who asked if I needed to view her breasts.. My reply was "No I don't need to see them, but I would enjoy looking at them" No reply ahh well next one I'll redirect to you.

Caretakr -> RE: watch what you send to others (7/14/2006 9:46:58 PM)
I got that one too, figured it was a come on for a spammer and ignored it.

EvilGeoff -> RE: watch what you send to others (7/14/2006 11:45:17 PM)
Sorry you got your nose bent out of shape mons, but consider this: To be invited to view or particpate in someone else's fantasy or scene _IS_ a compliment. Take it as such, even if the kink or fantasy isn't _your_ cup of tea. "Thank you, but no thanks, that's not my kink." is all the effort and energy you should expend on such a message. It gets your point across with class and style. Your Kink May Not Be My Kink, But Your Kink Is Okay. YIK, - Geoff

EvilGeoff -> RE: watch what you send to others (7/14/2006 11:48:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gypsyssoul i get bad mail here all the time ... that say i am 'ugly' and curse me for being 'wiccan' ... or just say mean stuff ... Asshats abound, unfortunately it seems they are everywhere. You are certainly not ugly, and I don't have any issues with wiccans. grins My first slave was a shamaness from a Native American tradition... Come up and visit us in Columbia, gypsy, we've got a nice group up here. YIK, - Columbia

LokisBrat -> RE: watch what you send to others (7/15/2006 12:07:20 AM)
The only problem we have had with invites through e-mails, had to do with credit cards and home mortgages. What are we not doing to get these other kind of invites? LOKI

IronBear -> RE: watch what you send to others (7/15/2006 1:32:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mons *greeting to all* *I have a problem that i think i should address here and also in the mistress fourm i just* receive a letter from a mistress! we here have spoke of this before! but she had the nerve to write me and ask me if i would care to watch her scat into her sub mouth and watch him eat. I am a private person i do not lay out anything to all ot see or watch. this was disrepectful to me i do no know her even if i did ,to ask me to watch this on web cam is crazy i scream my son said i do not want to even hear what it is about, so to all who do not know me well do not send things that are hard limits i do not mind letters saying or having am opinion but this was that worst it is a hard limit for me very hard *mons[X(]* Lass, you did the right thing. Just delete and block trollops like that.

feastie -> RE: watch what you send to others (7/15/2006 4:05:39 AM)
mons, Block and delete. All the moaning and posting threads about emails you don't like won't change it. Scat, even viewing it, ain't my thang either. Not sure I would have been able to find the Block and Delete buttons quickly enough for my taste. No reason to get upset and stress over it because you can't control what other people do. You can, however, control what you do with your email.

MysticFireTopaz -> RE: watch what you send to others (7/15/2006 4:18:08 AM)
I have received a number of disgusting offers involving things beyond My limits, but have never gotten one from another Domme. That's rather unusual. I agree with suggestions about deleting the e-mail and blocking her from any future contact. Lady Topaz

IronBear -> RE: watch what you send to others (7/15/2006 4:24:56 AM)
Y'know it seems that many of us are somewhat jaded. I find it refreshing when some one posts of their disgust at getting an email from some one who theoretically should be above such things. Especially when it was not asked for or even infered that the recipient may be interested. We all get the usuall offers like the UK chick who asked if I needed to see her boobs.. We can laugh and deal with the emil, however, and I am no prude or innocent, but I'd be bloody disgusted if I got an invite to watch come one crap into another's mouth.... Perhaps many of us are just fed up with the petty winging of some posts that we don't see that something like this can be upsetting for another... Just my views I guess y'all will see things as you see them..

sharainks -> RE: watch what you send to others (7/15/2006 5:56:14 AM)
Some people do this kind of stuff just because they have a pretty good idea the person getting the mail will be disgusted. They think about how that person will react and their disgust and thats what gets them off. I do think Iron Bear has a point though. Most people just get jaded to this kind of stuff, shake their head, and delete it. Some more sensitive souls find themselves find themselves mentally assaulted by it though.

MHOO314 -> RE: watch what you send to others (7/15/2006 6:15:17 AM)
mons, I am so sorry that happened, some people get their kinks that way as well---offending people--like you were advised, block and move on dear---btw how are things with the boy these days?

ArtimisBlack -> RE: watch what you send to others (7/15/2006 6:56:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gypsyssoul i get bad mail here all the time ... that say i am 'ugly' and curse me for being 'wiccan' ... or just say mean stuff 'like i am ugly but they would agree to train me if i wear a mask or bag .. over my head'... i just ignore them .. they do not deserve a second thought but i will not lie and say it doesn't hurt ... i am sorry ... you were offended ... ... its sad ... but you are truely unharmed .. so breath in and smile ~~~blessings These nasty people writing to you must have taken leave of their sanity. I have seen your profile and not only are you beautiful in appearance, you are also beautiful in spirit. I pity those who can't appreciate that.

MistressDivine30 -> RE: watch what you send to others (7/15/2006 7:30:39 AM)
I get mail here all the time from people hating on my lifestyle and I think that it is just rude and I get rude right back with them. I am a Domme not a punk bitch. I don't take shit from anyone and you shouldn't either.

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