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RE: A s/d relationship is just that.. A relationship! - 3/13/2015 9:04:11 PM

Wayward5oul

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Just to offer a little clarification here...this is not a blog. It is a forum, which is different. The expectation on forums, in my opinion and in very general terms, is that observations are posted as an invitation to comment, debate, etc...with the knowledge that everybody and their mother has the opportunity to add their 2 cents, agreeable or not. Posts in forums are invitations for others to share their take on the writing.

Blogs are more along the lines of the journal that is available on your profile. Your observations, perspectives, rants, etc...that you have no expectation of the community chiming in with their own perspectives, rants, etc.

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RE: A s/d relationship is just that.. A relationship! - 3/13/2015 10:43:03 PM

Nitewing0001

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsVictoriaReign

There gone.. I am extremely disappointed. Don't understand why everyone is being so judgmental and rude. I have never ran into people acting this way in 3 years of online time in the bdsm scene. Maybe it just speaks for these message boards so I believe I will stay off of them from now on.

Whois gone? Why are you disappointed they are gone? Whois being judgemental and rude.

ps: it does not help to do mind altering drugs and post incoherrent thoughts. Just a hint.

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RE: A s/d relationship is just that.. A relationship! - 3/13/2015 11:41:58 PM

Gauge

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsVictoriaReign

There gone.. I am extremely disappointed. Don't understand why everyone is being so judgmental and rude. I have never ran into people acting this way in 3 years of online time in the bdsm scene. Maybe it just speaks for these message boards so I believe I will stay off of them from now on.

Damn... I didn't see your original post... however, a few things strike me as relevant:

1. Findommes are an oft misunderstood group... one that great swirls of controversy surround.

2. One would think that as a dominant you could take a little criticism, but that is said without me knowing what you posted, so I do not know if it was worthy of it or not.

3. It is a good idea not to get bent out of shape about people on the Internet. Whenever you put something out there on the Internet, be prepared to get criticized... it may not happen, but it might. Thick skin is optional.

4. Throwing a fit isn't attractive. You thought highly enough about your post to put it on the forums, taking it down because you didn't like a response or two kind of says a lot about you. If you have something worthwhile to say, leave it there, you never know who might need to read it.

5. If you are going to leave, that is a shame. You might think your experience here is indicative of the overall forums... it isn't. People are allowed to speak their mind here within the rules (Hi Mod3), when you post here people may post responses you find distasteful, but they aren't always meant in such a fashion.

I wish I had seen the original post, but alas, life was happening and I had to participate.

Edited to add: You demand tribute to talk to you? I think that might be against the rules. You might want to change that.

< Message edited by Gauge -- 3/13/2015 11:43:31 PM >

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RE: A s/d relationship is just that.. A relationship! - 3/14/2015 11:02:47 AM

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But she's sooooo worthy, Gauge...

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RE: A s/d relationship is just that.. A relationship! - 3/15/2015 9:47:57 AM

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Uhm Victoria...look around you. Do you see any "non trolling" adult behavior you would encounter let's say at a brunch or a seminar? My advice, don't take online blah so seriously and if it does get to you, walk away. Focus on your search on the profile side but even that, I would be ignoring 90% of those emails and focus on those who seem to show an inkling of potential. I met some great subs here early on last year but they don't stay very long predictably. Sorry I missed this, I was away not having a fun and exciting weekend and loling my ass off. It was quite dreadful but being here makes it all better nao. I also didn't pick up three new important contacts for my business, one being a male Dominant in the pursuit of excellence. Hopefully he can help me figure out my cost vs time debacle. Now to watch the new episode for my show.

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